有冇仔女學跆拳道的媽咪請入來傾下

marinayiu

Hi, 各位媽咪,

我囡囡4.5歲開始在學校開的跆拳道班學跆拳道, 到現在已經半年了, 她開頭唔係好中意, 話累, 但後來已沒再話唔中意了, 有時放完個長假後, 有會話唔中意返(跆拳道), 最近這兩個星期, 佢又話佢無學到, 因為累坐在隔壁睇其他小朋友玩, 我有些疑問, 請有經驗的媽咪幫忙解答下:

1. 囡囡學了半年, 但在家中好少表演給父母睇,(除非我叫佢, 才會打少少給我睇)
2. 跆拳道老師亦從未與家長聯絡過, 唔知佢學成點?就算這兩次,囡囡話坐在隔離無學,也無講過.

你地認為佢地算唔算不負責任呢?
我應唔應該繼續比囡囡學呢? (佢好像興趣真係唔大)

yyvonne

hi, marinayiu ,

我個仔六歲半, 學了半年有多, 剛考了黃帶! 佢就有興趣學, 我話冇時間想 cut 佢都唔制! 但都係在家中好少表演給父母睇, 除了接近考試時才會練給我們看!

我覺得你應該同導師傾下, 瞭解下你囡囡上堂嘅情況先! 可唔可以留係度睇住佢上堂架?

若然你囡囡真係話唔中意學跆拳道, 咁咪停左佢囉, 去學d佢鍾意嘅活動或興趣班咪仲好, 唔洗浪費時間去學d佢冇興趣嘅活動! 4.5歲, 大把野學啦! 梗有一樣喏佢! 好似我亞仔, 而家都仲學緊7樣野!

:wink:  :wink:  :wink:  :wink:

ChunChunMummy

想問學跆拳道有什

marinayiu

多謝各位媽咪的回應

我其實有打電話回學校問過, 學校話叫教練回電話給我, 但都已3日了, 仍未接到教練的電話, 所以我覺得他們真的很不負責任.

講回我囡囡, 3歲時, 參加學校的芭蕾舞班, 學了半年便沒學了, 因為她說她不喜歡. 這半年期間, 總是要軟硬兼施,才能讓她去上課, 所以我沒有再逼她去了.

3.5歲時, 話要學鋼琴, 於是讓她去學了4堂, 點知佢不夠耐性, 又不想做練習, 加上佢手指未夠力, 又放棄了, 想等佢大d再去學.

這次跆拳道, 我感覺她興趣比之前兩樣要大些, 但現在又出現問題了, 其實我知她性格係比較懶, 怕辛苦,慢熱, 所以不想佢成日半途而廢.

不過她對畫畫就好中意, 從來都不會有以上的問題.  

你地話, 我應該怎樣處理呢?  

Racquel

My daughter has learnt for about 6 months and got a yellow belt before X'mas.

I think it is suitable for the following situations:

1. If your kids are energetic/sportive and are interested in it, let them release their energy.

2. If your kids are not self-discipline enough, let them attend the class.

However, the most important things before attending any class is to ride on the interest of the kids.  Sometimes, it is better to let them feel hungry for an activity before really joining it.  Otherwise, they will easily give up after a few class.

On your case, you may try to play with him/her together and test if he/she is really fed up with the activie or due to any other reason behind.

Some kids, especially those little boy/girl, they need parents enouragement.

Racquel