聖xx尼學校涉對三年級學生造成永久心理傷害

SimplyAbuse

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If there's a chance, I won't let them go local. Their daddy left n took all the money. I had $4 left. No place to live n no school n no food. N I was full time mom for 7 years. I had 1 month to find a place to live, to look for schools. Elder one began at Yr 2 n younger one began at Yr 1. We survived n they did their best. I never ask for high ranking as long as they did their best. I'm proud of them already. This 3A class teacher banged the table in class often n told the kids "shut up" n yelled to kids all time. N often asked my little one stay after school without informing me. And the so-called social worker said its norm?! What the hell?! So my gal had nightmares n illusion everywhere seeing her class teacher pulling her. N this is what a social worker does to kids? Are u kidding me? Now I m suing every single teacher involved. The one who had my elder one star at school for 2 hours twice without informing me. The social worker who asked me to complain to principal and now pretend she had never done so.

SimplyAbuse

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And since March I have spent over 50k on therapists n doctor. N international school is costing me 8k a month each plus capital levy. i am a single working mom not a money printer... Our life literally got ruined!

aeiou_drm

Read your news before on newspaper.  I hope your girls have a new start, forget the past and move on.  Add oil!!

SimplyAbuse

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Thx. Honestly almost gave up n killed myself once. Don't think I can manage n wanna give up everything. But looking at the gals.. What can I do? I can't give them up..

SimplyAbuse

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Looking at the report...do I pass as a mother? When the 3 therapists told me I hv been a great mother to pick up the crap n build up the family piece by piece... And all that I have built with my blood and tears, just collapsed in 1 day by 1 evil teacher, evil social worker and evil school. My baby is this fragile and I feel like all the strength I had has gone. I am living in the dark everyday. Reality tells me I have to survive for the girls. I have to show them we need to be strong to face the hard times n deal with difficult feelings . So I survived and go to the school everyday. I control myself not to say any bad words to any of the fx king teachers. I suppress all these fx king feelings for my girls. But I feel like I'm exploding in no time. 

longlokma

just look foward and forget the past, wish you and your kids all the best in the future

SimplyAbuse

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I can't see the future of my little one...at least for now...I cant...

silvia_ng

hey, 你已經做得好好架啦！做人唔洗perfect, is okay to be not okay!  你要保重身體呀，兩個女仲要你撐住架，單親家長唔容易，但黎明好快就會到，捱埋黎明前既黑暗就會好架啦！其他法律既野，等律師攪啦，唔好太放唔低。若然未報，只係時辰未到。到有結果果陣你都要放鬆心情面對呀！有咩想呻，隨時上黎呻下啦，咁會舒服啲架，唔好諗埋一邊呀

scyauchris

明天會更好的，努力加油呀！有兩個囡囡，你一定要保重身體。希望你囡囡早日康復！

AgapePa

SimplyAbuse 發表於 15-5-16 15:14
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If there's a chance, I won't let them go local. Their daddy left n took all the ...

官津一樣有英文小學, 唔係得國際一條路, 努力! 總有適合的學校.

paulinefll

很同情你們的遭遇，亦很讚賞你作為媽媽的堅強，相信世上真的有自私自利的教師，但亦肯定世上有不少肯為學生付出的良師，困境我們都遇過，將來亦難免會遇上，我們要學習從困境中得力，至使有更大的力量扶持所愛的兒女，困境之後一定會有晴天，為你們祈禱，神必扶持你這樣的一位好媽媽及你的一雙女兒！

SimplyAbuse

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Thanks...

SimplyAbuse

再痛路仍然要繼續行...不過最痛是看見自己兒女努力掙扎那一種無助，而自己一點也幫不了。傷風感冒可以找醫生，現在我唔知點行。無錯每星期都見治療師，但到底要幾耐/到底會不會好返？對學校對老師而言，出事也只不過是其中一個學生，佢地還可以做盡一切隱瞞事實。
對家長而言，子女便是一切，比自己還重要。寧願受傷的是自己，垂死掙扎跟學校對峙，為的唔係一啖氣，係justice係對子女的一個責任，亦唔希望有下一個victim....

Chowying

媽媽加油呀!

SimplyAbuse

多謝大家！

longlokma

刚看回舊日新聞，希望你孩子快点康復，做个快樂健康的小孩

SimplyAbuse

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係，當教育局唔幇你，而小朋友病到咁，邊間官校會收及有resources去support her mentally...

SimplyAbuse

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而且3月，所有學校按近尾聲及考試，點追？curriculum 、課本全不一様，無可能。