小一面試分享：無奬、無証書、無交個人檔案的結果

iantsang

除了無奬、無証書、無個人檔案之外:

重要係非教友、非原校幼稚園生、本身幼稚園有龍校、用穿著幼稚園校服的學生相、住得唔近、無學術性課外活動、無上面試班、無特別作面試準備、零催谷、無異能、無關係等等。

我們只帶着平常心，拖着我們五年來對她的愛、信念和教育，去面對她第一次的小一面試。


結果: 被取錄了。


雖然不是一些大熱名校，但最重要是跟我們理念一致。

只想道出一件事，請大家好好想想應怎樣去培育您的孩子，這世界沒有永遠正確的方程式，也沒有萬能的興趣班、面試班等。

最後，只有你的孩子本身最能展現家長的栽培和教養。

你的孩子是有生命的，不要用一些奬或証書或技能去代表他，他不只是一個個人檔案。

ac917

嘩！你既中文post...難得一見！

多謝你既分享，你講得好啱，現時一般用來栽培小朋友既方法，有時會令我地失去方向及失去最重要既意義，但願我都可以好似你地一家咁，可以栽培出咁出色既小朋友。

祝你囡囡再接再厲，等待你地下一個好消息！

bb@wonderland

原帖由 iantsang 於 11-10-6 14:29 發表
除了無奬、無証書、無個人檔案之外:

重要係非教友、非原校幼稚園生、本身幼稚園有龍校、用穿著幼稚園校服的學生相、住得唔近、無學術性課外活動、無上面試班、無特別作面試準備、零催谷、無異能、無關係等等。

我 ...

wh0709

Love is the most important! Your angels are very lucky having such family.

iantsang

原帖由 ac917 於 11-10-6 14:45 發表
嘩！你既中文post...難得一見！

多謝你既分享，你講得好啱，現時一般用來栽培小朋友既方法，有時會令我地失去方向及失去最重要既意義，但願我都可以好似你地一家咁，可以栽培出咁出色既小朋友。

祝你囡囡再接再厲，等待你地下一個 ...

我真的有二十年沒有寫過中文了，只是最近一些缘份的安排而要每天以中文寫作。

很讃同現時的環境令家長們都透不過氣來，很容易被身邊的人弄得失去方向。

我的女兒真的沒有特別，出色更是遥不可及。我們只用心保護着她的純真罷了。

ziyi

我囡囡係咁多間都沒有交你題目的東西.

原帖由 iantsang 於 11-10-6 15:04 發表


我真的有二十年沒有寫過中文了，只是最近一些缘份的安排而要每天以中文寫作。

很讃同現時的環境令家長們都透不過氣來，很容易被身邊的人弄得失去方向。

我的女兒真的沒有特別，出色更是遥不可及。我們只用心保護着她的 ...

leungchingyiu

恭喜~恭喜~^^~

iantsang

原帖由 ziyi 於 11-10-6 15:20 發表
我囡囡係咁多間都沒有交你題目的東西.

Hi ziyi daddy,

We only applied three and we are in the same situation with all three of them.

Certainly, my daughter cannot be compared to your daughter.  My daughter is just a very simple and innocent girl.  Really not smart at all and lack of the winning characteristics many smart children would share, like your daughter.

We are just fortunate to find a school, which happen to share the similar philosophy with us, and so would appreciate a girl like herself.

The purpose of this sharing, is to remind parents not to just follow others.  And I did not intend to tell parents there are no needs to prepare personal profile.  Yes, there are some schools who really need to see this based on their value system and what they recognize.

Just sharing my personal feelings.  Not a show off and not trying to make any comparisons.  Just hope to bring a message to the parents only.

spmok1999

恭喜你能養育一個令你覺得驕傲的女兒!

