男校，女校，男女校

fatgoat

請問有無家長曾經就讀男校/女校，好以分享一下經驗?  對小孩成長影響大嗎?  有甚麼好處，有甚麼壞處?

ziyi

中學讀男校,由和尚寺出返到正常社會要一些適應期怎樣與異性相處
尤其是讀商科,由一個女孩子都無變成自己是小數人士,最初都幾怕, 但一兩個星期後咪習慣返晒
所以都無太大不良影響
返而男校時會free一些,不會因兩性相處而困擾,我覺得幾好
而且,對異性會守禮一些,因為怕嗎

原帖由 fatgoat 於 09-11-16 11:34 發表
請問有無家長曾經就讀男校/女校，好以分享一下經驗?  對小孩成長影響大嗎?  有甚麼好處，有甚麼壞處?

happyvalley

原帖由 fatgoat 於 09-11-16 11:34 發表
請問有無家長曾經就讀男校/女校，好以分享一下經驗?  對小孩成長影響大嗎?  有甚麼好處，有甚麼壞處?

單性會有人際溝通問題的，不過好多大學生都是出自單性學校。

ggoo

我女講明只讀男女校,一定唔讀女校,所以我唔使諗咁多,只考慮男女校就可以.
我個人來講都是鍾意男女校多d,我覺得男女校會開心d.

AugSun

That's a difficult questions, studying in boys or girls school, will afraid they will be gay or lesbian.  Studying in Co-ed school, will afriad they make complicated relationships???????

For myself, I was studied in girls school.  And I am fine.  It is really depends of the children themselves.  

It is very difficult to choose.

原帖由 ggoo 於 09-11-16 14:09 發表
我女講明只讀男女校,一定唔讀女校,所以我唔使諗咁多,只考慮男女校就可以.
我個人來講都是鍾意男女校多d,我覺得男女校會開心d.

fatgoat

Yes, it is a difficult question and decision.   Most of the good schools, although not all, are either boys / girls schools.   

My daughter is a 男仔頭， prefers playing with boys to girls, and I am afraid that she would be relatively "too manish" if she studied in a girl's school.  

I am now thinking whether I should  choose a 好女校or 中上的新進直資學校(Evangel College)。   (好女校係大路之選，但恕小弟唔想透露. )

[ 本帖最後由 fatgoat 於 09-11-16 14:42 編輯 ]

ziyi

擔心唔到咁多,最緊要選擇一間學習上適合她的學校就可以
我也是生了一個活潑好動的囡囡,我沒有理會是女校定男女校,只認定什麼學習模式的學校作目標而已
Fatgoat:大家努力啦,始終生女兒是對做父親的一大磨練

原帖由 fatgoat 於 09-11-16 14:41 發表
Yes, it is a difficult question and decision.   Most of the good schools, although not all, are either boys / girls schools.   

My daughter is a 男仔頭， prefers playing with boys to girls, and I am af ...

captkkk

原帖由 fatgoat 於 09-11-16 14:41 發表
Yes, it is a difficult question and decision.   Most of the good schools, although not all, are either boys / girls schools.   

My daughter is a 男仔頭， prefers playing with boys to girls, and I am af ...

你咁就政治不正確啦，乜唔係好多 "同道" 話呢味野係天生既咩，即係後天冇咩關係啦，咁你位小天使若果已 "選定" 會成為 "同道" 既話，咁你點揀都係冇用。

flostangraphy

poor dad....  

原帖由 ziyi 於 16/11/2009 14:55 發表
擔心唔到咁多,最緊要選擇一間學習上適合她的學校就可以
我也是生了一個活潑好動的囡囡,我沒有理會是女校定男女校,只認定什麼學習模式的學校作目標而已
Fatgoat:大家努力啦,始終生女兒是對做父親的一大磨練
...

G-Ma

我妹讀女校, 佢同幾個朋友到宜加30頭都未嫁得出, 因為佢地唔係好識同男仔相處, 當然同佢地性格可能有關係, 但我覺得朋輩影響都係有.  所以我自己prefer 男女校, 始終學校都係社會既縮影, 愈早適應愈好.

flostangraphy

it's actually a very sensitive subject...
anyway, we still don't know what 's the exact cause of homosexual (先天,後天).
however, i'm quite surprised and really admire Mr fatgoat did raise such taboo in the forum.

原帖由 captkkk 於 16/11/2009 16:09 發表


你咁就政治不正確啦，乜唔係好多 "同道" 話呢味野係天生既咩，即係後天冇咩關係啦，咁你位小天使若果已 "選定" 會成為 "同道" 既話，咁你點揀都係冇用。 ...

aa120520

I think it depend on your kid. If they are active, no problem if they study in boy or girl school. BTW, I think most of the kid have many other activities. Like sport, music, etc. So they have many chance to communicate with the others.

dad1234

香港地咁細,讀什麼學校都唔會影響人際溝通問題,(個人問題另計)

emmyfok

我都識有 D 女仔讀女校, 冇結婚, 但我覺得佢地並非性格有問題, 而係個人條件太好, 單單一口流俐英語, 已嚇走不少只會打機的港男...

原帖由 G-Ma 於 09-11-16 16:43 發表
我妹讀女校, 佢同幾個朋友到宜加30頭都未嫁得出, 因為佢地唔係好識同男仔相處, 當然同佢地性格可能有關係, 但我覺得朋輩影響都係有.  所以我自己prefer 男女校, 始終學校都係社會既縮影, 愈早適應愈好. ...

Lyn

There are some arguments support that the single sex schools are better for kids development, in terms of academic, etc. It says that this will help them concentrate on their study regardless of the boys and girls stuff and of course puppy love....  It happens that my son is studying at a boys' school, the students seem alright to me.

I don't think single sex schools create gays and lesbians. "Gays and lesians" should be constitutional. You probably find quite a number of Indoesian maids act like lesbian, I am almost sure they are not from girls schools.

Sumyeema1

原帖由 Lyn 於 09-11-17 10:57 發表
You probably find quite a number of Indoesian maids act like lesbian, I am almost sure they are not from girls schools

haha, that's ture, even many of them married & have kids in hometown.....

flostangraphy

so is it an argument that support that people do change their constitutional character once they move to a mono sex environment?

these maids may not from a single sex school, however, once they arrived in hong kong, their social life become only with other maids... which create an switch base on adaptation of mono sex environment... ?!?!?!

other than school, we may also find a similar mono sex environment like church, prison, or army..... which we may sometime heard some extreme case occurs....

i came from a boys' school, and luckily to be normal and married...
but somehow, i did find i had a  lot of difficulties dating with girls after secondary school....
as emmyfok has mentioned, and she is right....
my own opinions from the hong kong girls i know in the pass (of cause including my own sisters..... sorry sisters ), give me images that they are in general difficult to approach, opportunist, and sometime selfish... (may be just i didn't really have luck with hong kong girls, that's all... )

i agree that the academic result may generally more even in a mono sex school. however, we still can find a lot of students with 10As every year who are coming from normal boy and girl schools....  

i do find that girls from girls' school may usually more independent due to they have been trained to live without asking help from boys during these years!!

so as conclusion... there is no conclusion!
i'm in the same opinion as ziyi. target the schools based on their curriculum, education philosophy and school vision. there is still a long way to go for our child after primary school! :loveliness:

chumamma

agreed !

原帖由 emmyfok 於 09-11-17 10:55 發表
人條件太好, 單單一口流俐英語, 已嚇走不少只會打機的港男...

flostangraphy

咁你重比唔比你個仔打機呀?!?!!

原帖由 chumamma 於 19/11/2009 00:13 發表
agreed !