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回覆:what should I do?
Broadband, read your past post title in last few years. You are a mum just like me, once wish to get the best for our kids, and then you are getting a bit lost when you are reminded by your teachers that
suggesting an uncomfortable way out for your child.
Don't think IS vs LS, think for your child. When a school giving comments to your child, think about what they really want to say. I think they might hint you that if your girl stay in their school or in a similar system, she might got stressed e.g. Felt bored with spoon feed system, got a fair impression marking because she is too active and outrageous in traditional eyes, her academic results might not be up to your expectation etc., and they know you are a high demanding mum. Sometimes, before we choose, it is better to think out of the box and ask 'what is really going on?'.
I got 2 kids with totally different characters. My girl is vivid and my son is quiet and shy. Both of I and my husband survived hk educational system. We hoped they can be world citizens with good English usage, but learning fluent Chinese too. Now my girl got both IS and LS K1 offer, all from Christian / Catholic schools with good conduct. (I agree that it is quite difficult to get IS offer if a child is not active, outspoken and English not up to native standard, and not getting interviewed at R1 or year 1). We are so proud of her. But this is just the beginning. From the past experience, she has been very favored by both IS type and LS type teachers and schools. So that makes our choice even more difficult. We have to think of our younger son as well, and what should we do?
We have to leave our mind open in last several months, seeking opinions from everyone we know having kids in LS and IS. What we do is to ask about a school's details, their parents and children characters, beliefs and abilities to see if our children can fit in. Yes, not 'the best', but 'fit in', because it is the kids' school, not solely ours. And also if we, as parents, can 'fit in' that school and with the other parents, because you would suffer if your are not in the same direction as them.
Now, we will go for an IS school first because we got so many good feedbacks from our friends of similar background, and the parents of coming classmates are so nice in Whatsapp chats.
Back to square 1, I do really suspect your girl's school is hinting they have difficulty to accommodate her needs. This is not a good thing to see. Go and search any other IS or LS schools to fit your child and you. Best wishes.
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