我很傷心,請你們...為人父母者...指點如何做...

CarChu

小兒今天上完課外班時大哭了30分鐘,其間情緒十分激動,我們非常心痛. My husband was the one to pick him up from the drawing class, no one from that institution dare to have eye contact with my husband while he was there. But we are very sure that our son is being hurt quite seriously and there is no way for him to releast at the class, the little one just kept on banging the walk while walked down the building with his father. 小兒於心情平復後說: 我不要再去劃班, 我一路哭, 姐姐及哥哥不停笑………


I always have a feeling that those 姐姐哥哥 and tutor are not friendly to my son, from 他們平時的目光, 亦已決定上完最後兩課後不再繼續….唉, 不知如何形容現在的心情.
我如何替小兒拿回一個公道….我很傷心, 真的很傷心.

ruzicow

Carchu,

很難過你的小朋友發生這些事. 雖然還不是很清楚具體是什麼事,但小朋友的反應已令到作為父母的我們心痛.
Calm and comfort your child first. Then ask him what's happened in the class. BTW, Did you talk to the tutors there?

cheers,

jowin

carchu,

So sorry to hear about that.  

建議要問清楚發生甚麼事？導師、你的小朋友都要問。奇怪你先生不問清楚便走？怕這個不愉快經驗對小朋友有不好的影響！你說的是哥哥姐姐，是centre的staff？

睡覺

是不是你的小朋友係畫班中年紀最小，一同上堂的孩子都較大，相差甚遠。如是者，你個小朋友做唔到大哥哥姐姐的能力可以做到的畫作....所以佢地笑佢？？

janetc

Hi CarChu,
個仔喊,點解你地唔係即時去了解? 難道你唔想知咩? 要問清楚知道問題出係邊,仔仔calm down後同佢傾番. 如果係學校姐姐哥哥 and tutor有問題,作為消費者既我實 佢, 始終傷害佢弱小心靈.

可否話我知邊間學校. Thanks!

yuetmama

Carchu,

Sorry to hear about that.   :-| Calm down yourself & comfort your kid first.  Discuss with your kid gently & see if he can disclose what has happened....of course show your sympathy & understanding (no matter you understand or not).  You better ring the drawing centre to get clarification.   Don't bother to attend 2 more lessons if your kid feel disgusting of it.  :-|

CarChu

Thank you for all of your concern.  We have been very busy visiting the centre and ask for a trueful explanation of what had happened and whats hurted my son that much.   

As I am running out of time to arrange the household, I will keep you posted on the conversation with the centre later today.

Sincerely thanks,