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Re: 我們的聚腳地∼∼∼士啤酥會;)
陸美媽
如果唔係健康院個醫生,我諗我哋兩公婆仲"ON居居"唔發覺有問題,因為就算到今日,我哋身邊嘅人都仲係話"男仔係咁架!乜都慢啲架!兩三歲先講嘢唔奇架",所以佢地反而覺得我怪,做乜得個歲半人仔就要佢返學...相信祗有你哋至會明白
We understand definitely. All parents want to give the best and most they can. Nobody wants to risk the future of one's child.
For our case, it was the kindergarten principal who interviewed our girl for the pre-nursery class who advised us to do the assessments. Our reactions were exactly like yours. Slowly, we moved from the denial stage to acceptance and active intervention.
Everytime I hear people commenting "男仔係咁架!乜都慢啲架!兩三歲先講嘢唔奇架", or "my own son/neighbour's girl is also the same, they improve dramatically when they go to school, ... so don't worry too much, you'll give pressures to the kids", I always try to educate them the concept of early diagnosis, early intervention and early rewards (improvement).
Hi all,
My 2yr 7mths girl got speech delay but doesn't have A-features (at least not detected in 2 separate assessments). She is very active and outgoing. Never cries in school (pre-nursery, 2-yr class). Always attempts to do things herself like cleaning, opening door, pulling down her pants when going to the toilet, tidying up toys in school, etc.
She always get new bruises or scratches everyday she comes back from school. When I ask her about the bruises, she always tells me "run, fast". One time she said, "slide, bump, run, hurt". This is not a sentence at all but we were very happy that she could tell us in her own words what happened.
At the end of the first week of school, we got a note from her teachers saying she was a happy girl, always smiling and laughing, and that she rarely talks unless when questioned.
On one hand we feel the teachers are attentive ones, noticing our girl being a slow/late talker. On the other hand, we don't know what we can do to help her. Our girl talks quite a bit at home and we always ask her tons of questions to get her to talk more. We are not sure if this gives the side effect of she waiting for questions before talking.
Anyway, we believe the golden rule is love, patience and care. I suppose parents with special kids will appreciate even more the slightest improvements they make.
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