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Re: 2005年學之園PN班
Lydia
You raise a really good topic for discussion. I have been using this same kind of reward system. If he gets 10 stickers, he'll get a new toy. It doesn't work all the time but can help. You know sometimes kids are really stubborn. However, even if he says no or opposite to you, if you don't insist immediately & give him a few minutes, he will say yes. It works quite well. As for the reward system, I try not to rely on it too much. Otherwise, I suspect that the kid will be behaving well only when he knows he can get materialistic reward.
And, I don't hit my son even though sometimes I get very angry. I guess I'm infuriated with what my in-laws do more than what my son does.
Last night, when my son was running at home, he fell down & hit his head (not serious). His first reaction was to cry of course. I then went to soothe him. At the same time, my father-in-law said '去嬤嬤度﹐嬤嬤呵番'. I was very angry at that moment. I was here to help my son but then my father-in-law asked my son to go to his grandma. Any respect to me ? I'm not sure if I over-react on this but I ws really angry. I almost wanted to scold him but I held. |
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