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作者: ckfamily 時間: 13-4-27 15:31 標題: 小朋友幾年班可以唔駛幫佢睇功課

小朋友幾年班可以唔駛幫佢睇功課

作者: Charlotte_mom 時間: 13-4-27 16:07 標題: 引用：小朋友幾年班可以唔駛幫佢睇功課 +

原帖由 ckfamily 於 13-04-27 發表
小朋友幾年班可以唔駛幫佢睇功課

好多條件影響：小朋友自吾自動，家長睇吾睇得過眼，最緊要：升中有無直升先？

作者: Yanamami 時間: 13-4-27 16:59

Charlotte_mom 發表於 13-4-27 16:07
好多條件影響：小朋友自吾自動，家長睇吾睇得過眼，最緊要：升中有無直升先？

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我小朋友自動自覺，我睇得過眼，無直升中學backup，自P1已唔睇功課。其實好睇小朋友。

作者: wsk7777 時間: 13-4-27 17:19

小三下學期開始放手，小四已經全部由他自己處理，默書、測驗及考試都無須要任何扶助。沒有直升，升中結果理想！

作者: ckfamily 時間: 13-4-27 17:44 標題: 回覆：wsk7777 的帖子

我而家個女次次都要我叫先去做功課，跟住我自做就做得好慢，見到你經過就做下，一d 都唔緊張，做又唔尊心，一想試下唔同佢睇，等老師改，等佢成受自己既結果

作者: Yanamami 時間: 13-4-27 22:13

ckfamily 發表於 13-4-27 17:44
我而家個女次次都要我叫先去做功課，跟住我自做就做得好慢，見到你經過就做下，一d 都唔緊張，做又唔尊心， ...

想試下唔同佢睇，等老師改，等佢成受自己既結果
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Agree. She should know this is her responsibility to do her homework and study hard, not you. Set a reasonable time for her to finish her homework. If she doesn't finish, tell her to explain to the teacher by herself why she couldn't finish.

次都要我叫先去做功課
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Try not to ask her to do her homework, again, if she cannot finish, tell her to explaint to her teacher by herself.

作者: YolandaTam 時間: 13-4-27 22:45

我囡小三, 今學期開始唔理功課,

為咗鼓勵佢小心做嘢,佢每做啱晒一次功課, 默書小測滿分同評估達到某個分數我就會"吸"一個印仔喺紙度, 佢可以用一張有十個印仔嘅紙換小禮物, 直到目前為止效果理想, 改正越嚟越少, 成績都有提升(因為小心咗).

作者: ANChan59 時間: 13-4-27 23:14

Start from day one.

作者: hoihoima 時間: 13-4-27 23:24

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Would like to share my experience with you:

During the first term of P.1, my child did not start doing hw until I chased him to do so when I returned home from work everyday. After he finished his hw, I checked his work all over and told him where are incorrect. The result? We quarrelled every single day since he thought that his work should be correct and I am the one who is creating all the trouble. The was a lot of tension between us. I cried and cried. His academic results are not very good since he did not have the habit of reviewing his work after he has finished (I was there to review for him every day, so why bother to check?).

At the beginning of the 2nd term of P.1, I set new rules with him, including he must finish hw before I return home, I would give him a few chances and once he used up all his chances, I will start cutting his ECA. I do not review his hw after he has finished doing it. I told him to ask me if he does not know how to do it. I reviewed the hw only after they are marked by the teachers. I gave him small gifts (e.g. snacks) if he can get good grades in hw for several times. The result? Our relationship has improved a lot and he has gradually learnt to be more careful when doing hw. He also has the habit of finishing hw before I return home. We have a lot more time during evening now. His marks during test also improve.

So, for you and for your child, really need to be very determined in changing her habit of doing hw and do it as early as possible.

