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快樂是一種能力

熱度 9已有 272 次閱讀 13-8-13 20:07 |系統分類:教育

我們平日在生活中不勉會遇到令人不愉快的事情,讓生活各層面受到影響,人們的負面情緒也漸漸增加,日子一久,精神上難免會焦躁不安。
你只有留意一下,在一天裏會有很多都問題,日子總是要過得,一個人不能總是讓外在的事情任意超控自己的情緒和感覺,卻是要隨著情況而調整自己的心態去面對,情緒應該由自己來做主才對。憑仗著外在條件的快樂是十分脆弱的,因為一旦外在條件的失去,快樂也隨之消失。從這一點看出,真正的快樂是不該建立於外在條件上,而是要出於內心,這樣才能得到真實和恒久的快樂。
一個快樂的人應該是能夠使自己快樂的,一個能使自己快樂的人也會給別人帶來快樂。我們也許能從義務工作找著快樂,在幫助別人的過程,看見受助者臉上露出燦爛的笑容,一種滿足感就會從心底湧出,也許這是快樂的一種吧!
古人雲:“人生不如意十之八九”只要我們壞著正面積極的態度看人生,並充分利用快樂這種能力,便能夠突破眼前的難關,活出美好的明天。

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回覆 Maryahwan 13-8-13 20:08
吾兒的體會!
回覆 ANChan59 13-8-13 22:44
I learn another version "Happiness is a choice!"
回覆 mesmerising 13-8-13 23:09
It is blessed to be able to find simple happiness.  One of my friends tries to find inner happiness thru an annual Swiss self discovery programme!  She goes every year, each time lasting over a month, going over therapeutic painting, dream analysising, meditation and group sharings.  All these suppose to help you regain your inner strength, self and happiness!  

Whereas for me, happiness is waking every morning, seeing my son's face and waving him off to school, followed by a cup of coffee. And sometimes lending a helping hand to others.
回覆 Yanamami 13-8-14 09:00
知足常樂,錯不了。Always look at the bright side.
回覆 HKTHK 13-8-14 10:51
I think happiness is key though I think it is more than that.  Isn't it also about how one deal with adversity and appreciate things in life?  More like 做人處事的態度?
回覆 Maryahwan 13-8-14 11:09
mesmerising: It is blessed to be able to find simple happiness.  One of my friend tries to find inner happiness thru an annual Swiss self discovery programme!  She ...
而對我來說,每天能夠和家人還有兩只貓咪在一起就是幸福!
回覆 Maryahwan 13-8-14 11:15
ANChan59: I learn another version "Happiness is a choice!"
有時看到孩子因為一些小事笑到收唔到,不明所以,原來孩子他知道快樂是一種選擇
回覆 Maryahwan 13-8-14 11:21
Yanamami: 知足常樂,錯不了。Always look at the bright side.
我想是因為上帝的緣故,我們家孩子很闊達,有時讓人覺得他傻,看事情總是能夠看光明的一面,我自歎不如。
回覆 Maryahwan 13-8-14 11:27
HKTHK: I think happiness is key though I think it is more than that.  Isn't it also about how one deal with adversity and appreciate things in life?  More li ...
現在的孩子太幸福了,擁有太多物質,而家長又過度的保護孩子,不想他們走彎路,結果孩子對逆境沒有了抗體。把別人對他的好當作理所當然
回覆 mesmerising 13-8-14 11:37
Maryahwan: 而對我來說,每天能夠和家人還有兩只貓咪在一起就是幸福!
Wah! 兩只貓咪!我曾經也是貓迷!

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