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作者: just_a_mom 時間: 14-12-19 10:04 標題: Bullying

Recently... My son was being bullied by

作者: just_a_mom 時間: 14-12-19 10:09 標題: 回覆：Bullying

Recently my son was being bullied by his classmate, what else can I do as the school doesnt even care n start questioning us like we r the problem more than the bully ... Feeling helpless....n sad....

作者: oooray 時間: 14-12-19 10:24

Schools use to harmonize everything (or hide underneath the carpet). Never believe the school can solve the problem.
You can only ask for changing class. If bullying involves violence, call the police.

作者: munich 時間: 14-12-19 10:43 標題: 引用：Recently+my+son+was+being+bullied+by+his

原帖由 just_a_mom 於 14-12-19 發表
Recently my son was being bullied by his classmate, what else can I do as the school doesnt even car ...

How serious is the bullying?

作者: just_a_mom 時間: 14-12-19 10:51 標題: 回覆：oooray 的帖子

Totally！！
We can never trust the school... Very disappointed

作者: just_a_mom 時間: 14-12-19 10:56 標題: 回覆：munich 的帖子

Pushed him from behind hardly, but claim that he just want to say hi
Tell the teacher that my son is naughty or made up something to upset my son
Always around him n teasting him or sometime Hit him with his elbow when my son is next to him
Very annoying, but the thing is the kid's parent think thats normal as "we r raising a son" which I totally disagree with

作者: munich 時間: 14-12-19 11:06 標題: 引用：Pushed+him+from+behind+hardly,+but+claim

原帖由 just_a_mom 於 14-12-19 發表
Pushed him from behind hardly, but claim that he just want to say hi
Tell the teacher that my son is ...

It's common assault, you should call the police for help.

作者: Choisumwong 時間: 14-12-19 11:07

My experience is you need to prove your son suffers physical injury from another boy with witness. Report directly to police with letter from doctor showing the injury.Then the police officer will contact school and you can express what you want. This is the most effective method !

作者: just_a_mom 時間: 14-12-19 11:25 標題: 回覆：Choisumwong 的帖子

I just want the bully to stop
N its hard to hav a witness n usually just redness ...
Its really brother me n my son , n I m tired of duing with it anymore as it hav been few months already...really feels like a year. Everytime I think of it ... I feel like I got a knife in my throat, all I can do is to swellow it...

作者: just_a_mom 時間: 14-12-19 11:27 標題: 回覆：Choisumwong 的帖子

What will the police do after u called them

作者: munich 時間: 14-12-19 11:31 標題: 引用：What+will+the+police+do+after+u+called+t

原帖由 just_a_mom 於 14-12-19 發表
What will the police do after u called them

They will start the investigation. If u want to give the school some pressure, you could write to the school and request an investigation before considering calling the police.

作者: Choisumwong 時間: 14-12-19 12:01

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The police will call principal and the principal will call you and discuss what you want. For example , inform the bully's parents or put the bully to another class. My son was bullied for a year and there was no use to talk with the teacher and vice principal. If you report to police with hard evidence, school will take it very serious.

作者: oooray 時間: 14-12-19 12:22

本帖最後由 oooray 於 14-12-19 12:23 編輯

Yes. Calling police is the one and only one method to solve the problem promptly.
You can go to police station to report and insist to have a file number.
Then issue will be brought to the immediate attention to the school principal through police, and your problem will be solved immediately.

I guarantee.

作者: oooray 時間: 14-12-19 12:27

This link may help:
http://www.police.gov.hk/ppp_en/11_useful_info/youth/pslp.html

Bullying is absolutely one of police's duty. I was told that they did provide good services and follow up once you file a report..

作者: nicolelaiyy 時間: 14-12-19 12:57

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may i ask which nationality the bullying kid from ?

作者: just_a_mom 時間: 14-12-19 13:37 標題: 回覆：Bullying

Thank you for the suggestions, u guys r really nice (

If that happens again (finger cross , plz dun hav again)I will call the police in stead of contecting to the school , I was too navie but not anymore

He is an asian

作者: munich 時間: 14-12-19 13:51 標題: 引用：Thank+you+for+the+suggestions,+u+guys+r+

原帖由 just_a_mom 於 14-12-19 發表
Thank you for the suggestions, u guys r really nice (
If that happens again (finger cross , pl ...

