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樓主: haggg	go 要唔要幚個女轉校? [複製鏈接]

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原帖由 haggg 於 11-12-3 00:25 發表
我同個女都努力追緊
欲速則不達
但可是現今的教育下, 跟唔上的好像是異類家長有問題, 有時叫自己放開D, 但現實是殘酷的, 學校要迫你家長要小朋友在威迫下進步, 死硬記 ...

Sometimes, kids' self-esteem is important to maintain and sometimes school may ignore the interactive impacts of school learning policy on students' self-esteem development. If the school does not care about that, you can consider other suitable schools. Keep close eyes on school policy and philosophy on kids that may need more space for building up learning competency.

Maintaining kid's self-esteem is important in keeping their learning motivation in the long run.

You may know the best when and why there need to be a change or not to change as you know well about your daughter and you know well about how the school affect her development.

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"Maintaining kid's self-esteem is important in keeping their learning motivation in the long run." 真的好同意呀!!!!
我知道佢地有D老師會在全班小朋友面前讀分數派卷, 有時會想校長知唔知老師咁做呢?

老師叫我要加緊D追, 因為快下學期啦, 若唔追到, 任何一科唔合格要留班, 攪到我在電話中同老師講時, 堅強的我在那一刻, 眼淚湧上心頭, 同老師講我同女在努力中, 我知佢每一科都不是好好, 但我已見佢慢慢的進步中, 我仍在檢討協助她的方法, 及日間我要工作的協調和找人協助, 請她們給多一點時間給我和女兒

她是肯學的, 好乖巧, 只是未明白迫在眼切而已, 有時我用詞迫得佢太緊(因為心急), 見佢喊住同我講, 我想再溫, 但已晚了, 我叫先睡, 寧願有充足的睡眠腦筋清醒D, 再計劃一下吧!!!! 我個女呢兩次英默, 我冇叫佢返學校再溫, 讓她自己計劃, 竟然佢好乖回來話我知, 佢冇去玩, 因為第一堂默書, 所以去了自己溫習, 所以佢84分, 今次差DD, 佢好擔心今次佢唔合格, 我會取消佢唯一的一個至愛興趣班, 可見佢終於明白自己的責任及如何只有自己才可以幚自己, 努力是要靠自己, 所以我說下次再唔合格就需要暫時停, 佢亦同意。

我是一個好關心別人感受的人, 我的女兒眼中我好錫佢, 但亦會對佢行為不當的會嚴加責備的媽媽, 但我好少在大庭廣眾責備她, 有時別人或許覺得我太保護女兒, 但我自女兒BB, 雖然要工作要照顧爸爸, 我兩公婆從未打過女兒, 我覺得與女兒做朋友的講心事, 用心教, 讓她碰壁再教WHY HOW, 所以我個女是有成熟的人生觀, 愛所有人和事的6 YEARS LITTLE GIRL, 我個女一定要對某樣事明白透徹後, 會發揮得好好的小朋友, 所以我知只要時間佢一定會成功!!!!

大家可以賜教和批評, 所有都是給我的明燈

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原帖由 motherotk 於 11-12-3 02:44 發表

Sometimes, kids' self-esteem is important to maintain and sometimes school may ignore the interactive impacts of school learning policy on students' self-esteem development. If the school does not c ...

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you are such a good mum and your daughter a really mature girl. I hope teachers will be able to understand and accommodate each kid's pace in learning.

It's a tough decision to make and very difficult decision to make. You will find out what you want to do as you are a good mum who put your child's best interest at the top priroity.

Teachers and schools may or may not take your child's best interest at the top piority as they are surrounded by other values in their mind. So you are in a tough situation to face the decision to decide if the school is doing good for you and for your kid, or they are doing for their own sake only.

You are a smart mum, you will know by some time and by some days what is the best for your child, that nobody here will be able to do this decision as you know your girl well, or even better than the teachers.

原帖由 haggg 於 11-12-3 11:17 發表
"Maintaining kid's self-esteem is important in keeping their learning motivation in the long run." 真的好同意呀!!!!
我知道佢地有D老師會在全班小朋友面前讀分數派卷, 有時會想校長知唔知老師咁做呢?

老師 ...

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發表於 11-12-3 22:19 |只看該作者

THANKS MOTHERORK

Hope I can find a right decision for my daughter

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發表於 11-12-4 11:57 |只看該作者

囡囡咁有上進心，又乖巧，真係千金難求，無嘢重要得過佢咁識諗！應該多加鼓勵，媽咪唔好比太大壓力自已同個囡。因為學校已經比咗唔少壓力佢。如果家庭氣氛一樣緊張，我自已會情願轉校。

有時最好嘅學校，係最適合自已果間。人地口中最top最名，係人地嘅經驗，未必與自已仔女夾到。我心目中嘅好學校，唔應該只會逼學生〝跑到數〞，只玩淘太式，卻無任何具體支援，攪到全家哭哭啼啼，誓死達到學校指標。

我覺得小朋友嘅自信心好重要，要幫佢建立自我形象。如果失咗自信，再名嘅學校都唔值得。有無同佢傾過？如果佢自已唔想轉校，咁咪支持佢繼續試lor，萬一留班，大家預咗都要處之泰然。

好學校可以有好多間，唔得咪轉第二間。但阿囡就得一粒，係掌上明珠！
只要盡咗力，無論結果係合格、留班定轉校，你永遠支持佢。

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發表於 11-12-4 13:48 |只看該作者

Parisienne,

我有同佢傾過, 佢唔想轉學校，佢話好鍾意間學校, 所以我唯一可以做就是協助佢, 比鼓勵佢, 同佢一齊傾溫習SCHEDULE, 因時間距離考試好迫近, 所以盡力而為

萬一留班，大家預咗一定都要處之泰然。

[ 本帖最後由 haggg 於 11-12-4 13:51 編輯 ]

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wait and see la, sometimes, you may have more contacts with school, to know more, and to understand more before you make this decision.

