做完小一面試班既模擬面試之後....

SandyWu

尋日阿囡做完小一面試班既模擬面試之後,佢既成績比起平時差左好多,連老師都話佢表現失準左 我好唔開心,阿囡都係,所以我即時同佢報左兩堂改進班

其實我都知阿囡唔係好top既小朋友,不過佢係幼稚園既成績一向都係A,至多有兩個B+,所以佢自己都好唔開心,尋晚好夜都唔訓覺,佢話以為尋日係真係考學校喎

唔知各位媽咪有無經驗可以SHARE下,點樣開解阿囡呢

Yanamami

Nobody can show their best under pressure.  Bear in mind
that performance at an interview is more important than
school results.

原文章由 SandyWu 於 07-8-13 10:36 發表
尋日阿囡做完小一面試班既模擬面試之後,佢既成績比起平時差左好多,連老師都話佢表現失準左 我好唔開心,阿囡都係,所以我即時同佢報左兩堂改進班

其實我都知阿囡唔係好top既小朋友,不過佢係幼稚園既成績 ...

SandyWu

原文章由 Yanamami 於 07-8-13 11:06 發表
Nobody can show their best under pressure.  Bear in mind
that performance at an interview is more important than
school results.

我都知道interview既臨場表現係最重要,所以我而家咪煩惱緊點樣鼓勵番阿囡同自己law

我真係唔想俾太多壓力自己同佢,而家仲有些少後悔報左面試班,因為當初老公唔多贊成報讀,佢話順其自然仲好喎

Unclejt

原文章由 SandyWu 於 07-8-13 11:24 發表
我都知道interview既臨場表現係最重要,所以我而家咪煩惱緊點樣鼓勵番阿囡同自己law

我真係唔想俾太多壓力自己同佢,而家仲有些少後悔報左面試班,因為當初老公唔多贊成報讀,佢話順其自然仲好喎

孩子去年也有參加模擬面試，有錄映那隻。雖然只是模擬，但他緊張得不得了。看著錄映很心疼，感覺讓孩子受罪。

何必後悔？起碼你知道最壞的情況會是怎樣。現在距離正式面試仍有兩個月，大把時間改善。

SandyWu

原文章由 Unclejt 於 07-8-13 12:10 發表

孩子去年也有參加模擬面試，有錄映那隻。雖然只是模擬，但他緊張得不得了。看著錄映很心疼，感覺讓孩子受罪。

何必後悔？起碼你知道最壞的情況會是怎樣。現在距離正式面試仍有兩個月，大把時間改善。

原來妳也有類似既經驗,多謝妳既分享,阿囡既面試情況沒有錄影,所以我真係唔知個真實情況,只係面試後睇番份paper既result,不過自己就真係好唔開心,因為好似俾左好多壓力俾阿囡

事關我有朋友既仔仔上年報小一,不過佢無同仔仔報面試班,佢仔仔都ok考到幾間私校,最後陳守仁收左佢仔仔,所以佢唔係太buy我俾阿囡上面試班,而我尋日都有d動搖,anyway,如妳所講,起碼我知個
worst case係去到邊,同埋俾阿囡知道好多人會叻過佢,佢平時係學校出慣風頭,屋企人又成日稱讚佢,因為全屋得佢一個小朋友,慣哂俾人讚,連我都係,所以尋日會有harding feeling

如妳所講,仲有兩個月,我會try my best去改進佢既缺點,盡力就
ok,唔會再contine面試班lu(佢地9月同10月都有course既)

HORSEHEADS

原文章由 SandyWu 於 07-8-13 10:36 發表
尋日阿囡做完小一面試班既模擬面試之後,佢既成績比起平時差左好多,連老師都話佢表現失準左 我好唔開心,阿囡都係,所以我即時同佢報左兩堂改進班

其實我都知阿囡唔係好top既小朋友,不過佢係幼稚園既成績 ...

