開學到而+朝朝都喊！點算？

onibb

我個仔2歲9月中開學，到而+朝朝都喊話唔番學！(只試過幾天無喊)，但放學無喊，不過問佢鍾唔鍾意返學同老師，佢就話唔鍾意！請問有無媽咪可以分享經驗，究竟我要轉校嗎？

evatsoihk

不需要太心急，慢慢再過些日子看看。

我女兒剛剛上學的時候也是經常哭，就算後期不哭了，也是扁著嘴、哭喪著臉，一副可憐巴巴的樣子。

至於轉校的問題，我就不大贊成。事關當初你們為他選校的時候一定是千挑萬選的，那所學校理應是不會有啥問題的，主要還是給孩子多一些時間去適應。

gottwin

How old is your kid exactly and is he going to a local kinder or international one? Maybe he's too young.   

aloymom

唔洗咁擔心, 我建議你暫時唔好轉校住
莫講話你bb2歲返學喊, 我仔仔4歲返學都喊啦
係呢排先叫好返d
我同左老師了解仔仔在校情況
相信我仔仔係因為唔習慣離開爸爸媽媽咁耐先會喊..
唔關學校事..

你可以買些小禮物送比佢, 鼓勵佢返學時唔好喊
例如 佢好想買一件玩具
你要仔仔應承 你 如果一個禮拜內唔喊
你就送果件玩具比佢..

我用呢招對付我仔仔架..

chuchuma

No need to worry, I think may be the people chemistry between your son and the teachers (or environment/teaching methods).

My son went to nursery class (international kinder) happily everyday last academic year and always mentioned to me his class teacher.

This year K1 he joined another international kinder and since then, he always mentioned he doesn't like go to school.  (However, he also attended the Saturday English Class in the same kinder but he loves the class teacher so much and always requested to see that class teacher).  So may be your son need longer time to adapt (He must to as it is a training for him on the social skills).

Amosmother

I also agree that there is no need to change the school as schooling is a necessary step leading to independence for every child.  It's very importance for you to stand firm on this schooling issue, telling him that he must go to school every school day, but maintaining a positive and cheerful mood.  He should also be assured that you'll pick him up after school (coz you could not be late for this).  You should not mislead him by changing to another school or stopping his schooling.  He'll think that he can change your mind by crying.

Does your son like school buses?  If yes, you may try to send him to school by school bus so that he can have a cool-down period on the bus on his way to school.  I first sent my son to school myself and he cried when we said goodbye.  I used about a week to let him see the fun of riding school bus before and after school.  He now takes school bus to school and smiles when he departs.  But he still cries when I take him to school personally.  School bus works in my son's case.

onibb

多謝大家意見，我都有考慮比bb搭校巴！因為日日見佢喊真係唔忍心！而且我老公都開始懷疑bb喜哈喜歡返學，我地會唔會做錯決定！我問老師佢話bb上堂都開心，沒有哭！好說回校哭或者係想引我地注意！ :cry:

Amosmother 寫道:
I also agree that there is no need to change the school as schooling is a necessary step leading to independence for every child.  It's very importance for you to stand firm on this schooling issue, telling him that he must go to school every school day, but maintaining a positive and cheerful mood.  He should also be assured that you'll pick him up after school (coz you could not be late for this).  You should not mislead him by changing to another school or stopping his schooling.  He'll think that he can change your mind by crying.

Does your son like school buses?  If yes, you may try to send him to school by school bus so that he can have a cool-down period on the bus on his way to school.  I first sent my son to school myself and he cried when we said goodbye.  I used about a week to let him see the fun of riding school bus before and after school.  He now takes school bus to school and smiles when he departs.  But he still cries when I take him to school personally.  School bus works in my son's case.

ivybibi

onibb,
平日係邊個送囝囝返學的，你可以試下換下人送佢返學，因為小朋友有時係會好特別去嗲一個；你轉下其他人送返學會係一件好事。
上年我個囝返LN Class時都係一樣，喊喊喊，仲要喊到一向唔痂我的，變成我行一步去廁所都唔得，完全好無安全感，呢的日子大約2星期後就無，不過久唔久返學都會喊，都維持左幾個月架!果時我都想放棄，心諗係唔係太早比佢返學呢，不過同的主任老師傾，佢地叫我再試下，只要小朋友對學校，同身邊的人建立到一定的信心，佢就會喜歡上學!依家我個囝每日都帶住笑容返學lu!