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作者: frogb 時間: 14-11-6 20:50 標題: 反思
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作者: hehawendy 時間: 14-11-7 10:57
回覆 frogb 的帖子
我好同意你所講...因為我上年就係咁經歷....~ 我又係咩學校都報...以為多D機會...~ 到最後...全部都WAITING 或REJECT...非常失望既時候....先醒覺原來呢個遊戲唔係報得多就得! 因為TOP 既學校一定揀表現得叻既小朋友...我個囝去年都未識講野...跟本唔駛去爭!!
到最後..我只有一間國際私校同教會學卷校OFFER...我揀左教會學卷校!! 因為我醒覺我小朋友語言發展慢左少少, 就係要有愛心同經驗既老師去帶領同學習...~ 最後選左"最適合"佢既學校!! 如果去到私校...表現比其他小朋友差或慢...BB 學習 同我呢個媽媽都唔會開心!
好興幸...直至今日..我真係覺得我冇揀錯呢間學校..令我囝囝各方面都有進步, 學術唔差, 老師校長, 亦好注重培養德育, 禮貌!
作者: siplee88 時間: 14-11-7 13:32 標題: 引用：回覆+frogb+的帖子
我好同意你所講...因為
原帖由 hehawendy 於 14-11-07 發表
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我好同意你所講...因為我上年就係咁經歷....~ 我又係咩學校都報...以為多D機會...~ 到 ...
作者: chok0925 時間: 14-11-7 20:28 標題: 回覆：反思
Thank for sharing
作者: skyblaw 時間: 14-11-7 21:54 標題: 回覆：frogb 的帖子
Tks...做父母要為子女選擇，真係好難，又驚做錯決定，又驚提供唔夠機會俾佢試
作者: ceco 時間: 14-11-7 22:55
K1 interview 真係好難！
令我了解自己教育方針，小朋友弱點！
以前冇察覺甘多問題！現在一一浮現！
作者: chok0925 時間: 14-11-7 22:58 標題: 引用：K1+interview+真係好難！令我了解自己教育
原帖由 ceco 於 14-11-07 發表
K1 interview 真係好難！
令我了解自己教育方針，小朋友弱點！
以前冇察覺甘多問題！現在一一浮現！
老公覺得甘細，㨂啲中上唔太淺就ok，唔想報啲高難度既。
但自己就想試下，最後想深一層，佢有佢道理。好多都無交表
作者: akj 時間: 14-11-7 23:15 標題: 回覆：反思
Interview完我都覺得對亞女認識更多！原來佢係有聽我的教導。我低估左佢嘅能力，原來佢係咁叻咁有自信！我叫佢要同老師傾計，say hello byebye....要唱歌，佢全部做得到!2歲幾人仔真係叻叻！(平時嘅佢係見到管理員即刻要抱，伏在我膊頭，唔肯同陌生人打招呼的小朋友),所以到最後有冇offer,我已經好安慰好開心！
作者: BostonRedSox 時間: 14-11-7 23:55
平常心去interview, 享受親子過程，加深對自己小朋友了解便可以！
作者: kbi 時間: 14-11-8 00:46 標題: 回覆：反思
其實小朋友自己識得㨂學校架，你見有d學校面試時佢唔肯出聲，有d就積極回應你就知喇。所以reject，唔係學校唔收，而係小朋友唔揀嗰間學校
作者: happyapril 時間: 14-11-8 14:05
作者: J.WOO 時間: 14-11-8 22:59
went for an interview today with my children. big disappointment.
not disappointed at my own children but the kindergarten itself.
I had a lot of expectation of their teachers' quality as it is such a highly recommended school with good reputation.
However, during interview, (maybe we were just in bad luck) the teacher was very inexperienced in conducting interview and she didn't know exactly what she was doing or how she should properly ask a kid questions.
my kids are not the best or well behaved children but they were actually being led to feel lost and confused because of the teacher' unclear instructions.
