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作者: kc_united 時間: 14-3-27 08:47 標題: 在職父母, 回家仍会跟子女(現時小一)功課吗?

在職父母, 回家仍会跟子女(現時小一)功課吗? 我覺得身心疲累。昨晚檢查功課, 份份功課都有野錯。究竟应該指出子女錯誤, 継而改正。定唔好看她功課, 任子女錯, 等老師罰他? 究竟各位家長, 你們放工後有無跟子女功課?

作者: kwan_kwan3 時間: 14-3-27 08:59

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我會看小朋友的學習態度,如果佢嫌我煩,我只要求他完成,功課比老師改,讓他/她碰釘,如果小朋友學校態度好好 ,可以用提點形式,久不久提一次,如果他/她跟到課程,之後盡量唔提,最終都係要求他/她完成便算了

作者: kc_united 時間: 14-3-27 09:24 標題: 引用：回覆+kc_united+的帖子我會看小朋友的學

原帖由 kwan_kwan3 於 14-03-27 發表
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我會看小朋友的學習態度,如果佢嫌我煩,我只要求他完成,功課比老師改,讓他/她碰釘, ...

她自己一個人做功課用了1.5-2小時(約7-8樣)，正常吗? 我覺得他做得太慢。之後我們檢查他功課, 又用去了1小時。佢辛苦時,我又辛苦。每晚還有幾多小時可用呢?

作者: Jessy 時間: 14-3-27 09:39

kc_united 發表於 14-3-27 09:24
她自己一個人做功課用了1.5-2小時(約7-8樣)，正常吗? 我覺得他做得太慢。之後我們檢查他功課, 又用去了1小 ...

7-8樣功課咁多, 可以在1.5-2小時完成已經是很好了.

你檢查功課時, 發現佢做錯的地方, 是不小心, 還是不明白呢? 如果只是不小心, 你可以留比老師改, 等佢再改正, 但如果佢係因為不明白/唔識而做錯, 你最好都係花點時間教下佢, 唔係越積越多野不明白, 將來仲難攪.

作者: kp_sin2001 時間: 14-3-27 10:01

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P1來講, 算OK啦..錯漏實有, 跟一跟好D, P2開始才慢慢放會適合一點..

作者: kc_united 時間: 14-3-27 11:05 標題: 引用：Quote:kc_united+發表於+14-3-27+09:24+她

原帖由 Jessy 於 14-03-27 發表
7-8樣功課咁多, 可以在1.5-2小時完成已經是很好了.

你檢查功課時, 發現佢做錯的地方, 是不小心, 還是不明 ...

即是做1.5-2小時是好正常。有不小心, 亦有唔識。唔識的便要立即教, 唔好拖。

作者: little_yolky 時間: 14-3-27 11:55

kc_united 發表於 14-3-27 11:05
即是做1.5-2小時是好正常。有不小心, 亦有唔識。唔識的便要立即教, 唔好拖。

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P1 7-8樣功課佢自己做, 係好乖了。

錯就大家都有, 因為我家大小姐學校好少功課, 又有功課堂, 我又都係身心疲累既全職工作媽媽, 所以, 我連功課都唔對, 佢有唔識先留返問我。錯咗就由得佢。我脾氣又好差, 教唔識就會發火, 有一次細小姐練琴, 原本要我陪, 點知彈極都錯, 我發火, 佢喊住話：媽咪, 我自己彈得喇, 唔駛媽咪陪喇。都幾可憐, 我都知自己唔啱。不過, 小朋友都練到諗極都真係唔識先會問我。

其實, 你可以試下每星期集中唔識的响weekend教, 咁平日就無咁辛苦了。仲要睇學校谷唔谷, 如果學校係好著重成績既名校, 咁又會煩啲。

作者: easybring 時間: 14-3-27 12:02

kc_united 發表於 14-3-27 09:24
她自己一個人做功課用了1.5-2小時(約7-8樣)，正常吗? 我覺得他做得太慢。之後我們檢查他功課, 又用去了1小 ...

正常. 我有一個高小、另一個小一, 我沒有對她們的功課有沒有做錯. 老師改後, 如果錯很多, 會睇下佢明唔明, 教下佢. 唔小心或者求其做既功課, 我就鬧佢. 通常要佢地PACK好功課/書包, 我CHECK有沒有放晒入功課袋, 簽手冊, 只用15分鐘, 書本唔會CHECK有冇帶齊.

作者: 5tgb 時間: 14-3-27 13:18

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自已都是在職父母，每晚成9時才回到家，要即刻跟孩子功課，完成後才自已冲凉吃飯。由於時間不足，祗好請補習老師同孩子做好丶對好功課。自已做的是叫孩子朗讀當天課本，抽問內容，確保明白後就與孩子聊天，了解孩子。其實用幾多時間，無得同人比，人地半小時做好功課，全對，自已又做得到嗎？自已付出得舒服就可以啦！人比人，比死人！

作者: momama 時間: 14-3-27 13:41 標題: 回覆：在職父母, 回家仍会跟子女(現時小一)功課吗

已小一下學期，佢又肯做功課，應放手俾佢錯，老師都係咁講，改到靚一靚，老師根本唔知佢嘅程度。

作者: kc_united 時間: 14-3-27 14:09 標題: 引用：已小一下學期，佢又肯做功課，應放手俾佢錯

原帖由 momama 於 14-03-27 發表
已小一下學期，佢又肯做功課，應放手俾佢錯，老師都係咁講，改到靚一靚，老師根本唔知佢嘅程度。

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但老師同我地講, 要跟子女功課!

