女拔落敗感言

LovelyDad

I understand at this moment, it is hard for the parents with "rejection letter". They will have lots of unanswered questions (eg, why my child is rejected? why the other child is taken? etc)

There are many good schools in HK, not just DGJS. Please do not draw an equal sign between DGJS and Success. It is simply not that way. I agree DGJS is a good school. But I also believe there are many good schools in HK.

The way to a happy childhood is not just by attending DGJS.

myac

LovelyDad 發表於 11-12-24 20:37
I understand at this moment, it is hard for the parents with "rejection letter". They will have lots ...

Yes..... fully agree with this comment.  Most important is to love and nurture one's children to become a GOOD person with the guts to face all adversities in life that are surely commonplace.

To summarise this year P.1 admission, my feeling is the criteria of selection is multi-faceted.  Education is life-long.  Primary school and secondary school choices seem much less important than family education.  Key to eduaction is MOTIVATION of the child.  Better equipped schools certainly have advantages.  But w/o motivation, many kids at elite schools fall behind too....

kochiman2004

One time success or failure do not mean future success or failure, children growth-up is a long term education, not one time competition game.  Look forward and plan what to do coming future.

J_D74

老公說, 焉之非福.......我釋然~~~

chongnicole

拔萃係好好的學校，大學舊同學有些是old girls，佢地無錯係好出色，但其他學校出來的女仔都吳差。畢業咁多年，回望吓，最成功、揾最多錢、最幸福、最開心，好似都吳一定係佢地....人生咁多變數，讀邊間小學真係吳係太緊要。

做父母盡了力栽培，給了孩子機會去爭取就ok，小孩有自己的destiny，一時得失不要太難過。

myac

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Old adage: "一命，二運，三風水，四積陰德，五讀書，六名，七相，八敬神，九交貴人，十養生，十一擇業與擇偶，十二趨吉及避凶."

marrowcream

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totally agreed !

jonahlee

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做父母盡了力栽培，給了孩子機會去爭取就ok，小孩有自己的destiny，一時得失不要太難過。

ABSOLUTE AGREE

LovelyDad

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I agree. Looking back upon my past, my biggest motivator is my mom, she has given me continuous love and care since my birth. We laugh and cry together. When I failed, she was there to support me. When I succeeded, she was there to cheer for me.
Now I am a dad myself, my wife and me try our best to provide endless love to our daughter (not spoiling her).

If you ask me our biggest challenge: teaching our daughter to appreciate everything in life, don't take things for granted.

I sincerely wish every parent will do the same.

Whether they attend DGJS is not most important

嫦娥一号

正面，嘗試、盡力、面對然後放下。不是女兒不夠叻，只是不夠位！

joeyxlma

我家女孩說的好: 那間學校想收我, 不過沒有位.
真不知道是誰教她的, 但好受用...我相信能進入SECOND IN 的, 已得到學校的肯定, 成敗與否, 只是硬件所限的問題!

Annngan

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Totally agreed....that's a very good attitude!!!!!!

LovelyDad

i am glad to see the kids are taking a positive attitude to look at the whole thing. Do not give up, keep working hard, you will be rewarded in life

chongnicole

小朋友咁識想，真系教得好！邊個話香港多港孩！

J_D74

呵呵, 咁岩既, 我囡囡都係咁同人講: 女拔暫時未夠位收我,不過我依然好想入女拔~~~
我本身學歷唔高, 55波估到未必收, 於是未出result已經同佢洗定腦, 話入到都好辛苦架, 裡面d小朋友個個都係超叻, 你要比依家再勤力先得架, 到時連玩,看電視的時間都無架喎.......佢答我: 我最鐘意同叻人一齊的. 比佢激死~~~
其實講到尾佢都係鐘意個playground, interview佢望到樓下既slide, swing, 出黎同我講已經流晒口水咁, 話要讀呢間....呵呵, 收你先得架....

yukico

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妳囡囡話最鍾意同叻人一齊, 佢小小年紀就咁有志氣, 妳真值得安慰!
P.1未入到, 唔緊要, P.2考插班, 只要打好中、英、數底, 機會一定有!

kochiman2004

P.2 考插班 is much difficult, only three seats offering to public and received more than 120 applicants form last year wor ... correct me if I got wrong information.  

bblovebb2

講真，唔好介意，女拔人很強，性格較強，事業ok,但婚姻 pk，睇你想唔想個女....................!

dada1113

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I think it all depends on how you raise your daughter, teach her to appreciate others. If you always emphasis her success it will just make her ego grow...   

chongnicole

各位有興趣可以去DGS網站，看她的university placement。