係唔係入唔到名校，是否一切？

hcheng

昨日同一個親戚傾開小一入學問題，佢用一啲好唔好啲語氣問乜唔係入依間，果間! (註：依間，果間都係名校) 我都唔知點樣答佢！昨晚諗番佢講過嘅嘢，成晚瞓唔倒，不禁想到唔通入唔到名校，是否一切！

其實我囝囝考到陳守仁同埋抽到間本區幾好嘅津小，但怕幾年後細囡考小學時競爭仲大(因佢今年考KG，間間都有幾千人考，申請直資時都唔知咁誇張)，加上嗰間津小又係基督教學校，所以放棄陳守仁，都唔知依個決定係咪錯呢？

因怕同另一半講嗰個親戚啲嘢，而令到佢唔開心，所以借此呻吓，請見諒！


[ 本帖最後由 hcheng 於 08-12-15 13:26 編輯 ]

dimmy

Of course not, school is just a place for training up the kid. There are so many other factors as well.
P1 is just a starting point. As parents, we want to let the kid study with good peers, not the name of school.  I can't deny that the peers and background of parents whose kids study in  famous schools may be stronger  (in general) in support of kids' development. It doesn't mean your kid can't achieve well if he studies in a local school. The quality of kid also depends on the role model of the kids, the parents. This is my own opinion. You may not agree.  I grew up in Ngau Tau Kok Estate and studied in a local primary school and band 2/3 secondary school. But I have been working well and completed my higher degree 15 years ago. ( I guess many people from all levels can achieve that.) A famous school may give a better starting point only. That is why I also try to put my kid in a good school but it does not decide the final point. Simply, it is not suprised to see poor students from these 'famous schools;.
No need to be upset.

原帖由 hcheng 於 08-11-27 14:01 發表
昨日同一個親戚傾開小一入學問題，佢用一啲好唔好啲語氣問乜唔係入依間，果間! (註：依間，果間都係名校) 我都唔知點樣答佢！昨晚諗番佢講過嘅嘢，成晚瞓唔倒，不禁想到唔通入唔到名校，咁就一世！

其實我囝囝考到陳守仁同埋抽到間本 ...

[ 本帖最後由 dimmy 於 08-11-27 14:21 編輯 ]

BBR

讀唔讀到書小朋友大左就知,唔讀名校唔代表無得出人頭地,最憎D白鴿眼人:;pppp: ,駛咩理D人講咩,個個講就叻,做就 ,最緊要你清楚你自己個小朋友,其他人駛咩理

loy211

親戚朋友說的話不大重要,你最清楚自己的小朋友需要什麼,對不?

jovemama

原帖由 hcheng 於 08-11-27 14:01 發表
昨日同一個親戚傾開小一入學問題，佢用一啲好唔好啲語氣問乜唔係入依間，果間! (註：依間，果間都係名校) 我都唔知點樣答佢！昨晚諗番佢講過嘅嘢，成晚瞓唔倒，不禁想到唔通入唔到名校，咁就一世！

其實我囝囝考到陳守仁同埋抽到間本 ...

唔好理呢D人啦 ,總之做父母嘅一定想個小朋友好,每一個決定一定會經過深思熟慮,決定左之後唔駛理其他人講嘅,其他路過嘅人個個有唔同意見,理唔到咁多架,總之你自己一定要支持自己,我喺呢度都支持你

pearjadema

原帖由 hcheng 於 08-11-27 14:01 發表
昨日同一個親戚傾開小一入學問題，佢用一啲好唔好啲語氣問乜唔係入依間，果間! (註：依間，果間都係名校) 我都唔知點樣答佢！昨晚諗番佢講過嘅嘢，成晚瞓唔倒，不禁想到唔通入唔到名校，咁就一世！

其實我囝囝考到陳守仁同埋抽到間本 ...

Hello hcheng,

自己最清楚自己想要既野, 自己住既附近有個不錯既offer又可惠及妹妹比我都會咁選擇, 每個人都有自己既一套好難做到個個認同自己, 信自己啦唔哂理d冇謂人

[ 本帖最後由 pearjadema 於 08-11-27 16:07 編輯 ]

大鴨媽

of course not la

it is quite understandable.

school is just a place for child to learn, can learn how much very much depends on the child.

family is the most important place for learning.

the most important thing is your kid find learning is fun at this stage.

