有人話名校siblings 好着數, 完全唔駛 train - 小一選校

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即係以N冇身分考入嘅細佬妹

linkage 唔包siblings ? 一直以為有弟兄姊妹在讀，屬於有關係人士？

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Siblings 屬於有關係人士

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本帖最後由 honeybunny8 於 21-1-19 18:46 編輯

I'm parent of N 冇 & N 冇sibling.

I agree that siblings 好着數, but the 着數 is not on "完全唔駛 train", but on 知道需要train什麼 & 不需要train什麼. As a current parent, you know what the school want in their students so you know how to train your younger ones, and you know you have to contribute in school or at PTA events to show your commitment. Same goes for alumni who often participate in school events to learn what the school want. To me, these are already great advantages. So it's NOT about how much LESS effort current / alumni parents invest in their kids, BUT on how much MORE FOCUSED the investment can be.

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b3410 發表於 21-1-19 17:20
⋯有乜好方法可以提升細佬信心？

standard tevhnique 都是增加成功經驗、找亮點、加以肯定，不過呢d野講就易，實行難

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小曳人發表於 21-1-19 15:46
大嗰個覺得你偏心，細嗰個都覺得你偏心！
不過呢~ 我搞得掂呢兩個人仔，兩個都好痴我架！
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左右做人難。但都要間中觀察、留意、傾一下，有時外表冇野但唔知內心點諗。

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honeybunny8 發表於 21-1-19 18:39
I'm parent of N 冇 & N 冇sibling.

I agree that siblings 好着數, but the 着數 is not on "完全唔駛 tr ...

Thanks! Very well said!

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MrBeast 發表於 21-1-19 18:42
standard tevhnique 都是增加成功經驗、找亮點、加以肯定，不過呢d野講就易，實行難 ...

yes
亮點唔係一時三刻揾到，有難度

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老師會咁講？好差喎

R爆頭，仲年年都有唔同老師講d奇怪野，後尾响班谷提起，唔只我一個有類似經歷

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honeybunny8 發表於 21-1-19 18:39
I'm parent of N 冇 & N 冇sibling.

I agree that siblings 好着數, but the 着數 is not on "完全唔駛 tr ...

really do not understand what is N無siblings. please enlighten me what is “not-N 無”

but I do agree with you on the elaboration of what advantages one can get if have siblings studying in the achool

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本帖最後由 honeybunny8 於 21-1-19 23:05 編輯

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Haha I guess you already know but are trying to confirm that we are talking about the same thing.
I get from this EK threads that "N無" refers to kids who do not check any of the boxes on the P1 application forms, like if any of the parents is an alumni or teaching staff or on the board of the school, religion, sibling is current student, etc. Some may also consider feeder kinders (e.g. SKH, BHN, CCKG for SPCCPS, DG/DB) as the "N". As far as for this discussion, seems like "N無siblings" is used to refer to younger siblings of current students who used to be in the above "N無" category, and is considered to be at a slight disadvantage when compared to siblings of current students AND with parents who are related parties.

Anyway, I usually try not to generalize or oversimplify things like childhood education, that has a lot of nuances. But from cases I know of, when the child (and the family) is right for the school, the statistics would work for that child; if the child isn't right for the school, even the best statistics / strongest connection wouldn't help.

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honeybunny8 發表於 21-1-19 22:56
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Haha I guess you already know but are trying to confirm that we are talking abou ...

Your last para is definitely the essence of the whole discussion... whether advantageous or not is honestly out of the discussion from my point of view.