點解一講係資優...d朋友家長就開始排斥我地??

Octopusma

kmmum 發表於 12-2-29 18:01
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鄧小姐的書.我有儲. 佢講自己湊/教小朋友 及身邊的家長的問題.

啊... 有冇邊本係特別有共鳴同啟發既呢?

eric5354

Octopusma 發表於 12-2-29 17:52
要多謝鄧小姐先岩呢~~

一向冇聽佢既節目, 但聽完佢既talk後覺得佢都有料到, 以佢既名氣, 個talk可以收$400 ...

咁你地兩個，我都多謝啦。

真係講中左，我有時的想法。

joys2334

講完自己小朋友是資優而受家長排斥有以下可能性:
1) 其他家長無知或妒忌 --> 不需理会
2) 自己本身在言談間不斷不斷提自己小朋友是資优及所遇見的問題, 令人感厭煩
(我識有一个家長她的話題總是離不開她的gifted child
及她所遇見的問題, 超煩, 其他不是資优兒父母感到她曬命

所以冇必要最好不需告之其他人

luplup

未有小朋友的時候，聽見別人說自己的孩子是資優，都會覺得他在曬命，心想：「資優喎，仲想點！唔通仲要用納稅人的錢來幫你錦上添花咩！」
現在有了小朋友，自己面對這個問題才知事情不是這麼簡單。老師和朋友都説我的囝囝似資優，常常叫我帶他去做測試，但我一直不敢去，因為恐怕得出結果後，兒子自此就變成一個／一堆數字，從此名字就改姓「資」，叫「優兒」，無論好的壞的，大家都把問題或注意力放在這三個字上，不會看到他的真正需要，也做成不必要的壓力。
有個社工朋友跟我説，其實小孩弱智和資優都不好，因兩者都會給孩子和父母帶來壓力，健康快樂的孩子就最幸福。我覺得也有道理。

peremum

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其實大家不用給自己太大壓力，數據上２０個小朋友就有一個可評為資優，不是什麼大不了的事．

HLE2005

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請問係邊到可以睇到呢啲數據呢?

peremum

http://giftedkids.about.com/od/gifted101/a/definitions.htm

HLE2005

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Thanks for your information! 但我睇咗好耐都未搵到你提及嘅數據 20個之中有一個係資優,可以再清楚啲指示嗎?

jessie_lam

Hi!
My girl have just made the assessment and the score indicated she is a gifted children (age 7).
Where we can help her to explore her talent on her superior IQ, on top of her existing school support?
Plus, anyone have the experience of letting your children from P1 and directly  go to P3?

ssky125

我大囡都係資優，細個成績中上，只係喜歡閱讀課外書，有主見以及有創意，當同一個朋友講起自己個女係資優，得到的答案就係點解唔係年年考第一！點解你個囡咁鐘意駁嘴。現在她已升讀中三，成績keep住全級頭十名，成熟左無以前成曰駁嘴,但係自從朋友咁對我講，我再無對其他人提起，畢竟對著一個資優生，真的要有忍耐力和給予他們空間

peremum

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Frankly, I do not think it is a good idea to skip grade at this stage.  Junior primary years are important for the child to enjoy & play & be happy.  Especially since your kid should not have problems with the school work (but don't "dream" that being talented means top in class), let her learn what she is interested in (academic as well as extra-cur).
When she goes to Upper Pri., and she shows good aptitude in learning & maturity in character, then you may consider asking around for school which will accept skipping student.  Of course, you have to collect some "proof" for the target school to show she is capable.  No school will allow you to skip grade just based on an IQ Test report.

Aerosol_Ma

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Hi peremum,

I can't agree more for your option on jumping grade. Yes kids need time to play with their peers. Without this enjoyment, they will probably regret. Having say so, I think (am planning) to let my son to skip 1-2 subjects in the coming P1. In fact he is still in K3 and I think the school may allow him to skip since my kid has completed CTY Accelerated Math recently. Of course it's subjected to his teacher approval and whether he is mature enough to mix with senior students. If he is really suitable to jump 1-2 subjects I think he can still have time enjoying mixing with peers while keep him be challenged. Just my own option.

peremum

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Good idea.  But can you tell me which school your kid is going to?  I also want to know which school allows skipping grade by subject(s).
BTW, please enlighten me.  I always have the idea that CTY starts with Grade 2 students.

Aerosol_Ma

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Hi peremum,

My son will go to GT this fall. I choose this partly because it allows jumping subjects.

For CTY, I registered through internet this Jan. I think you need to provide IQ scores to them. My kid can study any math level before he reaches P2. At this age he needs to sit for SCAT if he wants to continue CTY. Now I will stop for a while and I will teach him by myself. Hope this help.

jessie_lam

Thanks all your idea. The short report scored 149 for her FSIQ where I am waiting for the long report to share with her school on next step. Actually, she is already hv  拔尖 homework and can work on primary three math and Chinese (of cos' not all) indeed. On the issue of skipping class, it still need further discussion with the school or it may be partially skip.

KarenKang

若其他人覺得資優仔系外星人, 就應該同返D外星人一齊, 唔使理D地球人的不善看法.  香港間中有些資優或神童出現, 如沈詩均, 何(海)林, 陳易希, 一些妒忌的港人就串佢地, 這應該是港人的pride才是. 資優英文是gifted, 即是天賦的. 後天當然要細心培育. 父母的培養及明白佢地是最重要的. 父母都要多了解資優童的特性才可教他們.

pollybell

其實一般人唔太清楚資優係乜,大部份會認為乜都好特出乜都醒過人.....但事實唔係,有時都幾矛盾,知道好似可以幫倒自己小朋友,但有時好似同佢搵藉口資優可能引至佢某些缺點.

jessie_lam

Frankly speaking, Gifted children are smart, but they mostly weak on discripine that brings headaches to the parents and teachers indeed.

edwardwah

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Totally agreed.

KarenKang

有個朋友個仔是資優. 多次被學校踢出教. 重可以鬧到老師喊. 當然成積一般, 系因為唔讀書. 但系一肯讀書或遇到喜歡的東西, 就非同小可. 後來大個整, 成熟左, 聽講都OK.
Usually Gifted children are misunderstood or misinterpreted by their caretakers.