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Hi Christi,
I am about to go to bed but notice your message here so I guess I have to delay my sleep...
Thanks for the question since I think you may be the first one who ask me WHY I go for a one-dragon kindergarten.
I guess naturally, many parents would automatically consider one-dragon as an advantage and ignore the actual considerations in behind.
First of all, I didn't begin the kindergarten search with one-dragon kindergarten at all, I guess I don't even aware there are such options to begin with. I remember I just feel very frustrated that I didn't pick a wife who graduated from a primary school that still exist! Just kidding but as I graduated from boys' school and my wife's primary school has closed so that means we need to be lucky I guess? However, the fact is it leave us with very little options.
So, I begin looking for which nets to move to so can have better chance to find a good primary school. However, the more time I spent on it, and realize there are just too many uncertainties in it and I feel very much handicapped. As a result, I am seeking for alternatives......
Then I realize the beauty of private primary schools (come with 6 years of tuition costs) as insurance. So I start to look for private primary which guarantee admissions to own kindergarten students. The amazing fact that I found was that only 2% of each year's students have this luxury to be secured a seat at a decent primary school, and it seems to give me great comfort.
I need to stress I didn't plan to set the path for my daughter at this point. However, here is one primary objective for me finding one-dragon kindergarten. I do not want my daughter spent her kindergarten time busy winning this and that certificates just to build a great profile for primary school application and door-knocking. I simply don't agree with this approach and I want her to actually enjoy and learn through this 3 years. Although it seems by putting her in one of these kindergartens seems to limit her options, but by doing so, it actually leave her with greater flexibility to choose her own path.
So, the intention of finding one-dragon kindergarten, is to allow my daughter to have the greatest freedom to develop based on her own talent and interest, into whoever she should be. I think I have explained this to many parents, my plan is only to avoid the hassle on primary school application. She will need to face the challenge and handle secondary school application herself. Of course, if she likes and academic capable, she can study in same school for 15 years here. However, it is not a must to me and I would like her to experience the competitiveness and ability to handle pressure at an earlier age when she need to plan for her own secondary study.
Honestly, I would have no idea what secondary school will fit her the most so I am determined to leave this decision to herself. Actually, she is the one who chose the current one out of all the kindergartens she interviewed, but not us as parents. We are just there to support her through this process, all the interview questions to parents are answered sincerely so we won't enter a wrong kindergarten if our belief doesn't match their expectation.
So, this is a 9-year plan instead of a 15-year plan. This is my personal view on the education, kindergarten serve as the place to establish good moral standard, primary school to provide solid fundamental knowledge and secondary school, will be the place where she can develop her own social skills and prepare for further study based on her own talents and interest. This is a simple version but just a rough picture of how I see the education system in Hong Kong.
I guess it is already a very long answer and speaks out quite a few of what my belief in behind. Hope it is useful for your consideration.
Ian
原帖由 Christi 於 10-7-28 23:56 發表
Ian,
知道你囡囡轉了去一間一條龍的.想請問,你報一條龍時囡囡應只是2歲幾,這麼早就為她選定未來10幾年的教育方式,不會過早嗎?有沒有想過等她再大幾年,才為她選小學?
我明白一條龍的好處,也知道你重視紀律問題.我是 ...
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