名校的迷思

Sindy

原帖由 judy 於 09-10-5 16:45 發表


hui3328,

你講嘅嘢有冇說服力，和你的背景、有幾多同學在名校教，幾多錢收入，會考幾多A關糸不大。

要用邏輯、常理和數据來說服人！

good point

Geni

hm~~~ hui3328 你o既觀點同經歷好值得大家參考, 但我又覺得咁樣又未至於可以將學校對小朋友o既影響力降到10%咁少o掛! 你o既成績同成就的確好卓越, 卓越到可能o係你o既中學來講係難得一見, 但相同o既成績同成就, 可能o係其他學校就時有發生. 唔通o個d學校o既學生個個都係好似你咁完全唔駛靠學校就有好成績? 我諗你都不能否定學校o既重要性掛!

我唔覺得名校係靈丹, 但又唔覺得佢地係毒藥喎! 只要父母覺得自己o既小朋友適合讀名校, 咁讀又何妨呢!

diversity

This Mr TXXy HXX comes from an education group. It looks he's trying to create uncertainty, anxiety and mistrust among parents to the local education system (famous brands). May be he can look for more fortune from this???

By the way, can a program director earn an annual income of $2M????   

http://globalbusiness.uncc.edu/default.asp?id=163

小伊

你當年如果唔系轉咗黎香港呢間名校，而系繼續留在大陸農村讀書嘅話，今日又會點樣呢？你個女可能還舉起勝利手勢說“I love Hong Kong” 咋！

Gooddaddy

Dear Two million dollar man,

Like you said, the success of an individual depends on many factors.  Good academic achievement will bode well for one's career.  To achieve good academic result, I'm sure everyone will agree that a good school will play an important role in helping a child to get there.  That's why getting in a good school is always a good start.  Would you regard yourself as an epitome of what a good student should be?

mow-mow

There are always some kids who can be placed anywhere & still blossom.
But for the mere mortals, a good studying environment (ie a good school) is vitally important, as most kids find it hard to resist the influence of their friends / schoolmates.
Given the choice, most parents will choose the tried & trusted good schools.

boilermaker

原帖由 diversity 於 09-10-6 00:01 發表

This Mr TXXy HXX comes from an education group. It looks he's trying to create uncertainty, anxiety and mistrust among parents to the local education system (famous brands). May be he ...

[ 本帖最後由 boilermaker 於 09-10-22 16:30 編輯 ]

EMILY03

我覺得名校最好的優勢是可以吸納到一些條件好的學生 , 學生與學生之間其實已存在著比賽和競爭 , 我相信佢地雖然細亦會對自己有要求 , 唔想輸 , 便會努力點 .

flostangraphy

嘩!!  好在你寫得咁大隻!! 如果唔係都真係會睇溜眼...

原帖由 hui3328 於 5/10/2009 16:24 發表
以個人的經歷, 小朋友是否讀到書, 天資及努力起碼佔咗7成, 家庭2成, 學校最多佔1成.

本人出身於大陸農村, 12歲才移民來港.  被大部份的香港學校拒收. 由ABC學起, 會考一樣考到6條A. 取得知名大學及碩士學位

現任 ...

catcatmom

sorry!我要補充, 個小朋友係4年級下學期先開始, 慢慢+上去, 數學就5年級一間補習社, 5年級下學期+多左一間. 不是開始就甘多補習. 不要"客"親.
而另外一個朋友個仔就讀x拔, 入去第一年就同我講, 知唔知點解x拔d小朋友 甘叻?
//因佢個仔好大部分d同學,閒閒地有10/8個,補習老師!//
佢係甘講, 我係甘聽, 不要質我, 質疑我, 唔該!

原帖由 judy 於 09-10-5 09:32 發表


好得人驚！

catcatmom

我以前係外國讀書時候, 大陸d同學同我講, 你地香港人邊度有我地d大6人讀書甘叻! 你地香港人讀4個鐘, 我地8個, 你地讀8個, 我地可以天光唔訓甘讀, 香港 d學生只可以天光唔訓甘打機......

原帖由 hui3328 於 09-10-5 16:24 發表
以個人的經歷, 小朋友是否讀到書, 天資及努力起碼佔咗7成, 家庭2成, 學校最多佔1成.

本人出身於大陸農村, 12歲才移民來港.  被大部份的香港學校拒收. 由ABC學起, 會考一樣考到6條A. 取得知名大學及碩士學位

現任 ...

mattsmum

no wonder a 2nd rank tutor can get 0ver 6 million annual salary=== "如果學校教得掂, 你話洗唔洗個個揾外援呢"

ysnmama

如何分配時間? 其實是家長想子女更上一層樓? 還是真的有需要? 是家長問題, 學生問題定學校問題?

原帖由 Planet 於 09-10-6 21:04 發表
係真架, 我朋友英文2-3位tutors, 中文3位tutors, 數學2位tutors.  如果學校教得掂, 你話洗唔洗個個揾外援呢?

GIPW

I think I once read a topic from one of the top professor in Hong Kong whose children also a gratuade of ST Paul cx.  His comment was to put his children in the famous school is to get the right peergroup from them.  With the good or same level of peer group, the learning momentum could be really good.  They tend to learn from each other

When the children is small, the influence from family is very important - how to encourage them, to give them confidence and also to guide them to a righteous way.  But when they grow, peer group become important - this include your teacher and also your classmates.  Only when everyone has a commom goal then they will be able to explore themselves more - classmates to learn and also compete each other and teachers to give them guidance.

I think everyone here is right - parent, the hardship of the children, school are important.  Without a school, you just cannot gather these top students.  Just like every top student is eager to get into the top uni and every top employee will strive to get into a good company.