培育:女孩子聰明,脑轉得快,但唔仲意思考,點算?

hy2910

百年樹木 ,十年樹人,可憐天下父母心。

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妹妹5歲 , 教過象棋、橋牌,統統冇興趣,因佢資優哥哥(9歲)样样比佢强,乘人贏佢,同埋佢又唔仲意思考。


平心而論,妺妺記性,脑轉數,都唔會輸俾哥哥。

相差既,指係過去父母的愛心和金錢投入(對小朋友既培育)。

一個拔苗助長、一個順其自然,是否有錯?

到底要點样培育?

preciousstone

Don't blame yourself. Research says that the second gifted child normally excels in a very different way.

hy2910

謝謝!

做父母難、做孖寶父母更難、做資優父母難上難。

mandytanghk

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Where can I find such kind of research information ?

mandytanghk

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做"孖寶資優" 父母難上難更難難難難 ... 加油..

preciousstone

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See point 6 here http://www.gifteddevelopment.com/What_is_Gifted/learned.htm

hy2910

Thanks preciousstone.

佢地 (GiftedDevelopment Center)講左结果:

They often go in the opposite direction of their older siblings and are less likely to be achievement oriented.

我地既原因:

因佢資優哥哥(9歲)样样比佢强,乘人贏佢


另外,

Even the first-born identical twin has a greater chance of being accepted in a gifted program than the second-born!

如果將 gifted program比臂成拔苗助長、順其自然似乎更適合妺妺。

preciousstone

gifted program 又怎會是拔苗助長呢？只要小朋友喜歡, 便沒有問題.

資優小朋友本身已夠叻, 我覺得他們不需要特別提拔, 他們欠的是動機和情緒管理, 所以我覺得只要搞好他們這兩樣東西, 就不煩他們沒有出息或將來沒有機會發揮.

mandytanghk

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Although our younger brother still very small , 15 months only.  We think we are facing the same problem --  gift brothers .. one is already hard to handle,, facing two....

augkBB

same as my case. But I really enjoy "順其自然" to my second child. He is happier than his elder brother. Take it easy!

MsAudrey

Just take it easy.
And be aware of how your elder kid treats your younger one, and see if any extra caring is needed for her.