Talk to teachers, you will know their attitudes and see if kids will benefit from their teaching.

See their curriculum design throughout few years, see or predict if you kid will catch up with the demands of the school.

Talk to senior form parents, you may probably predict if your daughter will be able to follow the routine they mentioned in P4 or 5 as more and more expectations are coming during senior years.

原帖由 haggg 於 11-12-4 13:48 發表
Parisienne,

我有同佢傾過, 佢唔想轉學校，佢話好鍾意間學校, 所以我唯一可以做就是協助佢, 比鼓勵佢, 同佢一齊傾溫習SCHEDULE, 因時間距離考試好迫近, 所以盡力而為

萬一留班，大家預咗一定都要處之泰然。 ...

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"佢唔想轉學校"

I disagree that the kid's decision should be put on the top at this stage as they are too young and sometimes they have tons of reasons for saying no that may not be the real reasons. Sometimes kids afriad to say the true stories for tons of reasons.

As parents, in reality, need to assess the school's genuine "realities", whether these "realities" are helping your kid or not helping.. this is a very tough decision to make, and difficult to judge.

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發表於 11-12-4 23:28 |只看該作者

motheroth,
你的回應好到points!!!!
現階段我見女女的英文進步得不錯, 其他科目都亦進步中, 希望佢月中考試到到我的目標 (不是學校的目標)

今日同佢由下午兩點溫到晚上七點, 中間有dd休息看下書, 去下洗手間...., 佢都好肯溫習, 所以她的態度真的不錯, 對學習唔反感, 出題目問佢英文, 又叫番佢出題目考我搵grammer錯處, 佢可以做下老師不知幾開心, 見佢識考我改我就知佢識, 佢開心我又開心

我都覺得要比多點時間了解學校對學生成績差異的態度最為重要

將來就算去或留都一定要俾自己同女兒一些實質的points

原帖由 motherotk 於 11-12-4 17:38 發表
"佢唔想轉學校"

I disagree that the kid's decision should be put on the top at this stage as they are too young and sometimes they have tons of reasons for saying no that may not be the real reasons. ...

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發表於 11-12-5 09:03 |只看該作者

好想與大家分享, 我的女兒是讓我振作的人, 我會與她一同努力, 多謝您們每一位的指導

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zXZ1XTyCrow&feature=related

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發表於 11-12-6 02:07 |只看該作者

我想問若轉校是否一定要大概二至三月份學校才有公佈呢?
通常二年級先插到呢?

呢幾星期來的思想及經歷, 真的好難受, 女兒和我都好辛苦, 女兒的壓力從佢的皮膚問題可見, 我和她的笑容也少了, 日日也很忙, 又冇時間靜下來看下新聞, 一起身滿腦子就是大量功課, 大範圍的默書, 追不上的英文........, 我反而最擔心再這下去, 好快會打沉我女兒的信心至谷底

老師校長的壓力.....真的快崩潰了!!!!

TST, MK, YMT, HUNGHOM, TOKWAWAN, KLN CITY有咩學校推介

[ 本帖最後由 haggg 於 11-12-6 03:23 編輯 ]

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原帖由 haggg 於 11-12-6 02:07 發表
我想問若轉校是否一定要大概二至三月份學校才有公佈呢?
通常二年級先插到呢?

呢幾星期來的思想及經歷, 真的好難受, 女兒和我都好辛苦, 女兒的壓力從佢的皮膚問題可見, 我和她的笑容也少了, 日日也很忙, 又冇時間靜 ...

你打去心儀小學問有無下學期插班生招生, 有部份學校會有兩次插班生招生, 有部份要完左一個學年先畀插班.

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問左三間都未有, 要等明天三月左右

原帖由 miriam 於 11-12-6 11:21 發表

你打去心儀小學問有無下學期插班生招生, 有部份學校會有兩次插班生招生, 有部份要完左一個學年先畀插班.

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發表於 11-12-7 09:38 |只看該作者

You take good care, with a sound physical health, mums will make smart move and decisions. You are working on decisions for the best interest of your child, but also need to take care yourself as well.

Things will sort out step by step and you have good awareness at an early stage, so much time and space left to make this decision one by one.

原帖由 haggg 於 11-12-6 16:26 發表
問左三間都未有, 要等明天三月左右

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發表於 11-12-16 14:13 |只看該作者

pls check pm

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俾少少時間佢啦..我諗佢有咁多幫助應該會有進步既 ! 唔好對佢失去信心 !!

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Add oil! Don't give up :) Just some patience and persevere!

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