大家想吾想子女入精英班

師奶

我覺得兒子有能力讀書，有能力在全級60名內，但妹妹話讀精英班好大壓力，功課會多d學野會多d，好辛苦架！叫我吾好谷個仔，因老師講過佢未盡全力，話佢可做之作。
妹妹話學習不是求名次，吾好谷，係吾係讀書材料係整定ga谷都冇用，我個仔在一間不過不失小學讀，我希望他能保持60名內，將來升中吾洗去bank 3學校，我細妹話咁諗吾arm,對佢太大壓力啦！
All Ma 真心講你o地谷吾谷,有沒有定下全級考第幾以上？

ritb

要谷，但不可谷太盡，我驚小學谷完，上中學唔識自學。至於名次，就要視乎是甚麼學校，如果是ｔｏｐ的學校在全級２/３人的前面，普通學校在該校ｂａｎｄ　１　的％　之內便可以了，考頭十名壓力很大啊。
我都想佢開開心心讀書，衰在冇＄，他日無遺產分，佢要自力更新，有冇公司請你，多數靠睇成績。（當然會有其他因素：人際、ＥＱ、解難能力．．．．．．）

siulisa

小朋友唔谷就假架, 有幾多小朋友係自覺架, 但又唔可以谷得太過份, 我個人希望小朋友保持係全級30名內, 當然最好係全級20名喇, 不過家長都要睇返自已小朋友的資質架, 千萬唔可

謙仔媽咪

如果佢既成績入到精英班, 即是老師認為佢可以應付到,
精英班d老師都會好d架, 大部份都係主任級或資深老師. 因為大家都係叻仔叻女, 好易明白, 秩序好d, 講書既進度都會快d, 都師亦會比較有心機教.

師奶

All Ma
我仔間學校未係bard 1級,朋友話屬brad 2級，我仔個區(TKO)d小學好多間都好好，中學校網就差d，所以我先要個仔成績吾好太差，最好入精英班，睇落我要求全級60名內都吾係好過份。
講開又講，我仔放完復活節就立即測驗，我o地出左1次街，之後就做功課，盡量留返d時間溫習，希望佢考好d，禮物佢都揀定左啦！等測驗完先再去街街同睇戲。

rr

師奶 寫道:

All Ma 真心講你o地谷吾谷,有沒有定下全級考第幾以上？

我囡囡學校無分名次, 亦無精英班, 有時我都覺得自己無方向, 唔知點幫小朋友, 我自己不覺谷, 但朋友中都話我好谷個囡,  , 但溫書時便要盡力, 好似阿囡份人較lazy, 要溫習她已覺得是壓力了   但她忘了這只是她目前唯一的工作.

rr

LINUS

唔好咁快用個"谷"字. 好似緊張子女成績有罪咁.
係就着他的性格, 幫他盡量發輝!

  

Sindy

係有精英班既學校,梗係要入精英班啦,我地校長話,以前係間有精英班既學校度做,唔入精英班=放棄左佢咁濟架啦

LaLaMa

Sindy 寫道:
係有精英班既學校,梗係要入精英班啦,我地校長話,以前係間有精英班既學校度做,唔入精英班=放棄左佢咁濟架啦

唔好講到放棄咁嚴重啦!! 但的確精英班的老師比較資深些, 唉, 所以教統局嘅金句 : [求學不是求分數] 真係  ,    人, 永遠都會分等級, 無論在學校 / 社會都一樣, 希望大家好好教育下一代, 成為未來的精英一族 !!

Jamesmama

Agree LaLaMa.   

Sindy

LaLaMa 寫道:
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Sindy 寫道:
係有精英班既學校,梗係要入精英班啦,我地校長話,以前係間有精英班既學校度做,唔入精英班=放棄左佢咁濟架啦

唔好講到放棄咁嚴重啦!! 但的確精英班的老師比較資深些, 唉, 所以教統局

師奶

Sindy 寫道:
係有精英班既學校,梗係要入精英班啦,我地校長話,以前係間有精英班既學校度做,唔入精英班=放棄左佢咁濟架啦

我都驚架,話說有一位媽咪講TKO有一間名小學,講到明A、B班係好學生,C&D學生係垃圾，仲有老師話C班係cat學生,D班學生係dog學生。我聽完真係吾開心，如果我仔仔比老師形容cat&dog 學生,我呢願轉校,band 1都咁話。

師奶

rr
係呀！有時d壓力來自四週，有時d朋友親戚又要問成績，問完又要比較，之後又話我谷個仔又話洗吾洗咁緊張，又話自己吾會比壓力佢等等....，講咩吾緊又同我仔比，我精啦再有親戚朋友問我,我都話成績不過不失算吧啦！費事煩

LINUS

師奶:
唔使謙, 有三姑六婆真係直接問你, 若考得好就直接話佢知. 俾說話你聽的人只是嫉妒吧.     

哈里波特

我d女好幸福, 學校無分精英班. 年年從新排位, 班班都有精英.  自己心知小朋友的排名, 谷唔谷自己決定, 你又可以選擇不聞不問, 自己讀自己的書, 只向自己挑戰, 你話幾好呢.

bb2001

師奶 寫道:
rr
係呀！有時d壓力來自四週，有時d朋友親戚又要問成績，問完又要比較，之後又話我谷個仔又話洗吾洗咁緊張，又話自己吾會比壓力佢等等....，講咩吾緊又同我仔比，我精啦再有親戚朋友問我,我都話成績不過不失算吧啦！費事煩

我都係咁講。"OK 啦"

lam2hei

如果學校有精英班, 梗係
想, 否則, 有被歧視感覺!

好在, 小女的學校係
無分精英班!

honeyabc

I think both system have their adv and disadv.  It depends on how you guide your kids to adopt and face the system of their school.

For me, I would expect my daughter to be within 50 out of 200 students.  As my daughter's school has such classification since P.3, I also want her to be in class A/B (40 students for each class) because all the A/B classes' students can go to Band 1 secondary school.  Over 90% will go to band 2 or even band 3.

Not only school, our world is full of competition, the most important thing is learning to face it. Right!

honeyabc

:wink:

Sindy

聽講>>精英制除左標籤左學生之外,唔好處係要抽調其他班既老師幫手,間接剝削了比較弱學生的資源,但只得少數精英學生受惠,勞師動眾咁,唔多值, 呢個都唔係一個面對競爭既問題

hhma

honeyabc
好岩聽呀!!!   

honeyabc 寫道:
I think both system have their adv and disadv.  It depends on how you guide your kids to adopt and face the system of their school.

For me, I would expect my daughter to be within 50 out of 200 students.  As my daughter's school has such classification since P.3, I also want her to be in class A/B (40 students for each class) because all the A/B classes' students can go to Band 1 secondary school.  Over 90% will go to band 2 or even band 3.

Not only school, our world is full of competition, the most important thing is learning to face it. Right!

honeyabc

:wink: