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interview 父母一齊去多 定 父或母一個去多

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802
發表於 13-6-24 10:10 |顯示全部帖子
Agree with happy-lavender and Venetamama. If both parents attend, that helps to give more confidence to the child. Think about if he/she sees most children were accompanied by both parents while for her/him, there is only either Mom or Dad, she may feel a little bit inferior. Of course thats on the assumption that both parents are available. I also see that most schools would like to speak to both Mom and Dad if possible, and to find out how both parents care for the child, and their individual view. Talking technique might not be just on Dad, but could be Mom too. I think at least that shows both parents care about the school and the child. Its a known secret that for a few top schools, the chance is much lower if only single parent attend (unless there is a legitimate reason). These schools specifically mentioned on the phone that "請父母同小朋友一齊來", 仲唔酲目? Further, I also think the Mom will feel more comfortable with the husband supporting her and talking to her before the interview. Isnt it?

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發表於 13-6-24 10:15 |顯示全部帖子
父母一齊去

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發表於 13-6-24 10:25 |顯示全部帖子
whl3868 發表於 13-6-24 01:00
如果係出名果類學校...最好一齊去啦
以往in KG甚或小學...個人覺得都幾鐘意問爸爸(即係我)
我試過俾一位老 ...

我老公竟然答係側邊做阿四,校長即時呆咗,跟著陰陰咀笑,真係瘀到爆!

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發表於 13-6-24 10:30 |顯示全部帖子

回覆:interview 父母一齊去多 定 父或母一個去多

我覺得兩個一齊去好啲。不過去年考一間直資佢今日通知我第二日2nd in, 我 hubby 請唔到假我一個去見副校,最後收了。不過話時話如果兩個一齊去真的要好合拍不要搶答,另一半講了什麼都好,你都要點哂頭認同咁款。有時學校也會指定一方答,試過校長話"剛才媽媽答,那麼這條爸爸回答吧".



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發表於 13-6-24 10:33 |顯示全部帖子
You never know whether its bad or not.  Not all principals are the same. He or she may like what your husband said,  being a straight forward person. However its also your call to decide to supplement or not. It could happen the other way round- the Father supplements as the Mom was so panic and nervous.


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發表於 13-6-24 10:57 |顯示全部帖子
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發表於 13-6-24 11:07 |顯示全部帖子
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發表於 13-6-24 11:11 |顯示全部帖子
一直係一個人去
兩個去當然會好啲,但要確保另一半與你嘅想法一樣,陣間一個答一樣咁就唔好啦.

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happy_lavender  咁咪去之前夾吓囉,夫婦正常溝通啫。  發表於 13-6-24 11:43

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發表於 13-6-24 11:25 |顯示全部帖子
老公幫到手接招當然好 最驚佢要我補鑊
我老公唔算係有識之士
但見咁多人咁講 我即管去馬

家下仲紅雨 真係大考驗

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laylayman  Good luck!!  發表於 13-6-24 11:53
happy_lavender  兩夫婦從來都是互相幫補架啦!丈夫要老婆撐,老婆要老公錫,正路不過。  發表於 13-6-24 11:46

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發表於 13-6-24 11:31 |顯示全部帖子
本帖最後由 happy_lavender 於 13-6-24 11:47 編輯

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單單對於學校interview,一個或兩個參與,可能影響不大;但長遠來講,對於子女的成長及教育,不應由其中一人承擔(除非客觀因素而造成未能共同承擔的局面),兩個都應積極參與!既然是這樣,為何不藉interview的機會,讓另一半投入更多呢?個人理念是:做得不好就更要多做,不能找借口逃避。
萬軍之耶和華說、不是倚靠勢力、不是倚靠才能、乃是倚靠我的靈、方能成事。(撒迦利亞書 4:6)

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發表於 13-6-24 11:37 |顯示全部帖子
回復 laylayman 的帖子

無錯!太太也要丈夫的支持,做男人要有膊頭,唔止要揹仔,重要揹埋個老婆。(我是爹哋)
萬軍之耶和華說、不是倚靠勢力、不是倚靠才能、乃是倚靠我的靈、方能成事。(撒迦利亞書 4:6)

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802
發表於 13-6-24 11:41 |顯示全部帖子
回復 ha8mo 的帖子

We should try our best unless there are exceptional situations.

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發表於 13-6-24 11:47 |顯示全部帖子
happy_lavender 發表於 13-6-24 11:37
回復 laylayman 的帖子

無錯!太太也要丈夫的支持,做男人要有膊頭,唔止要揹仔,重要揹埋個老婆。(我是爹 ...

Well worrying about 哀咗is not too good of a reason of not to attend. All we have to do is to get prepared and rehearsed. Its basically that few main questions the school will ask. To some parents, what could be more important for the child's next 10+ years of education?

Its true that with a good preparation, then the parents can support each other during the interview. For some reasons, I personally feel the school is more eager to find out what the Father's involvement and contribution is to the child. I fully understand there are situations where the Father really cannot attend but what we are discussing here is that should the Father attend or not.

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發表於 13-6-24 13:07 |顯示全部帖子

引用:一個去,怕佢講錯嘢!

原帖由 pizza188 於 13-06-23 發表
一個去,怕佢講錯嘢!
我都係咁話



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2285
發表於 13-6-24 16:26 |顯示全部帖子
多謝大家
今日見好多都父母一齊去  而我都係啦
而我都講好多
最後老師話媽咪都講左好多 只問左爸爸一個問題
總算無乜閃失

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發表於 13-6-24 18:55 |顯示全部帖子

回覆:interview 父母一齊去多 定 父或母一個去多

最好父母一起,輸人唔輸陣!



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發表於 13-6-25 00:40 |顯示全部帖子
回復 happy_lavender 的帖子

我內子一向都好投入參予小兒學習歷程,只是剛巧考兩間直資時,到最後interview時身體抱恙,所以才由我一人帶小兒in,其餘時間我們都是三人一齊過嘅,多謝關心

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happy_lavender    發表於 13-6-25 00:43
兒童是世界上最快樂o既人兒,兒童是多可愛~~

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發表於 13-6-25 01:05 |顯示全部帖子
我都好想自己帶囝囝去,因為老公說話比較粗俗及沒紋路,不過佢一見封約見信就話會請假,請唔到假就補鐘,既然佢咁有誠意,我唯有預埋佢,大家搏一搏啦

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2285
發表於 13-6-25 01:07 |顯示全部帖子
唉 有頭髮無人想做辣喱
如果係我老公 我實病都排起身去
雖然話要佢多參予 但奈何佢表達能力真係有啲問題
我信佢唔過

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魚兒小寶貝  Same same  發表於 13-6-25 01:09

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發表於 13-6-25 13:38 |顯示全部帖子
我反而覺得如果係頭三位架學校,最好父母一齊去,因為咁會顥出誠意,如果性講錯話,咁咪搵個主力傾,另一個講少d,成程只要發表幾句就ok啦! 其他架話,就一個可以囉我覺得,嘩!如果要in.好多間,邊有咁多假請吖! 不過都係純個人意見啫...加油吖~~~