作者: akys 時間: 13-4-28 01:19

本帖最後由 akys 於 13-4-28 02:35 編輯

正常情況下升上小學就應該唔駛幫他睇功課，不過據聞有些津小的老師會要求家長跟功課。唔理又會俾老師投訴。

作者: HKTHK 時間: 13-4-28 01:53

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I started from day 1 of P1 as well though we do have secondary back-up. But I don't think it is about having a back-up or not. For me, how well they do their homework is not as important as having the right attitude about their homework. They need to learn that it is their responsibility because they are the ones learning! And if they don't do homework, they of course will have to suffer the consequences and the teachers will ask them to finish in school. Our teachers also asked parents not to correct the homework. As parents, our responsibility is to make sure the kids have the right "environment" for homework so not too much outside activities and also a desk with all the things they need.

作者: Yanamami 時間: 13-4-28 08:27

HKTHK 發表於 13-4-28 01:53
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I started from day 1 of P1 as well though we do have secondary back-up. But I ...

Our teachers also asked parents not to correct the homework. As parents, our responsibility is to make sure the kids have the right "environment" for homework so not too much outside activities and also a desk with all the things they need.
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Yes, our teachers asked us not to check on their homework too. It's their job not the parents'. Plus, it's actually meaningless if the kids got everything correct but was not done by themselves. You'll never know their weaknesses and what they don't understand.

作者: 霖霖B媽咪 時間: 13-4-28 10:12 標題: 回覆：Charlotte_mom 的帖子

我大囡，有直屬中學。但性格甩漏，學校校長每次家長會都要求家長跟功課，跟到6年班。結果，升吾返自己中學。
結論 : 她性格問題，吾上心。再加上校長的要求，而自己當年又太天真，信校長講，小學跟足D，上左中學就會好易上軌道！自己當時又睇吾過眼

我細囝: 有直屬中學。性格守規矩，但思想不太靈活。校長冇要求家長跟功課，亦強調不要誤信街外人說學校學生個個天天補習。小一問老師，老師吾太主張小一就即刻放手。家長可幫下佢，等佢易D適應小學生活。小二，老師說可跟據學生能力同性格開始放手。小三，我選擇了開始由他成績較好的科目放手。暫時，放手的科目，他的成績亦可保持。
結論: 學校冇比太大壓力，而家長又睇得過眼，家長可以一步步放手。

總結，家長不要奪走小朋友吃苦果的寶貴經驗！

作者: ms.giggle 時間: 13-4-28 10:15 標題: 回覆：小朋友幾年班可以唔駛幫佢睇功課

唔知幾時測考都可全放手？

作者: ANChan59 時間: 13-4-28 10:23

ms.giggle 發表於 13-4-28 10:15
唔知幾時測考都可全放手？

Anytime, if you want to let go!

作者: miffy 時間: 13-4-28 10:28 標題: 回覆：小朋友幾年班可以唔駛幫佢睇功課

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作者: miffy 時間: 13-4-28 10:36 標題: 引用：唔知幾時測考都可全放手？ +

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作者: lojo11 時間: 13-4-28 11:03 標題: 回覆：小朋友幾年班可以唔駛幫佢睇功課

睇功課我日日睇，我要求仔（小二）放學後即刻做功課，我放工返到屋企會檢查，如做得求其，用佢電視時間黎改正。佢為左唔比我捉住改正，一般都無大問題。

作者: momama 時間: 13-4-28 13:48 標題: 回覆：小朋友幾年班可以唔駛幫佢睇功課

因人而異！但若果冇放手為目標，對大人同細路都唔係好事。放手初期通常都會功課錯，成績跌，一定要忍得手，否則最後都係原地踏步。

作者: ckfamily 時間: 13-4-28 14:49 標題: 回覆：小朋友幾年班可以唔駛幫佢睇功課

好多謝大家既意見，我係全職媽媽，其實我係有時間同佢review d 功課，感覺上我係有咁既職責，而老師都希望家長會幫下(開學時講過)

但我擔心小朋友自己做，佢到底明唔明呢?因為有時老師響堂上講過答案，佢番來咪照寫，但原來佢唔明，如果做閱讀理解，我會要求佢成篇讀一次，唔明我會解釋，如果佢自己做，可能有好多字唔識唔明,咁會影響成績

作者: hoihoima 時間: 13-4-28 15:41

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"因為有時老師響堂上講過答案"? Why? How can the teacher provide answer of all questions during lesson?

