明星仔女入讀傳統名校

TMMA

原帖由 miffy 於 10-9-18 10:33 發表
有學識都未必自己跟, 我朋友個仔讀名直資, 佢自己本身有學識, 但日理萬機, 所有野都請人跟, 跟佢小朋友d野"團隊"包括: 一個assistant, 專跟小朋友所有野, 例如學校通告, 安排時間, 聯絡補習....., 然後再每一科請一 ... 佢口中講, 佢學校好多學生都係咁。

我信，我見有d不是十分有錢的，但only one kid 的家長都會係咁。佢地話幫仔溫書好傷感情喎!返工好過。

ANChan59

原帖由 miffy 於 10-9-18 11:42 發表
咁父母唔跟功課, 比壓力都係補習老師比, 父母剩係同小朋友玩, 去旅行, 無咩衡突, 關係點會唔好。

成績都起碼中上至上, 咁鬼多老師跟。

disclipine因為校風好, 學生質素高, 學校也嚴禁小朋友在學校講錢show off, 父 ...

Noted.

I see some kids have everything - iPhone 4,Apple Mac Book Pro.......... they still stole mobile phones from classmates, 1st week stole 5 iPhones, talked to their parents (In your scenario, may be the assistant::" /> ), they don't care (Father is well educated, CEO of listed company, old boys), they only compensated to classmates ; if school kick them out, they can study overseas or IS.........

My son was one of the victim, we reported to the Police. The duty inspector advised us talk to the kid's parents and gave the kid a chance. We listened and worked with school to communicate with his parents, see how to help him out. The outcome is as in last paragraph.

I know your fictional scenario is perfect, but I am talking about realty and personal experience.

[ 本帖最後由 ANChan59 於 10-9-18 12:09 編輯 ]

ANChan59

原帖由 miffy 於 10-9-18 12:21 發表
咁樹大有枯枝, 間間學校都有問題小朋友。直資已經好好, 全部in過晒, 有錢講野無禮貌都唔洗旨意入去讀, 你睇津校, 咪仲復雜, 乜人都有

我識幾個讀呢間直資, 真係好乖和純品。

...

Our focus are different and no definite answer. I just highlight the drawback of your extreme scenario. My son also study in DSS school.

We are off-topic, I will stop here

ahtan

原帖由 ANChan59 於 10-9-18 12:05 發表


Noted.

I see some kids have everything - iPhone 4,Apple Mac Book Pro.......... they still stole mobile phones from classmates, 1st week stole 5 iPhones, talked to their parents (In your scenario, m ...

Your school allows kid to bring these expensive items to school? If we are talking about primary schools here, why will the kid need an iphone 4 or an apple mac book pro at school??
I agree that every school has problematic children. It's part of being in a society. The reality. You have to teach your kid how to protect himself and not to learn from those badly behaved.

ANChan59

原帖由 ahtan 於 10-9-19 00:55 發表


Your school allows kid to bring these expensive items to school? If we are talking about primary schools here, why will the kid need an iphone 4 or an apple mac book pro at school??
I agree that eve ...

Sorry, I am talking about a secondary school with primary divison.

Those students commit to crime come from very well off families, they did it for attention seeking from parents. My original point is you can't outsource everything to someone else including parenting.

[ 本帖最後由 ANChan59 於 10-9-19 01:34 編輯 ]

aiyah

ANChan59,
so for the crime u mentioned, how did the school react? qualities of kids differ (due to various reasons, poor parenting may be one) but it is interesting and more important to see how the school manages such moral-related issue, whether the school tends to defend specific groups even if obvious wrongdoings are observed.

ANChan59

School took the statement and recommended us to report to police. We would like to give him a chance, but the parents are sucked and ignored their responsibilities. Schools penalised the kid no class for two weeks and recommended the student withdraw after term end. So the student left the school and from "Out-source" to "Off-shore".

That's why I addressed "Outsource" is not a solution to replace parenting.

Ivy07

咁個小朋友同無父母有什麼分別?佢同一件商品有什麼分別?佢的父母只當佢係一間公司咁處理，但父母唔係對小朋友的成長係好重要的嗎?人與人之間的感情絕對不可以用錢買回來的。

aiyah

encouraging to see this good ending. your persistence helps build a better world for our kids.

ahtan

But I agree that kids who were mostly raised by maids are more badly behaved then kids raised by mums. There is a kid in my kid's school who is constantly causing trouble and hurting/pushing people. His parents never show up at any school thing and he has mosquito bites all over his face and body....his parents don't seem to care too much...

ANChan59

原帖由 aiyah 於 10-9-21 18:33 發表
encouraging to see this good ending. your persistence helps build a better world for our kids.

It's not a good ending anyway, we can see the character of the kid after graduation and come back to HK, bendfit the society or become the burden of the society?

We do our job with some basic principle to keep our kids on track. So many adults complain about the behaviour and character of the kids and tennagers today. Do we do something postive to change that or echo on some wrong doings and stressed that most parents doing that.........

ANChan59

原帖由 miffy 於 10-9-22 10:14 發表
我覺得視乎家長點教, 有人請工人, 仔女都好乖, 有人請工人, 仔女成個生番。

不過時下好多家長過份縱容小朋友, 再把小朋友奉成高人一等, 如果唔係都唔會咁多港孩/公主病/皇子病........

Glad to know we are on the same page......

[ 本帖最後由 ANChan59 於 10-9-22 11:37 編輯 ]

Pooh_Pooh

八卦下...
睇到八婆雜誌話, 梁虫虫個女原來讀ST."史提芬"...  之前聽講ST."保保男女"收左佢個女喎, 一直以為佢讀呢間添~

appleycma

原帖由 Pooh_Pooh 於 10-9-29 16:08 發表
八卦下...
睇到八婆雜誌話, 梁虫虫個女原來讀ST."史提芬"...  之前聽講ST."保保男女"收左佢個女喎, 一直以為佢讀呢間添~

yes,佢個女係讀spcc P.2

C9C9

magazine 寫 "開放日直擊 難頂女拔萃 林海峰大女轉漢基"

真的嗎?

莎莎莉莉

原帖由 miffy 於 10-9-22 10:14 發表
我覺得視乎家長點教, 有人請工人, 仔女都好乖, 有人請工人, 仔女成個生番。

不過時下好多家長過份縱容小朋友, 再把小朋友奉成高人一等, 如果唔係都唔會咁多港孩/公主病/皇子病........

我以前自己揍小朋友, 佢比較 ...

我自己都buy , 媽咪返工, 小朋友可以訓練到有更好的獨立性, 有工人係度, 多少有點依賴, 所以同時要管好姐姐, 唔好俾佢做得太多.

我記得有日我叫我仔飲水, 點知佢跟住行去張梳化, 坐左係度, 姐姐已斟左杯水放左係枱, 跟住我就話個仔, 飲水應該自己行去拎, 唔可以要工人拎埋俾你!

所以我很少叫工人幫我筆埋飯, 我覺得呢個榜樣唔係咁好.