是否讀男女校心智發展平衡些呢?

bb2

我以前中學讀女校...我又唔覺我心智發展有問題喎......哈哈....況且好多好既學校都係男校或女校, 對我黎講都係學校本身質素同埋理念重要D...唔理佢係男女校定係單性學校...

MAMAMEEE

我都係諗緊呢個問題, 一直都未有一定的答案. 應該話如果兩間素質一樣的學校, 我會傾向選擇男女校, 但如果間女校的素質非常好, 都值得考慮吓...

原因, 唔係怕小朋友有任何心理上的問題, 有時看到BK上的討論, 似乎想得太多了. 只係覺得希望由小到大, 給孩子的生活和社會接近一點. 身邊有理性, 亦有感性的人. 有大智慧的, 亦有非常細心仔細的人. 雖然, 男校或女校有其"儘興"之處, 但我卻喜歡男女的相處間應有的距離. 會不會太早談情說愛等? 這一切皆與家庭教育有關. 說真的, 我身邊的"女校"同事, 和同意間的相處總有些不夠'豁達'. 人是很好, 但總好像欠缺了些甚麼...
大家一起討論吓...

cpcog

I think studying in co-ed schools would be happier. So, I wouldn't choose any girls' school for my daughter. Once we asked her and she also prefers co-ed schools. She said she doesn't just want to make friends with girls.

Sorb

I am from a girl only secondary school too.  I have been thinking of this question over the past few months too.  I therefore have done a survey by asking myself and 3 of my collegues (from girl only school too) the same question: "If you have a daughter, will you let them study in a girl only school since primary school."

All of our answers are "Definately No". Those girl only schools involved in my survey are:  St Paul Convent, Maryknoll, Heep Yunn and 庇理羅士.

bb2

我個friend 就相反, 佢兩個女都首選要讀番女校...

Sorb

There is no definately Yes or No answer.  I think the answer to the survey all depends on one's experience.  My answer is NO because I participated in school sport team while in school, so, know many Tom-boy or Lesbian (which are more easier to find in sport team), so, have the impression that girl only school has higher risk of this (just higher riske ge) and wants to avoid if possible.  Another collegue also replied No with the above rationale.

Two of my collegues answer No because they think their ability to communicate with opposite sex should be much better if they are not from girl only school.

mosibaby

我都諗過呢個問題!

我自己都係讀男女校, 而家大女考到一間不錯的一條龍女校(如果好彩直升的話), 本來我同我老公都好開心, 但係睇左之前有位bk mami講既女校問題, 的確令我有點擔心!

如果係我自己讀的話我一定prefer男女校, 但係如果自己個女又想佢讀女校, 感覺會純品d, 冇咁易學壞, 但係就真係怕佢好難識異性或唔識同異性相處! 因為我身邊那些高學歷的女校學生真係好難識男仔, 佢地話真係唔係好識同d男仔相處, 而且個pool又細, 真係好難搵~

有冇mami可以分享下?

Sorb

I like your comment:  如果係我自己讀的話我一定prefer男女校, 但係如果自己個女又想佢讀女校.  

原帖由 mosibaby 於 10-8-23 22:35 發表
我都諗過呢個問題!

我自己都係讀男女校, 而家大女考到一間不錯的一條龍女校(如果好彩直升的話), 本來我同我老公都好開心, 但係睇左之前有位bk mami講既女校問題, 的確令我有點擔心!

如果係我自己讀的話我一定pref ...

mosibaby

原帖由 Sorb 於 10-8-24 01:15 發表
I like your comment:  如果係我自己讀的話我一定prefer男女校, 但係如果自己個女又想佢讀女校.  

  

多謝晒!

咁除左st paul co-ed呢d超級名校, 仲有冇d比較好既男女校可以介紹下? prefer香港區~

ggoo

我覺得可以問下小朋友意見鍾意男女校定單性學校.我個女就話一定唔讀女校,要讀男女校,佢話有男仔女仔一齊玩會開心d,我會尊重佢既意見.
港島較為好既男女校(單講津校)我知有基灣小學（愛蝶灣）,聖公會柴灣聖米迦勒小學,北角循道學校,北角官立小學,軒尼詩道官立小學,聖公會聖雅各小學.仲有其他,不能一一盡錄.之前有個topic專講12/14/16 校網既小學,你可以上去睇下,資料好詳盡.

原帖由 mosibaby 於 10-8-24 14:12 發表


多謝晒!

咁除左st paul co-ed呢d超級名校, 仲有冇d比較好既男女校可以介紹下? prefer香港區~

Sorb

Based on my own experience in girl only school, I can only agreed your #4 體驗 only.....and for the lesbians that I know, based on my understanding, they were not in-born to have lesbian tendancy, they may not have this tendency if they were not in a single sex school.  I really feel sorry for them (inside my heart only) when I meet them each time.  Their parents do not know about it until now.

Lastly, if one is targeting 1st line famous schools, single sex maybe your only choice other than St Paul Co-ed. But if you can accept and step back a little bit, I still think there are lots of good primary co-ed schools for you to choose.  

quote]原帖由 wunma 於 10-8-24 14:47 發表
有正常社交圈子, 有足夠的家庭教育, 單性學校理應不會有問題.

不抗拒男女校, 但喜歡單性學校多些. 女兒讀女校有7年, 兒子讀男校有11年, 得出的體驗是:
1. 校園生活更愉快, 因為顧忌少;
2. 同學間常以師兄弟, 師姊 ... [/quo

Sorb

Haha, I think you have mistaken me lah.  I have a very happy school life and all my good friends are from that girl only school.  I just do not agree your statment that girl only school is more 愉快 than Co-ed or vice versa.  Or girl only school  較不注重打扮. Many of my girl friends 注重打扮 even in school too : )

I am just sharing my experience and don't want to pin-point a particular school to scare the parents away.  Girl only school has its good side and down side, so, it is all up to the parents to weight and choose.  

原帖由 wunma 於 10-8-24 16:55 發表


請問妳讀哪間女呢? 妳的學校生活不愉快?

有些女仔好喜歡手拖手, 攬頭攬頸的, 或是真的好鍾意某同學, 不代表係同性戀, 當遇上心儀男仔時便正常返, 男仔
也母也母地亦不一定係基. ...

BBTWIN

我有一對女, 我都傾向報女校多些. 我以前由小學到中學都係男女校, 但係我唔覺o係心智發展會有什麼特別幫助. 反而我覺得o係某些唔方便o既日子令我好embarrassed. 一路以來我最好o既朋友都係女同學, 成班女同學約埋一齊返學同食lunch, 大家可以無所不談. 如果加多個男生, 我一定冇o甘自在.  果時我反而會prefer自己讀女校多過男女校. 我自己就有這樣的體會.

我有幾個朋友都叫我應比對女讀男女校, 話驚佢地將來唔識同異性相處. 不過我自己都係男女校出來的, 又不見得我特別懂得同異性相處, 我會比較相信"人緣"多些. 其實除左學校, 都有好多機會比兩性相處的地方. 至於擔心單性學校普遍出現同性戀現象, 我就覺得除非係先天(有呢個基因存在), 要後天培養其實係好難. 我自己為例, 果時我只鐘意同女同學一起, 唔鐘意班男生. 但係我百份百清楚自己只喜歡男性. 唔係les始終都唔會係, 係就讀男女校一樣會係.

ahtan

原帖由 mosibaby 於 10-8-24 14:12 發表


多謝晒!

咁除左st paul co-ed呢d超級名校, 仲有冇d比較好既男女校可以介紹下? prefer香港區~

St. Stephens College in Stanley is pretty good too right?