I hate bullying! Kids should be happy at school everyday. But for the victims, school is like hell. We should try our best to stop it!

作者: just_a_mom 時間: 14-12-19 14:08 標題: 回覆：munich 的帖子

Thats because a lot of other parents dun hav the 同理心， I read an article, it says, bullying is like a cycle, today u may be bullied by someone, one day u may be the bully . Coz u want to take revenges or just to protect yourself .N so on n on... it will never ends....

作者: birdbird 時間: 14-12-19 14:18 標題: 回覆：Bullying

How old are the kids?

作者: oooray 時間: 14-12-19 15:43

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If I were you, I would make an urgent appointment with the school principal (remember to tell[or warn] his/her secretary it is super urgent). Then tell him/her your concern and urge him to stop such bullying (before it happens again, or you will go to the police station.) Be proactive. Don't just wait for the next bullying.
Once is more than enough.

The police will then give a good lesson to the ignorant parents.

作者: munich 時間: 14-12-19 15:51 標題: 引用：回覆+just_a_mom+的帖子 If+I+were+you,+I

原帖由 oooray 於 14-12-19 發表
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If I were you, I would make an urgent appointment with the school principal ...

Totally agree!

作者: nintendo 時間: 14-12-19 16:12

I agree that you should talk to senior management (e.g. principal or vice principal) instead of the class teacher.

作者: just_a_mom 時間: 14-12-19 16:59 標題: 回覆：Bullying

本帖最後由 just_a_mom 於 14-12-19 17:28 編輯

Recently that annoying kid is kinda leave my son alone , I dun know is that becoz the school finally did something or what .
The teachers attitude r like it should be me over reacting or I lead my son to say something like that ,thats really piss me off .N even threaten my son like if he is not gona be frd with the bully he may hav to see the pinciple I was like ...what the...

The principal wants a meeting, but I dun want to waste my time hearing something useless , I rather stay with my son studying or playing ...
Ai... What a Nightmare....

作者: Jane1983 時間: 14-12-19 17:30

要見校長，聽吓佢點講。可能佢bs你，但你有個機會話比佢聽情况系幾嚴重，佢可能幫到你小朋友。

就算佢真系麻木不仁，你最多系簁左時間，甘你同佢講清楚，仲系解决吾到，再有什麽事去報警，佢亦都無得怪你。

作者: Jane1983 時間: 14-12-19 17:38

你見校長前，最好凖備吓。邊日、邊個地方、發生什麽事、有無證人、有什麽damage. (有無相片？)。

你態度坚决、情理并重，最好講明你吾會容忍bullying，吾希望但亦無怕去到報警的地步，保護小朋友。校長吾系傻的，佢都吾想搞大件事。

作者: just_a_mom 時間: 14-12-19 17:39 標題: 回覆：Jane1983 的帖子

咁又係，唔應該曬左呢個機會…… 唔係到時佢怪返我轉頭……

作者: Jane1983 時間: 14-12-19 17:52

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系呀，佢聽老師一面之辞，你要講清楚成件事。
記住要沉住氣，態度誠懇、情理兼備。道理系你呢邊，你不過希望小朋友吾好比人打，佢無理由dismiss你。

作者: just_a_mom 時間: 14-12-19 18:31 標題: 回覆：Jane1983 的帖子

知道！！

作者: CM1234 時間: 14-12-19 19:48 標題: 回覆：Bullying

May I know which school your son is attending?

