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作者: s1072157 時間: 13-1-16 14:39 標題: 仔仔集中力好差點算
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作者: lillymarie 時間: 13-1-16 21:03
單從你給的例子，唔覺得佢係唔專心，反而似係未掌握到數學乘法的概念。未明白，所以有時啱，有時錯。你囝囝的情況有些似一些小朋友學時鐘遇到的困難。
我囝真係唔專心，佢都會做錯數學，但只需要叫佢再睇清楚題目，佢就自己“啊！“一聲，知道自己做錯了。
作者: s1072157 時間: 13-1-17 00:40
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作者: Radiomama 時間: 13-1-17 08:38 標題: 回覆：s1072157 的帖子
不是集中力與專注力的問題，是未明白而矣。
加數與減數先明白，再教乘數。乘數除了背乘數表之外，更要教concept.
2x3=2+2+2=6
小孩不能一步登天。
游水用口呼吸，教練有好好教授嗎？有吹波波嗎？有夾著鼻用口呼氣吸氣嗎？
七歲人仔需要慢慢來。
作者: s1072157 時間: 13-1-17 13:47
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作者: ysnmama 時間: 13-1-17 15:05
s1072157 發表於 13-1-17 13:47 
唉 眼見人地5歲游水精英班 已經飛黎飛去 都唔知佢會唔會諗埋一邊。。。
至於大家話佢係唔識,,,,我唯有再比 ...
作者: lillymarie 時間: 13-1-17 19:06
好明白看着人家孩子超前，自己的孩子却緩步向前的酸味。不過，每個人都有自己的學習進度，尤其是數學和運動。數學有好多抽象概念，運動就看四肢協調。有時小朋友的生理狀態未成熟亦勉強不了。
記得有位講者曾說她手上有廿一道板斧，一招唔得，還有好多招可用。如果現在的方法囝囝未明白，就試下其它方法啦！
我大囝歲半時連單字也沒有，到兩歲半時突然識講野。中間那一年我好似silly woman咁，不停咁同阿囝講野。到佢開始講野後，好快就對我講，“媽媽，妳唔使再講啦！我聽到啦！” 有時佢會突然講一D野，我問佢“點解你會識既？邊個教你架？” 佢答我，“妳以前教我的嘛！”
所以不要氣餒！到佢開竅時，會突飛猛進的。加油！
作者: ANChan59 時間: 13-1-17 19:38
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好有共鳴，要忍耐！
作者: ivantissue 時間: 13-1-17 21:13
lillymarie 發表於 13-1-17 19:06
好明白看着人家孩子超前，自己的孩子却緩步向前的酸味。不過，每個人都有自己的學習進度，尤其是數學和運動 ...
我仔仔到三歲才識得叫〝媽〞單字。
作者: MacMa 時間: 13-1-17 22:26
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我亞仔都喺成兩歲先識講有意義的簡單字，連我爸爸都話佢會唔會有問題，使唔使睇醫生。但自此之後，佢就不停講嘢，情況好似你大仔，有時驚訝佢點會識咁多詞彙，原來喺平時對佢自言自語，佢從中學到。
作者: Annie123 時間: 13-1-18 13:58
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作者: annie40 時間: 13-1-18 14:19
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運動上 我有比小朋友學游水....但係學得唔好./....
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小女是独女, 怕佢闷, 开始时上泳班, 学得很少又慢, 后来找来教练一对一, 不用五堂, 学懂了! 及后再学蝶泳,蛙泳便没难度了.
作者: annie40 時間: 13-1-18 14:59
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每位小朋友的 生理时钟不一样,有些孩子是天生的observer, 开始时喜欢看清楚, 想清楚才去模仿的, 是典型的'稳重派',未必钟意随便发表, 吸引别人注意. 看似不机灵, 不主动, 难讨人欢心, 其实可能是位成熟的 Thinker. 前途无量.
感觉是您的孩子很听话, 虽然暂停看来是力有不递, 其实不然. 可否想想我的以下建议:
1) 每次學野 永遠學唔快 比其他人慢...... 请忘记'其他人',他们不是你的孩子.他们如何了不起, 与你无关的.
2) 尽量保持松容之道, 满脸喜乐, 不要让孩子感觉你的担心和失望.
3) 如果数学不是你的强项, 随时随地会把孩子弄胡涂, 倒不如把教学交给老师, 爸爸, 或其他合适的人. 少做也胜于错做.
4) 多跟孩子玩, 加固亲子关系,
5)培养孩子的兴趣和目标
6) 注意孩子的饮食健康, 可以吃OMeGA 3 , 豆类, 蔬果, 禁止汽水, 少吃奶品.
