我應該點做好？

師奶

All Ma
由一開始我都冇相信兒子說話,做錯事只會鬧佢更試過出手打佢，但近日我好強烈感覺個仔比同學整估，點解咁講？
1.2星期前,家課冊寫住欠帶常識書，我覺得好奇怪，本書反轉左放入第2格，我日日check書包,我習慣把書正面放入第一格，當時我鬧左個仔幾句點解吾找清楚，佢話吾見有，我覺得係佢吾小心吾睇清楚。
2.今個星期一書包濕左，因為水壺關吾實漏水,我又鬧左幾句,返屋企用風筒吹乾,好記得有本英文writing薄。
3.星期二放學個仔o羅住張中文習作紙話，對吾住濕左，張紙好污穢tin，佢解釋跌左落地下。再睇書包裹本英文書書面好污穢同小小濕,佢解釋吾知點解係地下。
4.星期三書包裹吾見左本writing簿,本writing簿星期一仲係書包,之後冇用過抄書，所以吾會收左,今個假期因要抄書變左冇簿用，我同佢上課室找過都係冇係櫃桶，問過同班同學話今日冇派簿。我找過屋企都係冇，但我很定星期一見過本簿。
我很強烈感覺個仔比人整估，如果放完假本簿出現返,就証明我估計冇錯，但我可以點做好？











      

Jeffhouse

For my son, I am using the following teaching approaches:

1. Build up a trust relationship with him so that he will keep telling you everything he think and experience.

2. Be positive & patience and try to think whether it's his "intentional" mistake.

3. Body punishment is not a good teaching method.

4. Try your best to avoid from lossing temper when you are punishing to your son.

Sorry for the above personal opinion. Just for sharing!

WYmom

師奶 寫道:
All Ma
由一開始我都冇相信兒子說話,做錯事只會鬧佢更試過出手打佢，但近日我好強烈感覺個仔比同學整估

Which year is your son studying? It is very common for primary kids to forget this and that, don't think that you should scold or beat your son, can ask him what is happening at school, and help him organizing his books better.  Seems that you worry too much.

If you don't trust your son, your son will also not tell you anything, and also will not like you as you only scold or beat him.  It is the worst way of teaching kids.  My mother is like this and I seldom talk to her since childhood.  So hope you can control your temper and teach your son in a nice way.

chelsea

What have done have done.  Try to open the dialogue again, say from the joyful experience in school first, ask him the minor issue as food in school, then classmate, then teacher, the teaching method, end up to be the missing piece of information, that is why and what has happened.

Ask him whether he is satisfy his absence mind and the dirt on his book, if he is not satisfy, does he want to change, if change, have to use his heart to do so.

Younger child to this world is full of mystery, if you using "beat" as a communication method or a solution, your son will copy exactly what you are doing, mirror effect.  

Hope the next time you share with us is you trust/respect your son and a happy life thereafter.

Chelsea

師奶

All Ma
由一開始個仔比人踏考試卷，吾見文具我都沒有信任他，直至新年前捉到一位同學踏污穢及踏爛左本數學簿，我先發覺一年級小學生都可以咁壞心腸，得到班主任幫助，我以為可以告一段落，但近日發生d事情，令我再起疑心，亦由於我錯怪過兒子，所以今次我信他。問題是本writing簿如果出現返，我認否話比班主任知？其次我都擔心放完假，我仔用另一本新簿做功課，要吾要同老師解釋？還是以靜制動，等佢再偷先講？？