要健康還是名校

hadwinboy

我仔自小多病，可能因為bb 時做了個微創手術，也吃了很多抗生素。他今年9月升小一，打算襯開學前幫他加強體質。於是6月初見有好陽光即帶他去游水。點知游完兩次後這三星期 on and off 都屙爛便便，這星期更一連四日都是。今早帶他睇 E 生，估他可能感染了泳池一種細菌(不是大腸䏷菌)，要化驗才確定。我仔考入了一間出名的小學，但作為母親，你問我，我會答我想要一個健康寶貝，名校只是 bonus. 各位扣門中、等緊學位、心情低落的家長，加油呀！有得有失，大家看開些!

Viveka

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絕對認同你嘅講法，想當初你駝住佢嗰十個月都係想佢健健康康開開心心咁成長！！

Jessy

說得好，我也常感恩，自己的孩子雖然不太聰明，但很健康又樂觀！

CreativeAccount

任何事相比當然係健康要緊，支持！

hoihoima

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Are "health" and "famous school" really trade off?  Even if the child is studying in non-famous school, if you want him (or the child wants himself) to get to the top, then there can still be much study pressure.  Time is still competing for studying, ECA, school teams and rest.

I recommend you doing research on how pushing the famous school that your child has got offer is.  

Just like the school that my boy is studying (I do not mean that his school is a famous school), it is a through train school and the requirement to be admitted to the secondary school is a pass in the major subject plus conduct of B- or above.  So, students (and/or parents) can choose to be aggressive and do well, or lay back and get a passing grade.  As much as I have observed, most of the students (and/or parents) there chose to be aggressive, but this can also happen in any "non-famous" school.  Regarding ECA, my boy's school requires learning of one musical instrument and one sports.  Students do not necessarily learn the musical instrument and sports at school, they can take lessons with any outside tutors.  Students can choose whether they want to join school team when they are invited.  My friend's boy turned down the offer of joining school teams.  So, all in all, I think my boy's school provides a platform for students to decide how they would like to perform.  If students put in a lot of efforts either in studying or ECA, it is because they want to.  The students can also choose to be more lay back.  I guess it would not be too difficult to get a passing grade at the end.

hadwinboy

原帖由 hoihoima 於 13-06-22 發表
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Are "health" and "famous school" really trade off?  Even if the child is stud ...

I don't really mean "trade off". Ofcourse a balanced life is the best. But if God said I can only chose between these 2 extreme choices : a healthy boy or a talented boy, definitely health is more important to me.

hadwinboy

心血來朝，列下5年半來我仔有的 "offers" :
微創手術 vs 金黃葡萄球菌感染 vs 肛裂 vs 扁桃腺發炎 vs 薬物敏感 vs MSG 敏感 vs 鼻敏感(今日剛患鼻竇炎) vs 胃酸倒流易嘔 vs 生眼桃針 vs 泳池𣎴知什麼菌感染，加埋二、三缐的offers 傷風咳感冒發燒腸胃炎。

當然，比起那些有嚴重疾病的，我還是很感恩的。

dlee_ca

信我啦，您所講嘅症狀，當d男仔到十零歳就自然斷，中午食兩碟飯果隻，小d開冷氣，唔好太揀飲擇食，唔好成日當佢係汕仔强。
可以的話，轉另外一個家庭醫生，睇睇。
到時魚與熊掌，兩者兼得。

LeeCC

曾經參加家長教育講座,講者叫大家反思幾個問題：

1：當初懷孕去照超聲波時,心中最大的願望是什麽？
2:BB剛出世,出院見兒科醫生，心中願望是什麽？
3:你現在對孩子的最大願望是什麽?
4:為什麽會同?最初的願望已不重要了嗎?第3個願望真的比最初重要?

好值得反思

reei

although i think famous school and health are not related but i appreciate hadwinboy good intention to advise other parents to take it easy.

LeeCC

我個仔早產輕輕磅,出生時無心跳,救番,有先天性病,加上體弱 ,醫院常客,打針抽血家常飯 ,曾經發展遲緩，現在還有其他問題未確診

但見過長期臥床插喉餵飼的小朋友,自己孩子會行會走會吃會講 ,我好感恩

阿仔都知道自己好好彩,自己差點好似係醫院的小朋友咁

明年小一
我選校標准係近屋企,小班,老師有愛心包容,

cautionchan

我其實都覺得唔related ! 甘樓主甘講，你會揀健康，甘會不會放棄呢家間學校，去一間放鬆輕鬆學習的地方，似乎IB課程你可考慮！我自己本身既意見，你考得入名校就預左，你冇預計或你根本唔想，就應該一早選校畤考慮！不過香港呢家冇邊間傳統小學冇壓力既！甘如果樓主認為名校同健康掛鈎，強烈建議你轉校，如只想帶出健康重要高過學術，我要話你揀錯學校，入得名校你可以選擇乜都唔跟唔做，當比下去時，你會知道你應該點做！

MrBeast

好同意搞好身體才想學業。搬去空氣好一些的地方(高d也可以的），唔去游水可去park玩，可能更好(空間感會好些). 再唔得問下e生噴鼻薬，有慮故純的，冇辨法中的辨法。

Obiepapa

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of course health is more important! Just try to work out the balance if you could. If not, then have to choose a school with less pressure later.

sugerlucy

健康同名校好似冇乜直接關係喎，唔通讀左名校會損害健康?

ysnmama

我自己認為不要太神化或醜化名校。讀名校也可以健康，讀普通學校也可以不健康。大前題是做什麼讀什麼也要有健康的體魄及心理。

moonychan

cautionchan 發表於 13-6-22 07:39
我其實都覺得唔related ! 甘樓主甘講，你會揀健康，甘會不會放棄呢家間學校，去一間放鬆輕鬆學習的地方，似 ...

入得名校你可以選擇乜都唔跟唔做，當比下去時，你會知道你應該點做！<----- 真係要面對過先知道個感受.

hadwinboy

原帖由 dlee_ca 於 13-06-22 發表
信我啦，您所講嘅症狀，當d男仔到十零歳就自然斷，中午食兩碟飯果隻，小d開冷氣，唔好太揀飲擇食，唔好成日 ...

Thanks! 有時見到他好開胃肯食嘢時，真係好滿足! 我都等緊他食兩碟飯的一天