At the end I just left the room and felt lost too. what? was it an interview? are you sure that was the teacher? not a school clerk?( of coz she is a teacher, sadly)
they properly wouldn't accept our application, however, even if it happened that way, I wonder whether I want my kids to be with teachers like that.
I picked this school becoz 1, it is under government fund 2, good location 3, good reputation 4, English teaching
But, I have ignored the factor of teacher's quality.
so here it is. from now on, teacher's quality will be my priority when I pick a school for my kids.
Enough venting.Sorry 
作者: hehawendy 時間: 14-11-8 23:18 標題: 回覆：J.WOO 的帖子
True... Everyone talks about the reputation.. Primary path... But actually the most important is teachers' experience and their passion in education!! I believe there are new and old teachers in each school .. At the end.. It depends on our luck to meet which teacher.
作者: J.WOO 時間: 14-11-8 23:40
absolutely. there are always more experienced and less experienced teachers in the same school.
However, the teachers do represent the image of the school. when the teacher ( the one we met) does not have smile on the face, does not have patience with children, and is kind of rushing the whole interview thing (very likely we were in the last session of interviews and teachers were about to finish work), we couldn't help but think whether I really picked a right school or not. And you are right, LUCK is very important.
作者: kvvvcheung 時間: 14-11-9 00:57 標題: 引用：Tks...做父母要為子女選擇，真係好難，又驚
原帖由 skyblaw 於 14-11-07 發表
Tks...做父母要為子女選擇，真係好難，又驚做錯決定，又驚提供唔夠機會俾佢試
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作者: hehawendy 時間: 14-11-9 01:28 標題: 回覆：J.WOO 的帖子
個老師就係代表學校話比我地知⋯ 我地既小朋友如果未識講野就可以走先囉⋯ ！ 試想萬一就算waiting 到最後奇蹟入到⋯ 小朋友同其他能力高d 既小朋友一齊學習都未必好， 如果老師都唔係真心明白小朋友同父母既，每日番學都唔會開心，所以我真係唔會強求！
作者: siufeifei 時間: 14-11-9 02:08 標題: 引用：went+for+an+interview+today+with+my+chil
原帖由 J.WOO 於 14-11-08 發表
went for an interview today with my children. big disappointment.
not disappointed at my own childre ...
作者: L+H 時間: 14-11-9 14:36
唔覺得樓主離題，版主唔好删
我小朋友最近去左5次pn interview, 自己和先生都覺得就算無offer, 但亦有點得着，知道小朋友既強項或弱項，老師面試時既遊戲回家也可和她玩。而小朋友也開始習慣到陌生環境玩，答陌生人既問題等。
我見小朋友已盡力做，就算無offer 都好，都唔係我們既問題……始終香港太competitive, 我們無力控制。
作者: frogb 時間: 14-11-9 17:15 標題: 回覆：反思
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作者: J.WOO 時間: 14-11-9 19:33
My case was 1, teacher gave my boy a car to play with to start the interview. Then she took two blocks for my boy to stack( but of coz he was still playing with the car, the teacher didnt ask the car back before asking him of doing another task. OF COZ he would keep playing with the car! Make sense right?)
Then she assumed my boy could not stack blocks.
2, she stacked a block on another block, asked my boys to stack like her, but there were only these two blocks on the table, so my boy didnt know what to do coz there was no other extra block for him to stack, she already stacked upboth! My boy was confused what the teacher wanted.
3, asked my boy to draw a circle which my boys did, then she took a book out from no where and asked what that animal is on the book. But he waa drawing ok? He couldnt even see the book was there! Then teacher said to me, oh he doesnt like reading yeah? ( which my boy reads at least 20books a day then she critizied on my boy doesnt like reading.)
It was just a big blown off.
作者: Joball 時間: 14-11-10 00:39 標題: 引用：Quote:原帖由+J.WOO+於+14-11-08+發表went+
原帖由 siufeifei 於 14-11-09 發表
完全認同學校教師好重要，我今日同我小朋友in完都對間學校好失望。in咗幾間學校後我完全覺得淨係睇學校嘅資 ...
