我好失敗,好沮喪

軍曹媽咪

今日仔仔結業礼,看到有小朋友拿着獎杯,是中文寫字及繪畫頭三名,我仔仔是在屋村內的幼稚園,�班十五人左右,他好好記性,但我和我先生冇特別 谷佢,我哋個理念係:�生人最開心無壓力就係童年,眼見有些父母 谷得個小朋友好 行,所以我們不會要但學野學到密麻麻,他在幼稚園成績中上,但我好担心他九月升小一.....聖約瑟英文小學,

Anita_Lee

我又覺得人生唔係靜係讀書, 童年真係好快過, 無謂制造太多壓力比佢地, 但如果認為學d野可以增加佢o既自信o既, 咪 go ahead law, 唔好同人地比較, 對小朋友好唔公平, 每個人o既 potential 都唔同, 各有所長, 小一o甘快就擔心, 仲有排擔心呀!

G-Ma

軍曹媽咪,

我唔係好明白點解你會覺得好失敗,好沮喪?  幼稚園成績好與唔好作用都不大, 既然你個仔都考到間好既小學, 又何必介懷其他小朋友攞獎, 其實你講果d寫字及繪畫獎都唔係一d咁大不了既獎, 都係用作鼓勵下小朋友, 攞唔到都無咩影響.  讀書條路咁長, 又何必咁細個就要佢地投入競爭行列, 係一個有壓力既環境長大呢.

LV77

唔好唔開心 !

我都好明白你心入面感受! 我都有俾我囝囝讀十幾項課外活動(人地話個樣好,就讀個樣), 我個仔樣樣都願意上堂, 但可能我無特別在家谷佢或幫佢溫習(再加佢天資真係一般 )所以無一樣突出,人地攞HONORS，佢最多都係得Merit    ｏ　

初初自我安慰諗可能未搵到一樣適合佢,或未發掘到佢既潛能,但而家反而覺得可能佢真只是一般 "凡夫俗子",無天份啊 !    

個個家長有幾間學校揀,但我就不斷遞申請表/profilio都無回覆，心都淡埋 !    不斷安慰自 "明天會更好 " , 上天會有好既安排俾佢....... :idea:

如此兩個月,無驚喜既,我囝囝都會入讀聖若瑟 (九龍灣),屆時
有機會同班喎 !!!!

Tiffanyma

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G-Ma 寫道:
軍曹媽咪,

我唔係好明白點解你會覺得好失敗,好沮喪?  幼稚園成績好與唔好作用都不大, 既然你個仔都考到間好既小學, 又何必介懷其他小朋友

lovagal

my daughter has an average of 93 but still does not get any award.  for example for the subject "general knowledge"  she got 99 but still she didn't get the award.  so I think that the person who got the award has 100!  As parents, we all like to see our children go on stage and get awards, I'm no exception.  to be honest, i was a little disappointed but i keep telling myself and my daughter that awards doesn't mean everything, it's good to get them but it doesn't mean you're not good if you don't get them, as long as you've tried your best

one thing i really don't understand though, in my daughter's class the person who got the "good student award" was just found cheating on her english dictation 2 months ago!!    is life fair or what??!!

btw, my daughter's in P2

Clementmammy

Dear,

I agree you theory.But since he don't have any pressure in his passed 3 years kindergarten. I really don't think he can manage in St. Joseph school. (Just my opinion).

St. Joseph is pretty tough. As my brother was studying in this school long time ago. And now a lot of my friends's son were in this school. When the time we chat together, all mummy really need to study with them day and night. Many homework, test and exam. I don't mean your son cannot manage, but I am sure you and your husband (of course him) will have a hard time after your son get into this school in this coming Sept.

goldking2

其實都好矛盾, 我相信我女兒有個快樂的幼稚園生活. 但當我今年小一要扣門面試時, 眼見其他小朋友如此利害,都沒有其他辦法,唯有開始"谷"佢.

ink

Dear all,

我個女又係一樣都無，但佢好攪笑咁話佢下年第一、二次考試要唔合格，之後第三次考試要高分d，咁就有進步獎，真係比佢激死。

LOOLOO

有心唔怕遲 !!  但請不要用'谷'的方法.

manmum

我好同意呢位媽咪講

carcar123

我從不羨慕人, 亦不會嫉妒人, 因為我知道天生我才必有用, 與及三人行必有我師這些道理.  每個人都各有所長, 雖然別人有既優點自己未可擁有, 但自己也有別人沒有既優點, 亦未見得比人遜色呀, 只要盡力而為, 健康快樂,  一定活得自在, 有時獎在心中, 多 d 欣賞自己既優點啦! No need to care other one.

cheungmp

我仔仔剛剛派了成績表，除

LPHMUM

其實家長唔多唔小都會比較