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發表於 12-2-14 18:47 |只看該作者 |倒序瀏覽 |打印
Do you agree that children in Hong Kong are always under tight schedule?  "Hurry up!" seems to be the most frequent phrase that we parents say to our kids every day.  My daughter is now K3, and in order to prepare her for the busy primary school life, I started to push her to do things quickly.  "Hurry up!" has become my "favourite" words!  I sometimes feel a bit helpless.
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發表於 12-2-14 20:52 |只看該作者
Yes, agreed...but this ruin the relationship with my kid.  He is now in P.2, I started to learn to relax and let him to study 80% himself with 20% on my assistance...Not bad, he's still top ten this year...more important, our relationship improves a lot.

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發表於 12-2-15 17:05 |只看該作者
回復 tws2010 的帖子

Yes , this is my frequent words to my daughter too.. especially before school and before bed times... she becomes more annoyed when i said so ... so now i try to tell myself not to say so ....Tws2010.. my girl is also in P2.. and now trying to let her do ehr things.. but she is too slow in everything.. e.g pack her school bag needs 45 mins each nite,,, how i not to  tell her 'hurry up "?? i want her to sleep earlier.....sigh

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發表於 12-2-15 17:37 |只看該作者
Ai, sometimes I don't know whether I am doing the right things.  My daughter has the following "bad habits" :

Every morning when she wakes up, she likes to tell me what happened in her dream last night before she really gets out of bed.  (I tell her, "No time la, hurry up, get up la!")

She likes to sing when brushing her teeth.  (I tell her, "No singing.  Hurry up!")

When she is eating, she always likes to imagine a story in her mind.  (I tell her, "No day-dreaming!  Hurry up!")

When she is taking a bath, she likes to play spelling game or IQ quiz with me.  (I tell her, "Concentrate on bathing la.  No time la.")

Before she sleeps she will pray with me together.  She likes to thank Jesus for every single little thing happening in the day.  (I tell her, "Don't pray for so long la.  Sleep quickly la!")

I really don't know whether I have ruined her creative thinking and happy life.  But if I allow her to drag on, she will never be able to finish all the things ......  don't know what will happen in primary school .......


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發表於 12-2-15 21:55 |只看該作者
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發表於 12-2-15 23:24 |只看該作者
回復 yannus1224 的帖子

Hi yannus 1224,

Thank you for your suggestion about "creative thinking" for my daughter.  It may be a better and more positive way to stop her "drag on".  I will try.

In fact, I am not a "tiger mom" and I have not arranged a lot of ECA for her.  Compared with many other kids, I think she already has more time for playing freely.  Perhaps that's why she has a "lazy" and "playful" attitude on her daily life routine.  But in primary school, I guess only the core school time and a couple of ECA will occupy a lot of time, not to mention the homework.  So that's why I think I need to push up her speed right now.   Sigh ....


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發表於 12-2-16 23:36 |只看該作者
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發表於 12-2-17 10:25 |只看該作者
Thanks for your suggestion, yannus1224.

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發表於 12-2-17 11:12 |只看該作者
我細囝作過一個小故事,其中一幕是小男孩有些很精彩的事要告訴媽媽,但媽媽沒反應,男孩就說,“never mind, she doesn't care!"
我問細囝,你有沒有這男孩的感受?他說有。我就提醒自己,無論多忙碌,都要停下來專心聽他,恐怕他將來不再對我說心事了。
有一招他很受的,就是告訴他,媽媽很喜歡聽他說話,很享受和他傾計,但時間差不多,留待下次再談吧!
刷牙,我囝囝亦會行來行去,搞很耐,我就常常要提他,”專心!專心!“
for every one criticism, three positives must be given.

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發表於 12-2-17 11:41 |只看該作者
"我就提醒自己,無論多忙碌,都要停下來專心聽他,恐怕他將來不再對我說心事了"   Yes!  Agree!  That's why sometimes I am afraid I am discouraging her creativity and her willingness to share.  But time is really an issue, esp. in HK.  So it is really a dilemma ...
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