原帖由 hcheng 於 08-11-27 14:01 發表
昨日同一個親戚傾開小一入學問題，佢用一啲好唔好啲語氣問乜唔係入依間，果間! (註：依間，果間都係名校) 我都唔知點樣答佢！昨晚諗番佢講過嘅嘢，成晚瞓唔倒，不禁想到唔通入唔到名校，咁就一世！

其實我囝囝考到陳守仁同埋抽到間本 ...

KLLP

Totally agreed.

Getting into a more establisehed school is just a start, both the child and the parent have to work hard (I don't mean doing a lot of exercise but to educating your child and guide him/her on the right track) on it.

原帖由 大鴨媽 於 08-11-27 16:41 發表
of course not la

it is quite understandable.

school is just a place for child to learn, can learn how much very much depends on the child.

family is the most important place for learning.

the most ...

[ 本帖最後由 KLLP 於 08-11-27 16:50 編輯 ]

阿西

而家D人考名校唔同我地果代，我地果時真係好叻好叻果D先敢去考，但呢代，考名校係好大眾化，人人都去爭下，所以家長就好大壓力，加上咁多直資，以前好多好既津校都輪為二線，好似唔值錢咁，社會風氣係咁，作為江湖中一員，點會感受唔到壓力，只有自己盡量去平衝。

就黎失控果陣，我會小D上BK，呢度，都幾competitive。

[ 本帖最後由 阿西 於 08-11-27 17:13 編輯 ]

Crabtree

其實你都不必理會他人所說, 自己父母難道唔知邊條路係對自己小朋友對嗎?  名校係學習風氣較好, 但唔代表屋邨學校差, 近幾年屋邨中學亦可以係會考及高考出到狀元, 成績亦開始迎頭趕上呢?

LS+MCS

原帖由 hcheng 於 08-11-27 14:01 發表
昨日同一個親戚傾開小一入學問題，佢用一啲好唔好啲語氣問乜唔係入依間，果間! (註：依間，果間都係名校) 我都唔知點樣答佢！昨晚諗番佢講過嘅嘢，成晚瞓唔倒，不禁想到唔通入唔到名校，咁就一世！

其實我囝囝考到陳守仁同埋抽到間本 ...

In life, you may find if difficult to please everybody. Sometimes, people drive you mad for no reason at all. As long as you've done nothing wrong, the truth will come out one day. Time will prove.

阿西

原帖由 LS+MCS 於 08-11-27 17:33 發表
people drive you mad for no reason at all

Exactly!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

毛妹

要視乎你囝囝係咩類喇！如果資質好，當然比佢讀好學校。但如果不愛讀書，就無謂入名校啦！
我覺得我囡囡好學積極，所以揀名校比佢。最後Good Hope 收咗！反而有朋友問我：「點解唔揀就近學校，要坐校車咁辛苦？點解唔問下囡囡鐘意讀邊間？你揀晒d名校，你要求幾高啫！入附近學校機會率大d喎！」
我覺得有d人唔想我囡囡入名校就咁講，我決定以後唔會理人點講。

060905

揀名校俾小朋友讀只係想佢行條好路, 但唔代表讀名校一定讀得叻, 都要個小朋友爭氣先得架, 所以入到名校當bonus羅, 盈盈下年入名校幼稚園, 希望佢爭爭氣氣啦！

原帖由 毛妹 於 08-11-28 13:54 發表
要視乎你囝囝係咩類喇！如果資質好，當然比佢讀好學校。但如果不愛讀書，就無謂入名校啦！
我覺得我囡囡好學積極，所以揀名校比佢。最後Good Hope 收咗！反而有朋友問我：「點解唔揀就近學校，要坐校車咁辛苦？點解唔問下囡囡鐘意讀邊 ...

calipama

名校一樣有垃圾家長同垃圾學生,
官津校一樣有好家長同好學生!

mymelody2003

其實我都聽過身邊朋友講出類似說話 , 起初我同你一樣, 懷疑自己是否選錯學校呢? 因為我選學校時必須近屋企, 再加上top小學真係好難爭, 顧慮實太多了, 最後選了間中上小學....

在自行階段幸運地囝囝抽中了, 真係唔想為左某一些人既說話而變改, 現在大吹世係去考直資/私校, 或你唔選最top既津校有人會用好寄怪既眼光去睇你, 但我認為我才知道哪些學校適合囝囝

ericby

大誇張!!

mow-mow

You can please some peolpe some of the time but you cannot please everybody all of the time.
If you don't choose famous school, some peolpe may look down on you.
But if you do choose famous school, some peolpe will say that you only use your children to show off.
Whatever you do, someone somewhere will have something unpleasant to say.
So forget it - just do what you feel is the right thing.