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[英國] 小朋友在學校被歧視為中國人,可以點處理  

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yuyueng 發表於 20-10-9 12:07
太自欺欺人啦!講出黎人地以為香港人都系智障,香港人咪又系中國人!

有佢地咁様的回覆,真係可憐又可悲

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beastiebistro 發表於 20-10-9 21:22
回覆 SIYip 的帖子

就係囉,都唔知發生咩事。樓主都係問清楚小朋友做咩先啦,如果嚴重點解佢(我指小朋友 ...
我細女有你本人親身經歷,但唔算咩特别歧視。初到dorm確實有三幾個專登同佢打招呼时語氣特別誇張同怪怪,不过佢同你-样,-笑置之,亦同好多其他本地-早打成一片,後來果幾個都無乜野。阿女話班鬼亦有講番,無乜真正接触过亞洲人,係有stereotype, 觉得佢地通常唔合群、只顧讀喜懶紧張、咩都唔玩唔參予……佢地接觸过女發覺佢唔係咁,所以大家玩得埋。

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Yanamami 發表於 20-10-10 07:00
我細女有你本人親身經歷,但唔算咩特别歧視。初到dorm確實有三幾個專登同佢打招呼时語氣特別誇張同怪怪,不 ...

我覺得其實背後原因係唔係屬於歧视,唔重要亦唔需要特別去釐清,重要的是小朋友的感受,若孩子真的感到不舒服及有壓力, 這情緒是需要渲洩及需要有父母師長認同的, 特別係初到新環境嘅小朋友, 有可能是小朋友自己敏感或者真是受到不友善对待,這都需要師長聆聽/開導/處理。

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giver    發表於 20-10-13 21:48
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starry_night 發表於 20-10-9 07:07
tell the bullies you're a HongKonger

我喺美國讀書時,同鬼佬講I’m from Hong Kong!佢哋唔知邊度黎,話China 就知!
所以,唔好咁井底蛙啦!

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Band5 發表於 20-10-9 18:58
“被歧視為中國人”係咩嘢意思?即係你小朋友原來高級過中國人?

講人哋知你係香港人,英國人就唔歧視你, ...

有見地
好明顯點解有些人會被歧視,因為自己先歧視左自己先

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wellmax 發表於 20-10-10 20:37
我喺美國讀書時,同鬼佬講I’m from Hong Kong!佢哋唔知邊度黎,話China 就知!
所以,唔好咁井底蛙啦!
...

個鬼佬唔知香港係邊,係咪代表話我自己係香港人就係錯?

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starry_night 發表於 20-10-10 21:03
個鬼佬唔知香港係邊,係咪代表話我自己係香港人就係錯?

你當然可以繼續自我感覺良好啦,這是你的自由!不過喺鬼佬眼中,唔會因為你講你係HKer 就stop bullying you 囉!
所以你咁教樓主係無補於事,反而俾人更有藉口踩多你兩腳

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本帖最後由 KIMLIFEINUK 於 20-10-11 00:03 編輯

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Hong Kong (/ˌhɒŋˈkɒŋ/ (listen); Chinese: 香港, Cantonese:
[hœ́ːŋ.kɔ̌ːŋ]
(listen)), officially the Hong Kong Special Administrative Region of the People's Republic of China (HKSAR), is a Cantonese speaking metropolitan area and special administrative region of the People's Republic of China on the eastern Pearl River Delta of the South China Sea.



Hong Kong is part of China, of course you can say you are from Hong Kong, likewise one can also say, I am from "Causeway Bay", however, if people ask you which country do you come from, then your country of origin is China.


Maybe one can always try pretend otherwise, dye your hair blonde, practice British accent (have to be perfect), carry out plastic surgery to look dramatically different, see if other people will mistaken you as non Chinese?


If all these measures still can't fool anyone else but oneself, then people will still ask you, "where are you from?"


People might ask you this question to try to start a friendly conversation, however, you might struggle every single time.

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本帖最後由 Yanamami 於 20-10-11 00:34 編輯

美國人唔知香港係边唔奇,英國人唔識香港又好似有点兒那个……不过我估經过-年下來,世界各国对香港應該都比以前認識多左啩……

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KIMLIFEINUK 發表於 20-10-10 23:59
回覆 starry_night 的帖子

Hong Kong (/ˌhɒŋˈkɒŋ/ (listen); Chinese: 香港, Cantonese:

Many local HKers never understand this and they only live in their own world without knowing much around the world! You can see they only go to Japan and Taiwan (claiming these places are their hometown, so funny )!
If they can let their kids study overseas, I truly hope it can help widen their kids’horizons and won’t be as “shallow” as their parents!

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回覆 wellmax 的帖子

Yes, totally agreed.
We Hong Kong people are the most fortunate group, our blessings are countless and yet it blinds us sometimes because of that.

I saw some Hong Kong people being bullied and ill treated sometimes in uk, However, they didn't even  argue or talk back, what a divide from their attitudes and behaviors in HK, I also witnessed a lot of anger and rage in HK, people shouted and screamed at others (in service industry).

However, they are silence in UK.

Hence, I think no one is silencing us in Hong Kong, on the contrary, some people are silence automatically if they are in UK.

Of course not everyone will shy away from problems in uk, ------------> but the funny thing is the most noisy ones in HK are often the  most quiet ones in UK.

So karma it is.

I believe we should accommodate other people and try to be nice to each others, if bullying happens in school or society, we should face it with braveness and take the right action against it if possible.

If we do not want to be ill treated by others, then we should not do that to other people too. Only by teaching our kids love & braveness, we have hope in our future generations.



