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唔好意思講句, 不過真係真心話 [複製鏈接]

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發表於 08-8-23 15:11 |只看該作者
如果孩子沒有學習/情緒問題,其實無需要做IQ/EQ評估;家長其實帶孩子做一些驗眼、聽覺、手眼協調測驗;又或見物理治療師做些坐姿行姿檢查,會來更得實際,更能幫助孩子的發展。

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發表於 08-9-2 18:22 |只看該作者
Just want to be know more from the test as 知己知比, 百戰百勝

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發表於 08-10-14 15:06 |只看該作者
我都唔想知我個女係唔係資優, 我寧願佢做普通人一個, 講真資優生都未必好架, 有d會比較孤獨, 有d會比較自大. 資唔資優係天生, 但係後天努力絕對係好重要.
如果有得比我去check EQ 而唔係IQ, 我寧願佢Check EQ好過, EQ好唔好仲緊要, 因為佢地踏出社會既都要係10幾年後既事, 到時可能通街都係資優, 咁可以代表咩? (即係10幾年前D阿媽想我地讀大學, 到而家10幾年後既呢代, 咪又係通街都係大學生), 但係EQ 就未必個個控制得好, 反而教佢EQ會唔會係對佢有長遠既幫助呢?

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發表於 08-11-25 03:38 |只看該作者
Yes, just let kids be kids and have a happy and memorable childhood.

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發表於 08-12-6 20:49 |只看該作者
同意你地~

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發表於 09-1-15 14:58 |只看該作者
i just don't understand why parents want to give IQ test to their children.  If you found out that they are not born with a super power brain, what are you going to do?  Kill them or not let them goto school.  I remembered when I was in school (ok, that's at least 30 years ago), we did not have IQ test besides the one during P6.   All my teachers said I am a talent kid, but I was so lazy that I almost missed going to my secondary school, although my avg scores were 86.x.  IMHO, IQ is only part of the ingredients, hard work and know how to be a useful human being out-weighted everything else.


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發表於 09-1-19 16:28 |只看該作者
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發表於 09-1-20 12:45 |只看該作者
原帖由 bedema 於 09-1-15 14:58 發表
i just don't understand why parents want to give IQ test to their children.  If you found out that they are not born with a super power brain, what are you going to do?  Kill them or not let them goto ...


I think some parent just want to know their child's strength & weakness and then providing adequate training to improve the weakness so as to make good use of the their resources (finance) on their child.

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發表於 09-1-22 21:44 |只看該作者
I think there's no harm to go for the test but just don't insert any pressure after getting the result.

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發表於 09-1-29 23:49 |只看該作者
我老公讀書唔聰明,學歷不及我,但系佢EQ勁高,最近比佢做左啲IQ TESE,發現佢速度快過我(自問都唔算慢,平均2分一題),仲準確過我添,所以我林佢IQ應唔差,唔知點解唔中意讀書。又有可能系一個人嘅智商會隨著環境和時間而變化的,我而家日日做“湊仔專業戶”IQ自然慢左幾拍,佢日日狂打爆機,反應唔快就奇啦!
所以TEST唔系唔好,不過唔好因為一時半刻嘅表現就肯一個人嘅能力,好多野系可以改變的,尤其系幾歲大嘅小朋友,發展空間幾乎不可想像!

[ 本帖最後由 venuscc 於 09-1-29 23:51 編輯 ]
阿女叫我地做:爸BB同媽媽C!

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發表於 09-4-3 00:55 |只看該作者
我真係好服果啲幫人check資優公司,有班咁嘅客仔,真係長做長有,一個三千,十個三萬,一千個三百萬,呢盤生意有得做.

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發表於 09-4-23 22:07 |只看該作者
yes ar......and parents hv interest to know the IQ of their child ma

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發表於 09-5-9 14:13 |只看該作者
非常同意
原帖由 sze1977 於 08-10-14 15:06 發表
我都唔想知我個女係唔係資優, 我寧願佢做普通人一個, 講真資優生都未必好架, 有d會比較孤獨, 有d會比較自大. 資唔資優係天生, 但係後天努力絕對係好重要.
如果有得比我去check EQ 而唔係IQ, 我寧願佢Check EQ好過, E ...

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發表於 09-5-10 11:47 |只看該作者
十分同意

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發表於 09-5-27 11:09 |只看該作者
Yes.. agree with your comment.  As parent today, just to find out a better, suitable and comfort way for our kids, let them be able to enjoy their cheerful growing life.  Being parent, not just label and push ...


原帖由 ANChan59 於 07-8-6 02:06 發表
Partially agreed. I declared my son did IQ test 4.5 years ago and scored 137. Sometimes, IQ test with the observations of the psychologist may help su to identify some learning problems of our kids be ...

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發表於 09-10-1 02:14 |只看該作者
大家都講得好有道理, 不過最深刻都係「資優低能」個point

有時d家長太緊張, 其實係會影響小朋友架

其實資唔資優, 唔係最重要, 一個人最緊要係心地好唔好同埋快唔快樂, 固然如果成績好又聰明當然好, 但最緊要都係我希望我個小朋友心中富有, 快快樂樂行佢自己既路, 我就心滿意足了!

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發表於 09-10-2 13:16 |只看該作者
iq test..有需要未做,無需要未唔好做囉...
放且....資優既小朋友,又唔代表佢一定會出人頭地....樣樣成功。

小朋友成長學習最需要既係一個了解佢能力同興趣既家長,而唔係認定佢既專家...專家既出現是幫助家長了解自己既小朋友。

不過...會唔會去標簽左你既小朋友,最重要係家長自己本身點看待呢一件事,或者呢一個分數...如果本身家長都係著重想小朋友有一個岩佢既學習方針..或者接受自己小朋友係一個平凡既小朋友...個分數高低都唔會影響家長心態既....
有好多野..後天可以培養...只是付出多一點心機,心思,耐性....

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發表於 09-10-2 16:57 |只看該作者
原帖由 jojoplanet 於 09-1-20 12:45 發表


I think some parent just want to know their child's strength & weakness and then providing adequate training to improve the weakness so as to make good use of the their resources (finance) on their  ...


Yes, i took my son to do the fingerprint test, ( not IQ test) just with such intention as to know his strength and weakness. Also his personality so as to find the best way to parent him.

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發表於 09-10-16 20:58 |只看該作者
係呀,我個仔都係自閉,但係佢砌圖好叻,記性好好
係一大份砌圖事但拎一塊佢都可以即刻擺番果個位,塊塊都得,唔係撞彩,我地都唔得啦~不過佢就某d野好弱
另外佢係人肉卡拉ok,音樂好叻,
不過佢唔係資優

原帖由 nanshanlu 於 07-8-17 15:19 發表
我以前接觸過6-16歲的自閉兒童, 好多"資優", 有:

1. "人肉拍子機", 有佢打拍子, 就聽唔到拍子機聲, 同一timing
2. "活日曆", 只要係三年內的日子, 你講某年的某日期, 佢即答係星期幾. 你問星期幾, 佢計到幾多號
3.  ...

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發表於 09-10-22 17:03 |只看該作者
you know what being smart is not good. Smart people alway think the ultimate outcome of every facts. But how many outcomes are good ? they always lack of motivation,passion and energy since they already prepared for the worst.
besides, smart people are always alone, he/she can solve the problems by themself and need not to share their emotion and difficulties to the other people, no need to talk --> no friends.
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