作者: momama 時間: 14-3-27 14:54 標題: 回覆：在職父母, 回家仍会跟子女(現時小一)功課吗?

家長跟到貼，老師咪煩少d囉

作者: 5tgb 時間: 14-3-27 23:02

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個別家長唔跟，老師唔會煩架！無論幾好的學校，都有人考第尾，下游都是要跟架，不過看那位是不是自已的孩子而已！

作者: LuckySTCA 時間: 14-3-27 23:40 標題: 回覆：在職父母, 回家仍会跟子女(現時小一)功課吗

I prefer to let my child complete his own homework. I just make sure he hasn't forgotten any items. I only teach when he asks me, and I never sit with him to do homework. If he doesn't want to do homework, I let him, but I tell him he is responsible to tell his teacher. He will always decide eventually to do his work, and I find he has learnt from his own errors of missing questions and other careless mistakes because teacher always corrects his work with big red pen. Only on saturday do i spend some time to recap his work. This method works for us, and my aim is by P2 he can entirely manage by himself. His results are ok average, but most importantly evenings for all of us are very stress free and enjoyable.

作者: momama 時間: 14-3-28 00:12 標題: 回覆：在職父母, 回家仍会跟子女(現時小一)功課吗

簡單講句，好多小朋友六點幾起身，返學做功課可能仲上興趣班，夜晚食完飯就即刻俾阿媽捉住改功課，老實講，就算小朋友好乖好願意好學，都冇精力啦，有幾多可以入腦？好似樓上咁樣，週末先教效果仲好。

作者: yanyan6 時間: 14-3-28 02:25

momama 發表於 14-3-28 00:12
簡單講句，好多小朋友六點幾起身，返學做功課可能仲上興趣班，夜晚食完飯就即刻俾阿媽捉住改功課，老實講， ...

我都認同,小朋友真係沒精神的,我就返左小一考埋個上學期中試,見成績麻麻,一氣過CUT晒所有興趣班,跟返D成績先,我覺得點都係學校成績+有精神應付下一天上學是最重要

作者: rean_chau 時間: 14-3-29 00:42 標題: 回覆：在職父母, 回家仍会跟子女(現時小一)功課吗

我自己就决定左由佢錯，等老師返去教。我覺得老師有責任確保佢教既書係每一個學生都明既。同時希望等小朋友錯多幾次可以提高警介，上堂留心多啲。另一方面自己都會跟，功課錯會另外抽一兩題比佢再做，唔明就解。當然如小朋友主動話唔識就一定會教。

作者: marble2004 時間: 14-3-29 14:46

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Be careful, sometimes, teachers just ignore...

作者: WHPH 時間: 14-3-29 14:57

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Agreed, assumed 30 students in one class, I don't think the teacher can make sure all students can understand all the syllabus. If parents can help, they can learn better. Normally I try to use interactive approach for those abstract concepts, which can surely help to build up stronger foundation.

作者: hadwinboy 時間: 14-3-29 18:43 標題: 引用：回覆+kc_united+的帖子我會看小朋友的學

原帖由 kwan_kwan3 於 14-03-27 發表
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我會看小朋友的學習態度,如果佢嫌我煩,我只要求他完成,功課比老師改,讓他/她碰釘, ...

同意，我也用此方法對待我個仔。

作者: fc926 時間: 14-3-29 22:33 標題: 回覆：在職父母, 回家仍会跟子女(現時小一)功課吗?

我每日回家後只見到小朋友一小時她們便要上床睡覺，這一小時還包括我的晚飯時間及聽她們彈琴，所以我只會簽手冊睇下有冇做齊功課，錯唔錯基本上唔理，除非一眼就見到的明顯錯，咁我會叫她們改番。如果她們主動問一些唔明嘅嘢，我當然會跟進解釋。因此她們的功課都經常有錯番嚟再改正，不過我見她們今次考試又冇乜問題，証明平日功課有錯對考試冇乜大影響

作者: marble2004 時間: 14-3-29 23:06

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Yes, agreed with you! Teachers may not follow up thoroughly: lack of time or don't take it seriously or can't explain to every one who makes mistakes and if those mistakes are not made by majority. If parents have time, better the parents also involve a bit. It just take a few minutes but make a big difference.

作者: 以斯帖 時間: 14-3-30 01:03 標題: 引用：Quote:原帖由+kwan_kwan3+於+14-03-27+發表

原帖由 kc_united 於 14-03-27 發表
她自己一個人做功課用了1.5-2小時(約7-8樣)，正常吗? 我覺得他做得太慢。之後我們檢查他功課, 又用去了1小 ...