其他有益事如: 训练纪律, 阅读,同理心等, 不多说了, 做得多少是多少吧! 孩子是學得慢, 但绝对不是'永遠學唔快' Never say never!!!!!!!!!
共勉之!
作者: wyl 時間: 13-1-18 15:33
annie40 發表於 13-1-18 14:59
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每位小朋友的 生理时钟不一样,有些孩子是天生的observer, 开始时喜欢看清楚, 想清楚 ...
謝謝分享！我女也是慢郎中，有時看着她慢條斯理的樣子，真的很激氣。另外，請問為什麼要少吃奶品？小女很喜歡飲鮮奶吃芝士，是不健康的嗎？
作者: cherubic 時間: 13-1-18 16:33
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Perhaps he is not interested in Maths. You may check whether he can do well in a subject matter which he is interested in. If yes, then he has no problem at all. Remember: boys learns slower than girls, never give up.
作者: annie40 時間: 13-1-18 16:49
Here is some information about milk. If you really like it, try goat milk instead.
朋友的孩子有自闭, 停饮牛奶后,判若两人! niece 身体多小毛病,特别是肠胃,后来 医生提议停止全部奶品, 健康马上好多了
http://hpjmh.com/2012/12/18/are- ... n-the-war-on-dairy/
我是羔点咖啡的奴隶, 不能quit, 只能少吃, 但一定剔除牛奶...........小女也很喜歡芝士,偶然吃, 少吃, 或吃羊芝士吧! 爸爸通常会买耶皇打新鲜耶子奶,全家饮, 或喝新鲜豆奶. 当初有点麻烦,习惯了便没关系了!
事实上加工食物,荷尔蒙肉类等对孩子的健康和精神影响至大, 不妨多留意!
p.s. 慢條斯理的女孩, 总有崧容之美, 日常很怕见到女孩子甚么也要争夺一番, 人比人是比死人啊.
作者: laorenjia 時間: 13-1-18 16:55
本帖最後由 laorenjia 於 13-1-18 16:58 編輯
呢兩日寫咗好多posts，加埋冇一千都有幾百字，仲諗住休息番輪，但click入嚟又幾有趣噃，原來好似我咁嘅人唔少。人哋嘅百分之十又或者百分之零點幾係佢哋自己吹嘅，而我嘅平庸(已美化)就真係攞正牌。斷估你哋冇邊個有我咁巴閉讀咗兩年幼稚園高班、兩年小一。難得嘅係，我阿媽重好意思同人講：「其實佢幾聰明。」我揾老婆，樣靚身材正唔在講，重一定要好聰明，就係驚生個好似自己咁鈍嘅仔女。點知，阿女瓣瓣似足我，小時候讀書一樣咁鈍，讀書對佢嚟講係莫大辛苦事。讀過四間幼稚園，認真諗過自然學校，最後落脚一間功課壓力不大嘅小學。記性奇差，直程好似筲箕。到有默書年級至小四，零分是家常便飯。
好似Annie123嗰叻奶奶咁做就得，三年五載，必有成。
作者: annie40 時間: 13-1-18 17:20
阿媽重好意思同人講：「其實佢幾聰明。」
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你阿媽看到别人看不出的, 是高手中之高手..... 全靠阿媽呢句：「其實佢幾聰明。」 , 你先至挨到去'后发先至'的日子, 阿媽果然系'得ge'. 佩服!
作者: Annie123 時間: 13-1-18 17:27
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作者: KIMKIMNANA 時間: 13-1-23 09:20
laorenjia 發表於 13-1-18 16:55 
呢兩日寫咗好多posts，加埋冇一千都有幾百字，仲諗住休息番輪，但click入嚟又幾有趣噃，原來好似我咁嘅人唔 ...
你媽媽好偉大
咁你幾歲才開竅呢???/
作者: smallfoothk 時間: 13-1-26 13:47
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咁現在幾年班?在香港讀書嗎?開竅?
作者: 囝囝mama 時間: 13-1-29 00:23
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同我細囝一樣!!!!
作者: laorenjia 時間: 13-2-6 20:54
KIMKIMNANA 發表於 13-1-23 09:20
你媽媽好偉大
咁你幾歲才開竅呢???/
Sorry for replying so late. It's a gradual and long process. I guessed it was around lower secondary I started to be better than average students in my school whcih is a CMI school.