出名谷的九龍塘非學卷K
幾出名的非學卷K
Ok出名的學卷K
最後發現ok 出名學卷K的老師非常有心機，笑容，k 內容不算深，頂多問下顏色，等候時間有玩具玩/顏色油等，非常人性化！
九龍塘K/神校/非學卷K可能太多applicants, 老師冇乜笑容和耐性！
E幾日諗如果讀學卷K，程度淺，可能叩門困難D，小朋友要出去加操英文！但小朋友每日都會有多D安全感，在一個有愛心的環境成長！
在幼兒時期，安全感其實係好緊要！
語境重要，但我可以出外學英文，在家培訓！
經濟上絕對有能力讀非學卷K，小朋友in得都ok，但我真的擔心老師是否有耐性和愛心
作者: keep-calm 時間: 14-11-10 12:37 標題: 回覆：反思
歲幾至2歲幾的能力差異可以很大，年尾與年頭已有巨大差別，即使男、女孩亦大不同。有時不是家長老師刻意去比較，小朋友其實也會意識到自己的不足。盲目追捧學術型/谷校而影響了此階段的正常情緒心理發展（自信、自我型像、對人的信任、安全感等）反而得不償失。
有見有小朋友2歳仍未說話，但家長卻堅持入讀全英普幼園，認為語言要從小浸，卻忽視了小朋友的能力未到。真心覺得苦了小朋友
作者: happybidding 時間: 14-11-10 13:35
frogb 發表於 14-11-6 20:50 
可能離左題，小分享。 版主可删
e 兩個月係不停申請幼稚園同interview
作者: happybidding 時間: 14-11-10 13:37
akj 發表於 14-11-7 23:15
Interview完我都覺得對亞女認識更多！原來佢係有聽我的教導。我低估左佢嘅能力，原來佢係咁叻咁有自信！我 ...
作者: Joball 時間: 14-11-10 13:46 標題: 引用：歲幾至2歲幾的能力差異可以很大，年尾與年
原帖由 keep-calm 於 14-11-10 發表
歲幾至2歲幾的能力差異可以很大，年尾與年頭已有巨大差別，即使男、女孩亦大不同。有時不是家長老師刻意去 ...
有D兩歳幾小孩廣東話句子未學好，就被送
去英普學校，真係辛苦孩子！
作者: 天悅 時間: 14-11-10 17:26 標題: 引用：歲幾至2歲幾的能力差異可以很大，年尾與年
原帖由 keep-calm 於 14-11-10 發表
歲幾至2歲幾的能力差異可以很大，年尾與年頭已有巨大差別，即使男、女孩亦大不同。有時不是家長老師刻意去 ...
作者: karen55407 時間: 14-11-12 10:06 標題: 回覆：frogb 的帖子
考幼稚園根本唔使谷，但起碼要有禮貌和基本常識便行
作者: 焦糖媽 時間: 14-11-12 12:49
新手媽媽, 上星期第一次同仔仔 in 左間 PN~~~
初時見到老師拎啲玩具出來心知仔仔係唔識 (因為屋企有同樣玩具但佢唔識玩), 但竟然仔仔睇完老師示範後有積極去做, 仲試左幾次之後得左
事後回想, 我覺得係我教仔仔玩既方法未夠好, 更加覺得讀PN仔仔可能學得更多, 唔會話咁細人仔太辛苦
家長如果抱住趁 interview 認讀間學校多啲, 其實小朋友去到都當玩啫, 我去in前同仔仔講一陣去邊度邊度玩, 佢真係一入間學校四圍攪牆上面啲野玩到癲哂
作者: gouramip 時間: 14-11-12 17:28 標題: 回覆：反思
我非常認同師資嘅重要，我並非只是從面試得此結論，而是以用家身份去講，因為我女讀緊pN，間學校看似不錯，教育理念很好，可惜老師沒能力處理好D小朋友，此後我明白到小朋友學習得好非要入什麼神校，而且需要能做到循循善誘的好老師
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