唔想仔女睇電視玩電腦有什麼方法?

Hellomummy

作為全職媽咪, 有充裕時間陪伴子女, 好想培養他們一套良好既生活習慣, 唔知點入手, 他們有空就好自然地看電視打電腦, 我自己唔算沉迷, 相信不是身教問題, 但卻很難將他們的生活習慣改變過來, 有無人曾成功建立子女良好生活習慣? 請分享賜教! (例如令他們喜歡看書, 畫畫 等等)

ballpen

做父母嘅一定要以身作則,如果唔想小朋友睇電視嘅,就首先自己唔睇唔開,唔想小朋友玩電腦,就要自己同小朋友一起上網,一起去一啲有益嘅網站,如果想小朋友喜歡看書,畫畫,咁做父母嘅就要係小朋友面前多啲看書同畫畫,帶小朋友多啲去圖書館,小朋友係好鍾意模仿的,所以做父母嘅一定要辛苦啲---以身作則.

其實小朋友除左讀書外,仲有好多嘢玩的,唔一定要睇電視打機,例如打波,游水,踏單車,去圖書館,甚至乎去旅行,都可以學到嘢的.

bb818

Hellomummy,

要子女養成一套良好既生活習慣一定要從小（未行未走）開始，改變過來係非常困難，我仔仔講不上有非常良好嘅生活習慣，但可以分亨一下。

我相信每個小朋友都一定鍾意睇電視打電腦/遊戲機，我仔仔亦唔例外，所以我亦會比佢睇，但多數係星期六早上。

我從小便訓練小兒8時半訓覺，現在快5歲仍然保持9時前入睡，因此一些家長指引節目一定冇份（身邊有些朋友仔女最早都要十時），因此自己亦只會9時後先開電視。我亦係少數到快5歲仍冇買過任何遊戲機比佢嘅媽咪。為使佢冇咁多空閒時間，我每星期會同佢去圖書館租十幾本書比佢平日睇（己經有年多），另外亦參加一些興趣班（佢鍾意wor） ，每日亦比佢去公園玩一小時左右﹐佢嘅食飯時間亦因訓覺時間而提早至7 時。以下為我仔仔一般生活供參考﹔

大約7-8時起身
9至1返學
1至1:30午飯
1:30至2:00午飯後做工課
2:00至3:00玩玩具，睇書
3:00 至4:30 星期二畫畫，一、三、五play piano，四睇電視
4:30 至5:30 公園
5:30洗澡
6:30晚飯
8:30 訓覺

tt2001

培養他有天份而健康的興趣，讓他全情投入，從中得到成功感，肯定自己...

我表妹(13歲)，自細習舞，經常表演；表弟(15歲)善游泳，經常比賽，兩個都對自已的興趣抱有目標，TV/上網=浪費時間(佢地自己講)！

DESP

Agree with bb818.  What kind of person you want your children to be and what habits they have, you have first to be that kind of person.  

My 2 daughters (P.2 and K1) will ask me first when they want to watch videos or use the computer.  Actually, they never want to watch TV as they don't have this kind of habit.  Since they were young, I just let them watch educational videos I bought and they never have watched any cartoons from the TV channels.  Till now, every night we just switch on the television for 1/2 hour to watch news.  And they are ready for bed at 8:30pm and should have slept before 9pm.  If we, parents, want to watch TV, we just switched it on only when they are fast asleep.

Actually between dinner and bedtime, time is short, just about 1.5 hours.  Within this 1.5 hours, you have a lot of things to do with the kids.  Recently, my daughter loves to play any kind of chess.  TV can never attract them as they have many other kinds of hobbies they like more.  So playing chess, eating some fruit, practising piano or playing with sister will take them good enough time at night.
They will not bargain with you. They will only take it for granted as they already get used to it.

Enchante

唔想仔女睇電視玩電腦有什麼方法


take out the plug loh. so easy lah

jazzmama

DESP

所謂三歲定八十, 如果小朋友已有這習慣, 是很難馬上停止他.
小朋友有時要看 CARTOON, 回校才有話題跟其他同學溝通.
相信電腦方面比較容易控制, 因DELETE 所有 GAMES, 小朋友無得玩, 若私下DOWNLOAD, 可以鎖 PASSWORD, 唔比小朋友自己開機.
至於電視, 莫講小朋友, 大人有時都會追劇習啦,
相信一家人定下時間表, 一齊守法啦