10歲男童跳樓亡,疑不堪功課壓力

馬媽媽

That school is famous in heavy homeworks. Some students and parents cannot stand for the pressure. Because of the school name, many students are forced to do so and so to stay there. Is it worth? Hope that the school will learn the lessons and be kind to those students who are weak.

kkhon

真令人感到悲傷！

[ 本帖最後由 kkhon 於 11-11-16 00:23 編輯 ]

mky9842

I am just a passerby.  Last friday, similar thing happened in my daughter's sch as well.  She was a F.3 student already,  we didn't know the real reason behind the tragedy and the principal issued circular asking the parents not to guess anything...... yet one of my friends said she immediately rang her two daughters to go shopping and have a good dinner that night even test and exam are coming.

I feel very down and upset by reading the news last friday night and, to be frank, I cannot stop my tears running down my face even I was in a train.  I think the media should stop reporting this kind of "news" as children may think it as a way of relief.  

I sincerely hope parents may spare some time to show yr care to yr children, not by toys nor ipad.  My daughter loves to lay with me in bed after dinner or before sleep and talk occasionally, stroke her hair or back....just give them 30 minutes or so in private, only you and her alone.  Then, when she has problems some day she will come to you.

chumamma

點解咁恰巧, 教育局頭先公佈小六考核新安排，2012年及2014年暫停舉行小六「全港性系統評估」，而2013年則暫停舉行「中一入學前香港學科測驗」。

mky9842

EDB changes their policy too frequently, yet it may be a good think to both sch and pupils, but definitely not the publishers and bookstore.

navigator

悲哀啊！那孩子真可憐，作為父母的也只不過好心做壞事罷了。

ayumu412

只有10歲小朋友竟然要選擇絶路, 真的很震驚又難過。溝通聆聽很重要, 而家小朋友和家長的壓力都很大。大人懂得樂觀小朋友就會懂得。

保持樂觀心境
笑臉面對逆境
快樂帶來美境

goodwill

source : ODN news, the following article worth reading for all the parents, we need to pay more attention the mental health of our kids. Don't give them too much pressure.

他指出，小學五年級開始進入升中派位的關鍵時間，部分學童未必適應突如其來的壓力，建議家長多留意子女的生活細節和情緒變化，發覺有問題時，及早向社工求助。

「有毀滅自己傾向的兒童，可以是成績很差、也可以是成績很好」。他解釋，學業成績低劣的學童可能會因為排在「隊尾」追不上成績而不開心，相反成績很好的學童，則有機會因達不到自己或父母師長的期望而失落。當學童「頂唔順」壓力時會開始不想上學，如得不到家長體諒，情緒可能會繼續低落，假如學童本身不善處理情緒，便有機會萌生自殺逃避的想法。

成績好未必快樂
很多家長喜歡安排子女入讀名校，彭智華表示，即使學童成績好亦不代表他讀得愉快，「讀得上但未必讀得開心」，建議家長在子女能力和興趣之間取平衡，選擇適合子女的學校。- I totally agreed that elite schools are not the only exit.

goodwill

其實合適自己孩子最重要,能有效發揮他們潛能,是不是名校不是最重要,要活得有自信,自尊和心身健康,才能發揮能力!

工程佬

so sad to hear this news.

My son applies the P.1 entry at Kei Wan. In case he succeeds, my wife and I need to keep close eye on his psychological performance.

[ 本帖最後由 工程佬 於 11-11-15 10:21 編輯 ]

super11mum

so poor so sad

clarachel

真可惜! 希望大家(也是對自己說)多點關心子女, 不要太緊張吧!

原帖由 super11mum 於 11-11-15 18:42 發表
so poor so sad

moumou

不要再一個…可憐的孩子！

tph1112

其實是學校比壓力D家長和同學，我是過來人，學校做得衰，教育處又話學校冇違規，口舌之爭又話無証據，莫非要死多Ｄ學生，教育處先至去監管。
為什麽有D津校可以有Lift有泳池，有D津校又沒有。。。「求學求分數」都是學校迫出來。

hkrosetw

昨日下午睇到呢單新聞，好心痛，十歲人仔咁大壓力，真係好慘。我唔係針對間學校，不過我有經驗係呢間學校，我姪女上年畢業，功課，考試，測驗超多，小學時我幫佢補過習，我自己都辛苦到不得了，當時我發誓自己仔女將來唔會比佢讀呢D追捧所謂名校既學校，對一個咁細既小朋友太殘忍。

motherotk

very sad...

the teachers in the newspaper said they were surprise...no clue at all.

sometimes kids may have depression, usually not easy to be detected by parents, different from adult depression..

This incident remind myself to be more careful about my children's emotion,  always to encourage and to understand what's happening in their lives..

teachers need to learn more on children's mental health, to care about the small group of children that they may have emotional difficulties, to address and to understand...

[ 本帖最後由 motherotk 於 11-11-16 08:00 編輯 ]

sylcaca

呢個係我大仔既幼稚園同學

真係估5到架, 佢平時成日笑架, 圓碌碌鬈毛頭好得意架, 性格就比較BB, 啱啱9月先夠10歲咋

尋日打俾另1個家長, 佢話上個禮拜先喺街度見到佢, 仲係好好咁, 佢睇到報紙都冇諗過係佢

以前成班同學仔得佢1個入呢間學校, 當時仲個個話佢好野TIM

qkhui

AlanShirley,
其實這2個試對小朋友來說, 真的有壓力. 話就話係關學校事, 不關小朋友事, 但學校會不停叫佢地做練習. 好像小三, 仔仔下學期學校內的活動, 學校也要取消, 就是因為tsa, 考完大考, 又係要不停做tsa.. 其實真係好辛苦
教育局其其實不需要暫時停止, 應該要直接取消