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女拔落敗感言  

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2270
發表於 11-12-20 17:59 |顯示全部帖子

經過漫長的等待, 今天終於收到結果了.
一如所料, 落敗了.
失望是有的, 但不算意外.
無論如何, 總算鬆一口氣.

在此首先恭喜獲取錄的小朋友, 你們真的很棒, 能在女拔讀書, 是一種福氣, 要好好珍惜啊!
女拔真是一所好學校, 這是我們出席了第二次面試後的真心感覺.
當天面試後, 小女告訴我戴校長面試時曾經在她耳畔說了兩句話 (內容不便透露, 比較私人).
我很愕然, 想不到戴校長在我們面前可能較嚴肅, 但對著一個五歲小孩子時, 表露她真正一面, 是那麼有愛心, 有人情味. 我終於明白, 一所學校能成功, 是有原因的. 雖然小女遺憾未能得到取錄, 但是已經上了寶貴一課.

未能得到取錄的家長, 不用太失望, 能夠進入第二次面試, 已經是很不錯了. 其他家長, 即使你的小朋友在第一次面試後未能進級”, 又或許至今在考小一的過程仍未有理想結果,也不要氣餒. 我們的小朋友本身已是我們的成就了. 只要看一看「親子王國」那邊「想生bb」那個topic, 便會知道, 很多人連想要一個小朋友也不容易. 考小一的過程可能很辛苦, 但是我們有機會做人父母, 有機會體驗考小一這經歷, 不是已經很值得感恩嗎?

有關女拔面試的thread有很高hit rate, 相信不少是來年考小一的家長在「取經」. 小女落敗了, 我當然沒有資格在此談什麼心得.
只是想建議大家, 不要太緊張小朋友能否入到名校,不要以入名校為未來一年唯一的「奮鬥目標」,
因為小孩子四,
五歲是應該快快樂樂過每一天的, 若我們做每件事都只為考學校,一定會錯失一些寶貴的時光.

聖誕節快到了, 希望大家都懷著感恩的心, 歡渡佳節!

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organizer  LIKE!  發表於 12-1-9 15:22
edea  非常欣賞妳的文章.  發表於 11-12-26 23:55
A-Mum  It's so nice to have talked with you! Wish u and your family a very merry and peaceful Christmas!  發表於 11-12-21 13:52

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789
發表於 11-12-20 18:02 |顯示全部帖子
妳個名嘅構成方法,同我一樣喎!

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發表於 11-12-20 18:12 |顯示全部帖子
我也覺得一樣,一定要快快樂樂過每一天

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發表於 11-12-20 18:27 |顯示全部帖子
完全同意, 亦感同身受!

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3868
發表於 11-12-20 18:56 |顯示全部帖子
Also receive a reject letter.  But I think we have all do a great job and be proud of our girls!

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3868
發表於 11-12-20 18:57 |顯示全部帖子
YLMom, I think just not being acceptedb by DG does not mean that other parents should not learn from you.  I think you really do a great job!

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3503
發表於 11-12-20 19:10 |顯示全部帖子
勝敗乃兵家嘗試,今天的失敗可能代表明天成功的開始,一切隨緣。

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發表於 11-12-20 20:14 |顯示全部帖子
雖然我都收到reject letter, 但我覺得可能我個囡在第二間學校也很開心!

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1267
發表於 11-12-20 20:19 |顯示全部帖子
YES !REJECT TOO! BUT OUR GIRL IS THE BEST!

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1764
發表於 11-12-20 22:02 |顯示全部帖子
Did you all got 2nd Interview?

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1486
發表於 11-12-20 22:03 |顯示全部帖子
YLmom, read your message before off work. Sigh... seem those active speakers here got reject letter. Yes, we've got reject letter today.  My other half can't stop crying.

But I truly appreciate your words here which speak up for most of us...we all have pay good efforts for bringing up our kids.

Good luck to you!

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1486
發表於 11-12-20 22:03 |顯示全部帖子
also, please stay in touch!! It's a long journey ahead. Our path will cross again!!

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2270
發表於 11-12-20 22:09 |顯示全部帖子
Sure!  May I know which school your girl will go to?

(By the way, I am surprised that you are a daddy?  As a woman, I guess I understand how your wife feels.  But just suggest her not to cry in front of your daughter, and after crying tonight, cheer up tomorrow.  It is not the end of the world, and the world will be even more beautiful tomorrow .....)  Cheers!  

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1486
發表於 11-12-20 22:44 |顯示全部帖子
YLmom, pls note pm.

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2891
發表於 11-12-20 22:44 |顯示全部帖子
回復 YLMom 的帖子

I am Sure Ms. Dai is a caring person. The long final offer waiting period is aiming to give parents a period to adjust our expectation, and to face the result, no matter what it is !
Your girl must will be as bright as in DGJS for no matter school she is going .. as she has a brillant mum !

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648
發表於 11-12-20 22:56 |顯示全部帖子
本帖最後由 icbb1230 於 11-12-21 10:24 編輯

TLmom, truthmr99 and hi other all here,

Don't be upset about the result, we were not 100% confident to get the offer since the game started, right?  Of course, we will feel disappointed, but I can say out loudly that it doesn't a matter about our daughters ability.  Getting a DGJS offer is not only base on the girls performance, everything counts.  During 1st interview, ability is more important, but 2nd interview isn't.  Able to go into 2nd interview, ability is already proven.  When 2nd interview, Mrs Dai's preference becomes more important.  What is her preference?  Who know, except herself.  I believe she will read the portfolio, reference letter if any and also family background.  Although people always tell only count the performance, but I don't think it's true, everything counts.  

One more thing want to say is, don't be affected by those people 神化 the school and Mrs Dai.  School is a school, parent is the main role in nurturing the kids.  And Mrs Dai is only a lady who we only met her for 1-2 mins (maybe lesser), how can the people judge her she is nice or not?  Sometimes, when I read the post with similar comments to Mrs Dai, I feel very funny!  However, if u or someone else not agree with me, please don't be angry, just respect on freedom of speech haha!

Keep going, God will plan for us.  

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!

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ong84  right. don't 神化somebody or school.  發表於 11-12-22 11:55


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發表於 11-12-20 23:39 |顯示全部帖子
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863
發表於 11-12-21 00:09 |顯示全部帖子
時間是一種有趣的東西。經過漫長的等待,我已經從興奮萬分的不理性狀況,回復到理性的現實世界。現實是小女未收信之前我們已經覺得她未必適合女拔,今天其實要多謝戴校長給我們一個確認。好高興今天終於落實女兒的小學,我希望和她好好享受K3餘下的時光,始終小一都是我們的新挑戰!大家努力!
YY Mom :-D

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發表於 11-12-21 00:40 |顯示全部帖子
YLMom, I think your daughter will be very happy to have such a "positive thinking" mum!

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發表於 11-12-21 08:55 |顯示全部帖子
Thank you for all your encouragement and compliment.

Actually, I am still learning to have more "positive thinking".  That's why I have been trying to manage my own expectation in the past few weeks, and luckily can manage to adjust my own feeling.

I really think that the primary school application process is not only a test for the kids.  It is also a test and a re-education process for the parents.  This re-education process will go on as we help our kids to grow up in the years to come ...........