可能你們平時見慣了他的表現並未覺得怎麼特別, 但可能在他人眼中已經是相當優秀了, 又或者她在面試時的表現已可算是稱得上是 "異能" 呢!?
禮貌及德育是從小養成的, 自幼寵壞或過份的保護我相信很難能在短時間重新訓練或教導的, 最大影響力其實主要是從最親蜜的人在日常生活上得到的經驗從而建立個人的特質.

ziyi

每個小朋友都是獨一,唯一的,講真..我睇唔到有特別分別,除非父母俾很多東西小朋友學,ready for 申請小一.

而我覺得,小朋友用最真的去面試,只需要跟小朋友說清楚要有禮貌就ok.

我的小朋友只有2間offer,1間waiting,1間入到final round, but give up 見校長, 其他全部round 1 out

所以唔係你說的smart.

人夾人緣... ...學校跟小朋友也是一樣...

原帖由 iantsang 於 11-10-6 15:31 發表


Hi ziyi daddy,

We only applied three and we are in the same situation with all three of them.

Certainly, my daughter cannot be compared to your daughter.  My daughter is just a very simple and inn ...

ElsaShum

Congratulation!

iantsang

原帖由 spmok1999 於 11-10-6 15:37 發表
...禮貌及德育是從小養成的, 自幼寵壞或過份的保護我相信很難能在短時間重新訓練或教導的, 最大影響力其實主要是從最親蜜的人在日常生活上得到的經驗從而建立個人的特質. ...

Fully agree!

iantsang

原帖由 ziyi 於 11-10-6 15:41 發表
每個小朋友都是獨一,唯一的,講真..我睇唔到有特別分別,除非父母俾很多東西小朋友學,ready for 申請小一.

而我覺得,小朋友用最真的去面試,只需要跟小朋友說清楚要有禮貌就ok.

我的小朋友只有2間offer,1間waiting,1 ...

Hi ziyi daddy,

I guess may be the biggest similarities, are between you and me!  

The most fortunate and thankful thing, is to meet the right one!  

Best wishes to you and your family!  

Ian

Miffyling

恭喜, 你囡囡好叻, btw, 佢會唔會仲要係"細女"?

iantsang

argh....  forget to mention!  Thanks for reminding me!

She was born near the border line of the cut-off point, i.e. end of August.

Really all these factors are less important.  When the child find the right school, the school would offer them.  It's almost like a romantic love for them to find each other!  

仕澄母

我仔仔都是三無人仕，但IN三間都REJECT，我都懷疑三無是不是只在面試便可以OK!!＋分鍾便可以決定?坂主你可以話LUCKY,但我十分無奈

iantsang

原帖由 仕澄母 於 11-10-6 16:39 發表
我仔仔都是三無人仕，但IN三間都REJECT，我都懷疑三無是不是只在面試便可以OK!!＋分鍾便可以決定?坂主你可以話LUCKY,但我十分無奈

Don't give up!  May be your son just hasn't found the right school only.

This is why we had a very careful selection this year.  You can say I have no guts but really my daughter doesn't have the proactive, confident nor aggressiveness to ever survive in any of the elite schools.  So, we didn't apply to any of those.

The interview is just a process of selection.  The importance is to find a school that actually your son would enjoy learning there.  Good luck and I am sure you will find it soon!

pandabonita

congrats ian!

我數過你個post入面有八個'無'字,咁你名附其實做了'八無'la, haha. (sorry, bad joke)

iantsang

原帖由 samuel123321 於 11-10-6 16:36 發表
恭喜你，好順利!   不過你漏報家底!（如有得罪,請原諒你是一個全職媽媽做得好好，世界並不是完美)

Sorry did you mean my wife is a full-time housewife?

What I also didn't mention before, is that not just her who are with the kids all the time.  I have also stayed home to work most of the time in the past three years.

And also sorry to our friends, we have not been socializing with you all as much as we would like to.

We just feel it is the most important and precious time that the parents should be around them at this age.

Of course nothing is perfect.  We could make a lot more money if we are both working full-time, but the experience with them, is invaluable.

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