A仔無耐性

fatpam

Give his favourite toys, books or snacks,sing songs with him.

[ 本帖最後由 fatpam 於 11-8-27 14:27 編輯 ]

autunmbb

跟他唱歌或數數字，讓他明白等候是會結束的，等候完給他鼓勵，時間可以由1-5開始，慢慢加。喜歡唱歌也可以。

fatpam

平日生活上要訓練佢學習排隊等一陣，如排隊去廁所洗手、取小食，一齊數１－１０，遁序漸進，唔好要小朋友一開始等好耐，佢做到大讚佢。

BeBe媽媽

我仔都係無耐性.但老師話好多正常小朋友都無耐性架!
我仔習慣用1,2,3....ETC去叫佢做野...等待....有時佢自己會叫我地數.
當然,都係要不停提點!

litseed

我個仔都冇耐性, 參加一些社交課程, 一要排隊就周圍走, 或者打尖, 我都唔知點做好.... 好嬲. 所以每次陪佢上完堂, 個人都會好down.

LPYdad1

Dear wah37,

For patience, I have got little tricks you might try.
Bought some small toys, such as a small squeezable doll which size is less than his paw. Small toys you might bought in 7-11. He has to like playing w/ it but not his favourite so as to avoid obsession & divert too much of his attention. I have got a toy camera with a few buttons, a little doll and a small writing & erasable pad from"Mujji". Once he lost his patience in lining up or need waiting such as waiting other kids dining, you should let him play with his toys. Those toys not only keep him on track & retreatable, but also provide a little training in sensory,  fine motor & attention sklls.
For the time you can't use toy or even words in warning (like wedding, church, funeral, ceremony, etc) or some sudden event but need to keep him in silence or still,
first try is to lower down your self with some eye contact if possible, stop him by putting your hand on his chest, rug his chest if possible. Hug him or even hold me if allowed and then ask him to calm or tell him follow what u want him to do.  The last thing you should do is to leave the place & comfort/ask him in a private corner if he still in struggle or something. Above steps is selective, u dont need to do every step in one issue. Saying like your kid jump a line, you just have to lower yrself & put yr hand to stop him & ask him to queue.
Pls remember non-autistic kids also has problem in patience & impulsiveness. It is not a "franchise" to autism. Dont treat as it is a feature of autism.
Talk more about impulsivenss next time if you wan to know.