做功課用了1.5-2小時(約7-8樣)，不算太慢。反而父母檢查功課要用去1小時，我覺得父母做得太慢！

作者: daisy17772 時間: 14-3-31 02:27

本帖最後由 daisy17772 於 14-3-31 02:29 編輯

I have two very different children at home, the way I manage them are very different.  There's no one right rule for everyone.

1.  Depends on the personality of a child.  Some children don't learn enough from repeating mistakes made on their own and being correct by teachers.  They keep on making mistakes without giving serious attitude to ensure they don't make such next time.  Some children are care-free type.

2.  I'm half supporting parents not to check homework.  The pros is to teach them bearing the responsibility.  But the cons are if a child made mistakes due to she/he really confuses on the matter / substance, then parents should help clarifying in the case when children don't absorb well at school.  Some students learn pretty well on their own at school (ie. what we called "absorbing well").  Then for the latter case, we can let children to manage on their own.  While for the former case, a child needs more help from parents.

3.  If a child is the former case, I recommend clarifying the materials perhaps on every other day, and even pre-teaching a bit (I think this work better on Maths).  Because these kids often can't understand well at school, so pre-teaching would help them clean up the more difficult concept, and they would feel ease at school.  And only clarifying the mis-concepts only once in a while (perhaps before test), it will make both the child and parents a hardship.

Summary:  Different children should be handled differently.  Don't be panic when you hear some parents saying "my children can handle almost everything on their own...."  .  The personality and calibre of a child really makes a lot of different in the way we guide them.  Some needs constant monitoring...some can hands off more.  The only thing that we should be very careful is once they get onto to the right track, parents can think how we can leave more room for a child to grow and learn on their own.

作者: daisy17772 時間: 14-3-31 02:31

以斯帖發表於 14-3-30 01:03
做功課用了1.5-2小時(約7-8樣)，不算太慢。反而父母檢查功課要用去1小時，我覺得父母做得太慢！

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In this case I think it's because there have been a lot of concepts they need to clarify and teach the child in order to enable her to do the works correctly. It's quick to just tell the answers. Or perhaps a kids really need a lot of time to understand new concept.

作者: IloveJJ 時間: 14-3-31 10:24 標題: 引用：+本帖最後由+daisy17772+於+14-3-31+02:29+

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作者: kc_united 時間: 14-4-1 18:16 標題: 引用：Quote:原帖由+kc_united+於+14-03-27+發表

原帖由 以斯帖 於 14-03-30 發表
做功課用了1.5-2小時(約7-8樣)，不算太慢。反而父母檢查功課要用去1小時，我覺得父母做得太慢！

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我都覚得太慢, 因小朋友錯了很多。

作者: 以斯帖 時間: 14-4-2 20:40 標題: 引用：Quote:原帖由+以斯帖+於+14-03-30+發表做功

原帖由 kc_united 於 14-04-01 發表
我都覚得太慢, 因小朋友錯了很多。

唔小心既由得佢錯，等老師改完番黎，小朋友自己改正，佢唔想做多樣改錯，以後自然會小心d！只集中處理佢唔識又有得解既，尤其數學最值得花時間解釋，你就可以慳番好多時間！

作者: nieualma 時間: 14-4-3 10:36

我一回家便會check功課, 有錯時會叫佢改正, 早d話比佢知佢錯什麼, 怕老師太忙, 改正時只是講答案, 同埋我不會立刻說那裡錯, 叫他自己找錯處, 他通常都找到.

作者: kc_united 時間: 14-4-10 18:42 標題: 引用：我一回家便會check功課,+有錯時會叫佢改正,

原帖由 nieualma 於 14-04-03 發表
我一回家便會check功課, 有錯時會叫佢改正, 早d話比佢知佢錯什麼, 怕老師太忙, 改正時只是講答案, 同埋我不 ...

各位, 我採用了部份家長意見, 發現唔同佢check功課係会錯好多。唔同佢温評估, 等佢自己温亦会唔合格! 即是話, 我唔可懒, 自己要辛苦d, 要跟功課及時常跟小朋友温習。

作者: rean_chau 時間: 14-4-10 19:19 標題: 引用：Quote:原帖由+momama+於+14-03-27+發表已小

原帖由 kc_united 於 14-03-27 發表
但老師同我地講, 要跟子女功課!

係架，我個仔老師都係咁講。佢話家長完到佢功課有錯要指出。其實學校已經將好多波交比家長。最好無錯，咁即係表示佢地既課程無問題。

作者: wsttony 時間: 14-4-10 22:14

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作者: RebeccaJason 時間: 14-4-10 22:38

如果上堂聽吾明或者佢冇留心，老師都應該睇下係咪佢自己問題。你地幫佢地改好晒，老師又點知有問題呢，反之仲以為自己教得好好。

作者: CMH4985 時間: 14-4-14 11:59

初小都有check,到而家就冇(姐小六,弟小五)反而佢地自己有唔識會主動問

作者: IloveJJ 時間: 14-4-14 12:57 標題: 引用：Quote:原帖由+nieualma+於+14-04-03+發表我

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