Regarding reading comprehension, the kids need to learn to guess the meaning of words that they do not know. Otherwise, you will need to sit next to your child during test / exam as well.

作者: 2004107 時間: 13-4-28 17:51

我都諗住四年級放手，因為妹妹上小一

作者: grace_xian 時間: 13-4-28 21:54

我三, 四年級放晒手, 現在五年級又開始收緊,
我倒退了

作者: momama 時間: 13-4-28 23:08 標題: 引用：好多謝大家既意見，我係全職媽媽，其實我係

原帖由 ckfamily 於 13-04-28 發表
好多謝大家既意見，我係全職媽媽，其實我係有時間同佢review d 功課，感覺上我係有咁既職責，而老師都希望 ...

老師在小一第一次考試後，已經叫家長唔好改功課，要俾佢地錯及改正，小朋友唔識做主動發問當然會教。所以我經常讚阿女勤力，一份工課做兩三次。

作者: marcuscyrus 時間: 13-4-29 09:49 標題: 回覆：ckfamily 的帖子

Depends on the character of kid n how the parent thinks. My son is p1, I checked his hw in the first term only. But of course I will check it if I want him to be perfect.

作者: kitbebe 時間: 13-4-29 10:29

我會到中學先放手, 因為功課做得唔好, 改正浪費時間, 老師對你印象也大打折扣, 最終沒有好處, 而且從平時功課, 可知小朋友吸收左幾多, 那些不明白, 可以即時教佢, 我就認為小學階段, 都係唔可以放手住

作者: miriam 時間: 13-4-29 11:11

P.1 開學後兩個月已經唔睇, 到今年 P.4 因為有 pre-dict 呢樣功課先會同佢默英文.

其餘都係測考前先捉佢溫下書, 平時都係靠佢自己.

作者: Jessy 時間: 13-4-29 11:26

這個POST獲益良多, 謝謝大家的發表!!

作者: marcuscyrus 時間: 13-4-29 12:11

不過我覺得在放手之前要準備WOR，唔係一下話唔跟就唔跟，放手唔=放棄哦

作者: ckfamily 時間: 13-4-29 18:52 標題: 引用：我會到中學先放手,+因為功課做得唔好,+改正

原帖由 kitbebe 於 13-04-29 發表
我會到中學先放手, 因為功課做得唔好, 改正浪費時間, 老師對你印象也大打折扣, 最終沒有好處, 而且從平時功 ...

係呀，我好認同你既講法，我覺得響老師教完之後，家長即日同佢睇番d 功課，就知佢明唔明，唔明即刻講番，佢會容易入腦，所以佢考試成績好好

但係真係好想將做功課既責任交番比佢，等佢做得小心d，用心機去做

作者: Yanamami 時間: 13-4-29 19:48

kitbebe 發表於 13-4-29 10:29
我會到中學先放手, 因為功課做得唔好, 改正浪費時間, 老師對你印象也大打折扣, 最終沒有好處, 而且從平時功 ...

如果功課是用心做的，錯了老師也不會對你印象也大打折扣的。最怕是是但但做，龍飛鳳舞吧。

作者: peggy 時間: 13-4-29 20:16

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囡囡升了小一後, 從來都冇幫佢睇功課, 佢唔明先問我 , 在測考時 , 我只會放低工作紙被佢自己做 , 然後佢自己對埋答案 , 今年p.4 暫時都keep 到全級頭5名內

作者: tinymama 時間: 13-4-29 22:53

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