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作者: gbgsum 時間: 13-9-30 15:26 標題: 如何培養小一生自發及獨立做功課?

我自己要返工,好想女兒能放學後自發及獨立做功課,我回來就對,但用了很多辦法,都是要我回家催促才做,有無好方法呢?

作者: 小曳人 時間: 13-9-30 15:32

其實由KG做起就最好

我地好簡單，早做好功課，溫好書，就有得玩
未做好功課，就要鬧！要溫習就無辦法，快快手搞掂就有得講故事先瞓~

其實，平日放學返到屋企搞d乜？點解唔做功課？！

作者: gbgsum 時間: 13-9-30 17:18

就是因為貪玩lor

作者: 雪雪媽 時間: 13-9-30 17:57

本帖最後由雪雪媽於 13-9-30 19:49 編輯

gbgsum 發表於 13-9-30 17:18
就是因為貪玩lor

我有朋友係中段俾時間佢玩咗先，限定時間開始及結束，之後就要回魂返嚟。當然俾幾多時間的決定權一定要在你手，同埋屋企人要全力配合。
我問佢點解唔做完功課先有得玩，佢話小朋友試過亂做一通，就係要儘快有得玩，到頭來仲衰，所以寧願俾佢滿足玩嘅意願先！

作者: JJDBB 時間: 13-9-30 18:53 標題: 引用：我自己要返工,好想女兒能放學後自發及獨立

原帖由 gbgsum 於 13-09-30 發表
我自己要返工,好想女兒能放學後自發及獨立做功課,我回來就對,但用了很多辦法,都是要我回家催促才做,有無好 ...

我都認為習慣於KG做起，做完功課有得玩。

作者: daughterkingdom 時間: 13-9-30 21:46

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作者: tws2010 時間: 13-9-30 22:41

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I am just the opposite. I definitely require my kid to finish homework and studying BEFORE he can play. In term of play time, this will exclude watching TV. Once you let him watch the soup opera, he will even not remember what his surname is...

作者: hadwinboy 時間: 13-9-30 22:49 標題: 引用：我自己要返工,好想女兒能放學後自發及獨立

原帖由 gbgsum 於 13-09-30 發表
我自己要返工,好想女兒能放學後自發及獨立做功課,我回來就對,但用了很多辦法,都是要我回家催促才做,有無好 ...

我是嚴+鬧+恐嚇. 係剛開學時好嚴地同佢講一定要係我放工回來前做完功課. 試過有次太 hea 做不完我放工回來就鬧，跟住恐嚇佢再有第二次夜晚就冇得玩冇得講故仔. So far 到依家都冇試過第二次. 哈哈! 說番認真點，其實就暑假時已向他做過一輪輔導..什麼做功課是小明友責任呀、讀書是向自己交待呀等等....等等

作者: JHsbb 時間: 13-9-30 23:29

小曳人發表於 13-9-30 15:32
其實由KG做起就最好

我地好簡單，早做好功課，溫好書，就有得玩

我同你一樣, 要做晒學校D野及練好琴及練好棋先有...

所以依傢升小後, 佢都好醒, 係學校做晒功課先.....佢依傢放學返黎我只係對功課及擦寫得唔靚個D, 佢有時間玩及上興趣班

作者: ic07 時間: 13-10-1 00:02 標題: 引用：Quote:小曳人+發表於+13-9-30+15:32+其實由

原帖由 JHsbb 於 13-09-30 發表
我同你一樣, 要做晒學校D野及練好琴及練好棋先有...

所以依傢升小後, 佢都好醒, 係學校做晒功課先.....佢 ...

我都想請教下，做完功課練完樂器，其實仲邊有無時間上興趣班呢？真係吾駛抖抖同玩玩嗎？可否分享下點樣安排時間？

作者: JHsbb 時間: 13-10-1 00:42

ic07 發表於 13-10-1 00:02
我都想請教下，做完功課練完樂器，其實仲邊有無時間上興趣班呢？真係吾駛抖抖同玩玩嗎？可否分享下點樣安排 ...

佢學校功課不多, 每日得2-4樣, 默書下學期先有, 放3PM, 校車315-320PM已經返到黎, 返到屋企都係大約325PM, 抖半個鐘食茶點, 之後就開始練琴練捉棋, 佢休息期間我就對功課填通告等等.....有野改就休息完做返就OK, 之後要上興趣班就去, 返到家食完飯再玩一陣至8PM-830PM上床瞓覺,,,,,第2日605AM起身

作者: Yanamami 時間: 13-10-1 08:52

最簡單既方法喺：唔提她做功課，欠做，做錯就自己同老師交代。d小朋友一要面對老師就怕，自然乖乖自己做好。P1欠，俾老師鬧，好快學乖。大d，d皮“奀”曬，老師點鬧都唔怕就弊。

作者: elizatyy 時間: 13-10-1 09:11

同意

作者: JJDBB 時間: 13-10-1 09:12 標題: 引用：最簡單既方法喺：唔提她做功課，欠做，做錯

原帖由 Yanamami 於 13-10-01 發表
最簡單既方法喺：唔提她做功課，欠做，做錯就自己同老師交代。d小朋友一要面對老師就怕，自然乖乖自己做好 ...

