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a_for_apple,
You're welcome!
I described my son as "very active" in that he is alert to any opportunity to do some naughty things or ask so called irrelevant questions on and on. He is able to sit still if required to, but by nature he just likes to have fun all the time. These days after he has participated in different sports teams, and as he grows up a bit now, he basically behaves OK. We used to question whether he was a marginal case of ADHD, though.
We reckon the best way to train him is the carot and stick approach. He needs to know that we stand firm on our rules and requirements. Punishment will come if he breaks the rules, but he needs to feel and understand that it is done out of love and care. When he does something good, a big hug will be very rewarding. Of course, sometimes little stationery is already a token of appreciation. At traditional school, punishment is something that this kind of kids inevitably need to face all the time, but most of the time it is executed in a cold way. In our opinion, Lingnan is however good at handling this. And we also do this consistently at home.
This kind of kids are actually quite smart, objectively speaking. As long as they are trained in the right way, I believe their untapped potential will be realized and their future will be bright.
Best wishes on your school search! God bless!
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