My 5-year old daughter told me yesterday: My brother is very naughty and yell a lot. I want to swap for another brother who is able to speak and less naughty. For that I cried for a long time and feel so so sad. Both for my daughter and my son. Sorry to my girl that I cannot provide her with a 'normal" brother to enjoy the brother-sister relatioship.
I love them so much . The things she told me really hurt me so much. My maid rush to me and try to comfort me, and ask my daughter not to say these kind of things to me. My girl also cried.
Thank you for all your support: I feel much better now. My girl is the younger one and she wants to have all my attention all the time. Whenever I am with her elder brother for training or outing, she will be very jealous. It makes life somethimes difficult cos they fight for me on a daily basis. I cannot find any quite moment at all.
I tend to pay more attention to my son cos I think I owe him a lot.