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Yanamami 發表於 20-10-11 00:05
美國人唔知香港係边唔奇,英國人唔識香港又好似有点兒那个……不过我估經过-年下來,世界各国对香港應該都 ...

在美居住超過10年,97前有遇過鄉下d嘅會問why doesn’t it belong to China but it is located in China and you all read and write and speak Chinese? 97後遇到嘅幾本上都識
oh I know that place, it is now part of China not England anymore

樓主孩子讀的是政府學校不是私校?鼓勵同讚同因為膚色語言文化背景歧視同bully 同學和同事,多數在比較低端的環境中比較blue collar 冇咩見識嘅地方發生。私學同professional service 嘅工作環境真係冇遇過















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本帖最後由 Yanamami 於 20-10-11 07:38 編輯
小加子 發表於 20-10-11 06:51
在美居住超過10年,97前有遇過鄉下d嘅會問why doesn’t it belong to China but it is located in China a ...

总之听落就有尐怪……好似夾硬叫蒙古人西藏人新疆人做中國人-样。 Monaco係法国度但又唔係法国人……話虽已回歸,但又講唔同話,寫唔同字,用唔同錢同護照,国際長途电碼又唔-样,就係只能話好似尐人假結婚咁,有夫妻之名而無夫妻之实既感覺。可能香港过左百幾年英殖曰子,出現左speciation情况都唔定大自然实在相當奧妙~

你講得啱,通常有学識既比較少出现呢尐歧視情況。

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Yanamami 發表於 20-10-11 00:05
美國人唔知香港係边唔奇,英國人唔識香港又好似有点兒那个……不过我估經过-年下來,世界各国对香港應該都 ...

本帖最後由 poonseelai 於 20-10-11 08:17 編輯

本帖最後由 poonseelai 於 20-10-11 08:03 編輯

自己出外旅行都未必清楚當地歷史,所以即使來過香港旅行的外國人唔清楚都唔奇,何況不少美國人根本唔會出國,香港人喜愛出外旅行,亦未必會關心香港以外新聞,不過,現在可能多了少少人知嘅

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KIMLIFEINUK 發表於 20-10-10 23:59
回覆 starry_night 的帖子

Hong Kong (/ˌhɒŋˈkɒŋ/ (listen); Chinese: 香港, Cantonese:

邱局長話香港製造不是made in China,  咁HK is China 定 HK is not china? 好混亂呀

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大家真係諗多咗喇。我作為過來人(自己係boarding school學生,又係現役boarding school家長),可以負責任咁講啲鬼仔鬼妹其實好鬼幼稚(尤其係lower school嗰啲)。對佢哋嚟講,叫你"chinky"同叫你“死肥仔“或者“白痴仔“冇咩分別。斷估大家都唔會真係覺得佢哋惡性歧視肥人同轉數慢嘅人啩?佢哋叫我Chinky,我一笑置之,跟手我又叫返佢哋Lurch呀(直係手長腳長笨手笨腳)Beefy呀(即係淨係識運動冇乜腦)嗰啲,大家笑下就冇嘢。
呢類「攻擊」持續幾耐就睇你咩反應,我就選擇正面回應甚至直接回擊,再加上我好快入咗幾樣運動校隊,轉個頭就攬頭攬頸(佢哋仲保護返我轉頭添,驚死冇咗個主力同友校比賽會輸)。我有啲同學選擇逃避又唔參與活動,咁咪搞耐好多囉。
我哋七嘴八舌喺度放大件事,本來可能冇乜嘢都變咗「驚天地泣鬼神」,無謂影響咗樓主小朋友嘅寄宿生活啦。等佢問清楚佢小朋友究竟咩事,係咪真係歧視咁嚴重先啦。

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starry_night 發表於 20-10-10 21:03
個鬼佬唔知香港係邊,係咪代表話我自己係香港人就係錯?

佢地唔知唔緊要,慢慢講佢地知,有人做緊。有次我孩子同housemates 出外,有個英國人大大聲指住佢叫China China, D housemates  (from UK and greece)大大聲覆佢: from HK, not china

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beastiebistro 發表於 20-10-11 08:38
大家真係諗多咗喇。我作為過來人(自己係boarding school學生,又係現役boarding school家長),可以負責任 ...
Hi5!我女就係採取你路線,玩活动同幾个混熟就搞掂哂,其他即刻轉哂軚……話時話,女都係比較同當地出世既亞洲人啱咀形尐,同真鬼妹只可以做嘻哈朋友,傾唔到深入野,原因同你講既-样,太幼稚,思想軌跡真係好难交接~

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babykidss 發表於 20-10-9 06:24
好煩,小朋友在學校被歧視為中國人,可以點處理,請大家幫手比意見

如果自己解決到最好,或交俾學校處理。。。簡單自己解決方法,攞獎學金及做風纪或做學生會會長,反歧視番佢地本地人

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beastiebistro 發表於 20-10-11 08:38
大家真係諗多咗喇。我作為過來人(自己係boarding school學生,又係現役boarding school家長),可以負責任 ...

  

can't agree more.

我哋都成日叫啲外國同事做鬼佬,印度同事做叉仔叉妹,佢哋都會自己咁叫,係咪歧視要睇埋對方同自己嘅心態。

學生時代幾乎每個人都有個花名,如果冇嘅,人緣好極有限,多數人都以花名自稱,如果唔鍾意個花名嘅,其實最好係喺開始時搵機會心平氣和又嚴肅地同對方講清楚,對方係咪繼續就可以知道係咪真係朋友!