作者: aidan08 時間: 14-12-19 23:46

你無理由唔去見校長，既然佢哋正視，點解你反而要逃避？咁會變成好似係你唔肯去面對件事。況且，除了聽你自己的小朋友講，也許應該聽聽學校的老師和校長點講，了解清楚件事。我仔都曾經同我講過有個高年班小朋友成日跟住佢講D好mean的說話，我有自己返學校了解，仲搵埋個高年班女仔傾計，聽吓佢點講，然後話佢知我仔唔開心，教佢唔可以咁做，否則會話比老師聽。我後來都有同老師提過吓件事，但我盡量表達我只是想老師睇睇究竟發生咩事，我無認定我仔講的一定係事實，或者人哋只係想同佢玩等等.....老師無當我係麻煩家長，真係有去處理件事。你件事可能不同，因為有推撞，咁你擔心亦好正常，但我唔知你最初同老師講有無認定你仔講的一定係事實，還是叫老師幫吓眼注意吓有無咁嘅事，其實，有時小朋友可能唔識表達的，我覺得盡量聽多D，喺多D角度了解吓成件事先會比較理智。

作者: just_a_mom 時間: 14-12-20 00:15 標題: 回覆：aidan08 的帖子

其實我地雙方家長識得的，friend過下，忽然有一日人地個仔無端端打我個仔，打左幾次我仔米唔想同佢玩羅，同人地家長反影過，點知人地覺得我小氣，話男仔係咁玩嫁啦…… 我頂唔順咪同老師講，之後呢個老師又跟進下果個老師又跟進，然後老師們又懶醒咁估係我個仔attention seeking定我地家長引導佢咁講，咁既然你唔信人講信自己估，咁你叻成咁我仲可以點？被蝦果個就俾人日盤夜盤，又話可能乜可能乜，蝦人果個呢？就未攪清件事唔好屈人咁款，咁你係我心淡唔心淡
俾人蝦仲好似自己做錯事所以要成日見老師，乜唔係應該蝦人果個要俾老師傅導教導至arm咩？
只係蝦人果個先可以選擇幾時停手
被蝦果個唔係話，我唔想俾人蝦件事就會完
所以點解係要見我地而唔係見人地家長
唔通見完我地，我仔就唔再俾人蝦？

作者: fishchow 時間: 14-12-20 22:05 標題: 回覆：just_a_mom 的帖子

如果比人打果個佢我個囡，我絕對會應邀見校長，仲會同一個律師，「either friend / hired 」一齊去見，由佢present 個 case。我可以幾肯定校長的態度會好唔同，因為佢會知道，如果搞得你慶慶地，下一步是去到交警方處理，這會嚴重影響校譽。

作者: just_a_mom 時間: 14-12-21 00:15 標題: 回覆：fishchow 的帖子

好提議

作者: kwankyliebaby 時間: 14-12-23 14:11

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Fishchow, 你這個提議都唔錯.請律師一齊去會唔會使校長覺得你好大支野同唔合作?

作者: fishchow 時間: 14-12-23 15:55 標題: 回覆：kwankyliebaby 的帖子

好過報警吧。

作者: 112200 時間: 14-12-29 21:17 標題: 回覆：Bullying

May I also share.....according to the bullying stories I heard. Many cases are two kids having interactive play like play catching, chasing or pretend fighting game. When one of the kid get hurt , parent of the injured kid will complaint about their kid was being bullied. Usually the fact were found after the compliant, but usually, That parent will think its unfair and someone is making up story. I am not saying this case is the same but just want to share the most common result after fact founding. Sample of most of the repeated case (happened among same kids) usually because they do play together until one of them got hurt.

作者: fishchow 時間: 15-1-2 00:27 標題: 引用：Pushed+him+from+behind+hardly,+but+claim

原帖由 just_a_mom 於 14-12-19 發表
Pushed him from behind hardly, but claim that he just want to say hi
Tell the teacher that my son is ...

如此主動地滋擾，應該唔等同互動而受傷吧！

作者: sharons 時間: 15-1-3 21:51 標題: 回覆：Bullying

請問雙方小孩幾多歲? 同班同學嗎？

作者: just_a_mom 時間: 15-1-4 17:40

Finally, New year New start, just got a news from other parents that they r moving back to Australia very soon this year
time to celebrate

作者: munich 時間: 15-1-5 14:06 標題: 引用：Finally,+New+year+New+start,+just+got+a+

原帖由 just_a_mom 於 15-01-04 發表
Finally, New year New start, just got a news from other parents that they r moving back to Australia ...

Just curious, is ur kid attending AISHK?

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