同意

作者: 雪雪媽 時間: 13-10-1 09:21

tws2010 發表於 13-9-30 22:41
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I am just the opposite. I definitely require my kid to finish homework and stud ...

Haha ! This is my friend's practice, not mine. Actually mine is similar to yours, but sometimes I found my daughter losing concentration in between, probably too tired. So I have some tolerance on her behaviour, and ask her to stop for a while (no point to push if already 雲遊).
My friend's approach is somehow not the conventional way, so I just raise it for other's thoughts !

作者: ic07 時間: 13-10-1 21:12 標題: 引用：Quote:ic07+發表於+13-10-1+00:02+我都想請

原帖由 JHsbb 於 13-10-01 發表
佢學校功課不多, 每日得2-4樣, 默書下學期先有, 放3PM, 校車315-320PM已經返到黎, 返到屋企都係大約325PM, ...

Thanks for sharing. So happy. No dictation and so little homework.

作者: chanwendy 時間: 13-10-2 11:26

真係由 kg 始就培養的, 我小朋友由 kg 第一日開始做功課起, 就係自動自覺做好的. 如果你 kg 時比佢慣咗等你返嚟先做, 好難一上小學就要求佢自動自覺的, 要過渡期.

作者: peggy 時間: 13-10-2 13:08

chanwendy 發表於 13-10-2 11:26
真係由 kg 始就培養的, 我小朋友由 kg 第一日開始做功課起, 就係自動自覺做好的. 如果你 kg 時比佢慣咗等 ...

Agree, 阿女由Kg開始就自動自覺做功課，我亦不會跟功課, 做到唔識先會問我。現在阿女已經p5了，做功課不用我勞氣

作者: lokiema 時間: 13-10-2 21:36

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作者: fc926 時間: 13-10-2 22:38 標題: 回覆：如何培養小一生自發及獨立做功課?

重點：
- 灌輸正面思想，如做功課好好玩，唔辛苦，爸媽自小都很快做完功之類
- 快做完有獎
- 懂看時鐘更好，限時內完成有獎
- 真係越細開始做起越好
- 如能承受壓力就可灌輸責任感概念，小學生要自己搞掂，不能依賴父母

作者: daisy17772 時間: 13-10-2 22:42

本帖最後由 daisy17772 於 13-10-2 22:44 編輯

Different children have different learning temperament.  So you could listen to various ppl's sharing, but the root thing is you have to know your kid's characteristics and strength and weakness.

Some really self motivated due to perhaps they want to play earlier so they complete homework quickly and do most in the school.  While some others simply couldn't learn enough from being 欠做, because they are absent minded about the consequences, and lack of systematic way to check..so they just keep 欠做 and 欠做.

The bottom line is don't get frustrated when hearing others kids could do it on their own without parents' assistance.  People are just different.

In general, from what I heard from parenting workshops, these are the recommendations:

1)  set up a timetable with details of when and what to do
2)  split a task e.g. revise dictation, finish writing task by splitting it into two intervals .esp. if kids who like diversity, they may take some time to finish a task in 1 go, on the other hand, they feel easier when tasks are split.
3)  do the difficult work first.  Or on the contrary, if they prefer, could choose to do the easiest ones
4) could switch between different types of homework, e.g. maths, eng, maths, chinese  etc.  in order not to have similar operations done after each other, kids may feel bored.5)  treat them with incentive eg. play a game, after they finish a no. of homework , before they continue with the rest.

So do know how's your kids work best with different methods... Only you know what's best for your kids, not others.

作者: Yukyuk 時間: 13-10-2 23:04 標題: 引用：我自己要返工,好想女兒能放學後自發及獨立

本帖最後由 Yukyuk 於 13-10-2 23:19 編輯

原帖由 gbgsum 於 13-09-30 發表
我自己要返工,好想女兒能放學後自發及獨立做功課,我回來就對,但用了很多辦法,都是要我回家催促才做,有無好 ...

http://www.kidsmind.org.hk/site/kids/home/content.html?cid=3&aid=118715425640574

如何促進孩子有效學習

作者: marcuscyrus 時間: 13-10-3 06:14 標題: 回覆：gbgsum 的帖子

睇性格，大兒子主動，從幼稚園就能自行完成功課，現小二，都是一放學就自己做。但小兒子就懶散些，又會推說不懂做，有一段時間我把做功課時間推到晚飯後，陪他一起做，又讚下佢，又鼓勵佢自己試下，現在k3,終於能自己做

作者: EMS 時間: 13-10-3 07:25 標題: 回覆：gbgsum 的帖子

其實好睇個小朋友個性格，唔同人同唔同方法。個人經驗，每做半小時休息5至10分鐘再做好過1口氣做成個幾2個鐘,大人咁做都注意力難集中啦，何況1個6歲小朋友?
最緊要同小朋友講，6點前或放工前做曬獎貼紙，儲夠幾多張有禮物，小朋友就好合作自動自覺啦！

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