Dear SandyWu

Please don't upset if your daughter's performance is not
good during the mock interview.  It is because the school will look at the kid's actual performance in that day.
Should your girl is shy, I think the intereview class does
help a little.  However, if your daughter is an outgoing
type, then I don't think you need to put her in any
interview class. It is much better if she can perform
naturally.  I know some parents did put their kids in those classes, but ended up none of those kids get into top
school.  Perhaps, it is better that if you can train your
daughter on your own in general knowledges, manners
and analsis skills, instead of wasting $ on those classes.
In fact, I just did those this year when my daughter had
her primary interviews.  She has done very good and will
attend DGJS this Sept.
Good luck to you!

vic6

HORSEHEADS,
GOOD LUCK TO YOU!
Means you hv enrolled the interview classes, which one? & where is it located? Did you try 小博�小狀？Pls give me comment for this. many thanks!!

原文章由 HORSEHEADS 於 07-8-13 13:31 發表

Dear SandyWu

Please don't upset if your daughter's performance is not
good during the mock interview.  It is because the school will look at the kid's actual performance in that day.
Sho ...

SandyWu

原文章由 HORSEHEADS 於 07-8-13 13:31 發表

Dear SandyWu

Please don't upset if your daughter's performance is not
good during the mock interview.  It is because the school will look at the kid's actual performance in that day.
Sho ...

Dear HORSEHEADS,

Thanks for your comfort and I am so glad that you
shared your experience with me.  After "one day" resting, I am much better now.  

Can you PM me which Interview Class you joined?  I want
to know is it the same of mine.

Thanks.

SandyWu

I planned to have more practice (by myself) with my
daughter during the summer holidays.

Can I have more sharing about mock interview

G-Ma

Sandy,

我囡囡以前都有參加過呢類模擬考試, 因為有錄影, 見佢嚇到面青青, 又好似唔多明考官問咩咁, 手騰腳震, 不過就可以比我知道有咩地方要幫佢執執同改善.  所以唔駛太緊張呢個成績, 你都係想佢攞經驗je, 最緊要係大家都relax d, 唔好咁緊張, 到正式考嘅時候係睇臨場應變, 只要保持小朋友愉快心情, 佢地發揮到小宇宙, 就可能有意想不到既成績.

有d面試班為咗要你多上兩堂可能真係特登比少d分小朋友, 咁又可以賺多d.  所以唔駛介懷果個分數.

原文章由 SandyWu 於 07-8-13 16:54 發表
I planned to have more practice (by myself) with my
daughter during the summer holidays.

Can I have more sharing about mock interview

[ 本文章最後由 G-Ma 於 07-8-14 10:44 編輯 ]

SandyWu

原文章由 G-Ma 於 07-8-13 18:22 發表
Sandy,

我囡囡以前都有參加過呢類模擬考試, 因為有錄影, 見佢嚇到面青青, 又好似唔多明考官問咩咁, 手騰腳震, 不過就可以比我知道有咩地方要幫佢執執同改善.  所以唔駛太緊張呢個成績, 你都係想佢攞經 ...

G-Ma,

Thanks for your sharing

You mentioned the point which make me feel more
comfort.  Perhaps the reason for the marker giving lower points to my daughter is for " my further study".   
Although it is not the truth, I will try to learn "take it
easy".

HORSEHEADS

原文章由 vic6 於 07-8-13 13:39 發表
HORSEHEADS,
GOOD LUCK TO YOU!
Means you hv enrolled the interview classes, which one? & where is it located? Did you try 小博�小狀？Pls give me comment for this. many thanks!!

