【KTS】 08年9月讀小二ge家長入黎傾

Kinma

my son Byron is in 2C.  He was in 1A last  year.

原帖由 j2baba 於 08-9-5 06:32 發表
Dear P2 mami

Anyone's kid at 2C?

Kinma

same to you,  I will choose Fri activity only.  Already need to attend the Violin lesson as requested on Tue.

原帖由 chun媽 於 08-9-9 12:18 發表
請問你們有沒有參加星期一至星期四的放學後的校外活動,我則一項也沒有,你們呢?我想,我只會參加星期五的校外活動,(那是必須吧?)

Kinma

I won't enorl "數學和常識科統一課程" as per my last year experience.   The server for the web always not functioning properly.   Thus waste a lot of time.   Also the the questions for the General Studies sometimes quite difficult for their level.   If it's not compulsory,  I will just skip it as he got a lot of web exercise to do already.   I recommend 中文8寶箱,  my son like to do this as he said he want to collect the 獎牌 that they give to  the top 3 student every months .   At last some incentive for him to do the exercise..^_^

Kinma

ha ha,  my son also likes to play 踢鍵 with his classmates during recess.   It's very difficult to force them to do homework or web excercise during recess as they do need some time to take a break.   I personally think that although the web exercises are good for them,  however it maybe too much if over 4 or 5 daily.   Besides the homework from school,  there are extra-curricular activities, supplement homework like Kumon, Selin, O Maths ...etc.  Not to mention they need to practice piano, violin, flute....
Will they still hv time to read books?  40  (or 60?) at least per year.  You child need to be very self-disciplined.  This is what I am trying hard to teach my son now .. cause I am a working mum

Kinma

Do your children still be so absent minded this year?   My son always forget this and forget that and I have signed many times in page 70 la.   It's not very far away for him to win the "mark three".    Sigh!   I went to the school to help him clear the drawer on Monday and I couldn't believe that it's like a rubbish bin.  How can he be so bad in "自理能力".

Kinma

有無2C 班嘅家長知幾時交書法.   是不是每個字寫兩次寫滿一張紙?   Tks!

Kinma

I learnt from one of the 2A student.  They need to submit on Feb 5 and 打橫write each symbol twice .   So one paper is good for 6 symbol.   For my son's version.   He said to write 3 times (打直)  for each symbol, so need one and a half paper.  But he wrote on the handbook to submit on 12/13, which is Saturday and definitely is wrong.  I told him to ask his classmate and everytime he just forgot.    Seems different children has different version.   Anyway thanks Helen and j2baba.

Kinma

You mean Christmas party?   Which is Tuesday , 12/23?   I will go as I promise to make Jelly candy.   Can't trust my son to bring it back to school on his own.

Kinma

讀到一篇關於教育子女的文章, 希望和各家長分享.   近日小兒有句口頭禪 -  [媽媽, 妳比時間我改].   讀了這篇文章後, 自己有所反思.   作為母親, 我的耐性是否不夠   :-

父母对待孩子无外乎三种情况：一是事事管、时时管，做了很多事，效果却不好；二是什么都不管，什么都不做，放任自流，不闻不问，结果更不好；三是也管但不全管，做得不多，但都切中要害，孩子成长一帆风顺。

显然，“什么都做”和“什么都不做”都过于极端，失之偏颇，并不可取。杰出的父母从来都选择“有所为有所不为”，更明确地说，只做三件事。
第一件事：培养良好的亲子关系
好的关系胜过许多教育。父母什么时候与孩子关系好，对孩子的教育就容易成功；什么时候与孩子关系不好，对孩子的教育就容易失败。而建立良好的亲子关系，其关键在于“定位”：

1、不当“法官”，学做“律师”　
有些父母看到孩子出了问题，便迫不及待地当起了“法官”，这是很危险的。
即父母对待孩子，要像“律师”对待自己的当事人一样，了解其内心需求，并始终以维护其合法权利为惟一宗旨。
孩子的内心世界丰富多彩，父母要积极地影响与教育孩子，不了解其内心世界便无从谈起。而了解孩子的第一要诀是呵护其自尊，维护其权利，成为其信赖和尊敬的朋友。
在人生竞技场，孩子只能自己去努力。父母既无法替代孩子，也不该自作主张去当“裁判”，而应该给予孩子一种保持良好竞技状态的力量，即“拉拉队”的力量。这样更能帮助孩子建立自信心，而这正是家庭教育的核心任务。

2、不当“裁判”，学做“拉拉队”
父母做孩子的“拉拉队”，既要善于发现和赞美孩子，还要引导孩子正确面对失败，在挫折前做孩子的战友。

3. 不当“驯兽师”，学做“镜子”
孩子只有认识自己才能战胜自己，但他们通常只能依据他人的反馈来认识自己，这时父母的“反馈”作用即镜子的作用就很重要了。

不做“驯兽师”，学做“镜子”，才能帮助孩子提高自我意识，才能让孩子不害怕父母的“权威”，转而和父母沟通。
教育是三分教，七分等。“等一等”是很有用的。比如我们被蚊子叮一下，不管它，很快就会没事，若总去挠，却要很长时间才能好。原因就是人体有一定的自我治愈功能，被蚊子叮一下自己很快就会好，施加外力只会适得其反
教育也是这个道理。停下来，等一等，给孩子倾诉的机会，和孩子有效地沟通，不用教育就能解决问题。