Hi SandyWu

I did not put my daughter in any interview class since my
daughter is an outgoing type.  However  I trained her by
myself in manners such as say "Thank you" and good bye
after each interview,  analysis skills such as problem
solving... (teach your kids don't say " I don't know" in any
questions if she doesn't know)  It is the biggest drawback
the interviewer to choose your kids.  Acutually, I think the
interviewer just want to test the kid to see how well
they can handle in a strange situation. Please encourage
her to provide any answer since the intereview never
expect a  5 year old child can answer like an adult.
At last.... general knowledge such as seasons, times
simple maths etce...   
As a experience parents, please don't reliance on any
interview school since they won't guarateen your
child can get into any your dream school.   
In fact my daughter has done quite good for her
primary one interview last year.  She is accepted by
APT, KTS, DGJS, Sacred Heart, Kau Yan and Good Hope

SandyWu

Hi, HORSEHEADS,

Thank you so much for your sharing.

妳囡囡好叻呀,有kum多間好既學校取錄

我而家知道真係要平常心d,唔好聽哂/信哂面試班,因為可能佢地想d家長continue去俾錢讀,每次都有新問題出現,如我老公所講,如果阿囡平時係ok既,中中地既學校都應該無問題既,叫我唔好太擔心,況且我諗住私校係back up,報面試班當初只係當summer
course同知道下個遊戲方式,點知自己既eq唔掂law
好彩自己而家知唔好再係kum,唔係阿囡就會有好大壓力,我好多既親戚同好朋友都話,只要阿囡開開心心kum學習,唔一定要迫得太緊,因為我得一個囡,真係唔想大家既關係因為面試班而....無得救

eeec

Don't give up and upset. Actually from the experience last year. I do trust the interview lesson may not help a lot to the kids, especially the mock exam. ( My daughter joined those class for few months). Sometimes they may enhance the pressure to us, so that we will join some more classes in their entre.I think if we can teach them how to relax and response to the interviewer naturally and politely is more important. I don't think the teacher are looking for 100 marks or all correct answer during the interview. Since from my daughter's information, she really cannot answer all questions during those interview. However we did accepted by few schools, one of it may need to have paper test ( actually she could not finish all the questions in the paper test).

SandyWu

原文章由 eeec 於 07-8-14 16:54 發表
Don't give up and upset. Actually from the experience last year. I do trust the interview lesson may not help a lot to the kids, especially the mock exam. ( My daughter joined those class for few ...

eeec,

Thanks a lot, I really happy to see that many of us have
the same experience.

I really hope my daughter can study happily.  My hubby
reminded me that it is important for her to have a happy school life rather than compare with others.

Perhaps I think too much on the "Mock Exam".   I need to give confidence and support my daughter since she is
only a 5 years old girl.  Do you think so

eeec

Yes. As a parent, we always want to give them the best. However in this case both of you are suffered and she will much more upset than you because she's not yet understanding the game- why the parent are so concern to the interview? Why I  need to attend to interview of numbers of school, and not one only. Am I not good enough? A cheerful and confidence kid is far more important than the result. Just let you know-my girl also got poor mark in that kind of mock exam. After that the teacher of the center also advised my girl may need to attend some strengthening class. However we did not enroll those class. But we did accept some of the comments and improve it by ourselves.Just let your daughter to relax and give her some time to improve. If she still can't do it well, we need to accept. Progress of every kid is different.

SandyWu

原文章由 eeec 於 07-8-14 20:09 發表
Yes. As a parent, we always want to give them the best. However in this case both of you are suffered and she will much more upset than you because she's not yet understanding the game- why the p ...

eeec,

I absolutely agreed with you.  I will take it easy.

Thanks

lovelymamama

may help:

http://hk.geocities.com/education.planning/education.html

SandyWu

原文章由 lovelymamama 於 07-8-15 02:08 發表
may help:

http://hk.geocities.com/education.planning/education.html

Thanks for your information.

Cheers

luiling

原文章由 SandyWu 於 07-8-13 10:36 發表
尋日阿囡做完小一面試班既模擬面試之後,佢既成績比起平時差左好多,連老師都話佢表現失準左 我好唔開心,阿囡都係,所以我即時同佢報左兩堂改進班

其實我都知阿囡唔係好top既小朋友,不過佢係幼稚園既成績 ...

請問你地有無中西區面試班course 學校呀? tks!