作者: pandean 時間: 13-2-6 22:36
前日同阿仔傾計，不知怎麼的講起7-3=幾，阿仔即時低頭算了一下告訴我答案：3！我一聽鄒眉頭說，你數數手指看。阿仔豎起了7個手指，眼睛看著手指再心數了一下，肯定地回答說：3，沒錯！！我又講他知錯了教他認真數一次，然後他這次豎起手指一個個彎曲甘數了一次，終於知道答案是4了。
唔係他蠢，亦唔係他唔夠專注，其實更難的他都識，只不過感覺有時小朋友學習進度同思維模式唔一定按照我們認為的路線行的。
作者: laorenjia 時間: 13-2-6 22:48
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咁現在幾年班?在香港讀書嗎?開竅?
Sorry for replying so late. She has just turned senior at a tier-one university in the states. She gradually became better year after year starting primary 5.
作者: laorenjia 時間: 13-2-7 17:19
暑假時有個世侄女係美國返嚟，順便宣傳佢出版嘅一本教細路嘅書，送咗本俾我老婆。阿女掀完後就同我講：「佢啲仔仲咁細，邊有說服力？老豆不如你寫番本，教人點樣培養弱智兒童入世界名校。」我回答：「邊度有人認自己嘅細路弱智？最多咪話佢未開竅，本書唔駛慌有人買。」
我個女，一個形容自己細時跡近弱智嘅細路女，下年就會喺美國一線大學畢業了。此中轉變，可能對某些家長有參考價值，雖然冇版稅收，重要冒shadeslayer之徒嚟踢館或俾人冠名怪獸家長嘅風險，得閒就寫一下我其中嘅經驗好了。當然EK家長嘅家長多數係叻仔叻女，唔啱睇就當笑話好了。先此聲明，並非真言，亦非大法，絕不系統。
用倒序手法，先從阿女申請大學嘅personal statement講起。下面係佢personal statement 一部份，講佢自己嘅變化，多口一句奉勸咪照抄，斷送你仔女入大學機會路唔好賴我:
I was introduced to the concept of opportunity cost by my father using a traditional Chinese folk song called “In a Far Away Land” when I started my economics course in high school. The song was so well known that even John Denver once sang it in Chinese in a public performance. The song is about the love for a beautiful shepherd girl in Tibet. To be able to come close and be around the girl, one would need to give up all his wealth and be willing to turn into a young lamb. Moreover he would have to bear with the gentle but constant whipping of the girl’s quirt. From the simple and beautiful lyrics comes the concept of opportunity cost: everything in life comes with a price. To obtain something, you have to give up something. Since then I fell in love with economics. It explains a lot of phenomena around us in daily life. The law of diminishing returns explains why I am willing to pay more for a combo meal even if sometimes its portion size remains the same. I like the concept of comparative advantage the most. It dawned on me that, no matter how inadequate I think I am, through exchange and working with others, my life can become more meaningful and even benefit the people who are simply better than me in every single aspect. The concept actually has helped me to get over my inferiority complex which I will talk later on.
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I always thought I was the tortoise in Aesop’s “the Tortoise and the Hare”. Compared with many people around me, I felt inferior. When I was small, I was always the timid girl hiding behind my mother’s back when meeting other people. Although my parents kept telling me that I could tie my shoes, manipulate the chopsticks (yes, using chopsticks is difficult for Chinese kids as well), ride a bicycle, know how to swim, all at an earlier age than most kids, I still felt like a tortoise. My parents sent me to a drama group in our neighborhood when I was at Grade 2. In the performances, I was the girl who always riveted her gaze on her shoes while murmuring her lines. The fact that I went to one of the best schools in Hong Kong did not help either. Surrounded by so many “hares” who are so much brighter than me, I felt justified to pity myself for being a tortoise even though my grades were actually above average at school. Deep down in my heart I’d like to be the hare in the fable but the sad thing is, as well as I tried, I still felt like being the tortoise.
The Chinese embrace a stereotyped interpretation of the fable. We conveniently praise the tortoise and believe that, through sheer hard work, one might be able to win against the odds in life like the tortoise. As a Chinese I also believe in the value of hard work. We are not given choices whether to be born as a tortoise or to be born as a hare. As Randy Pausch says, “We cannot change the cards we are dealt, just how we play the hand.” Born as a tortoise or not, I know the best deal for me is to find out where my strength lies, or to use the economic term, what my comparative advantage is, and then focus on it and work consistently and steadily. Hopefully, small quantity changes would gradually cumulate into significant mutational quality changes. And this is what more or less has happened to me.
I may not be a pretty and witty girl who will sparkle in others’ eyes at the first encounter, but I am an enthusiastic and reliable team player my friends and partners can trust. I have been a volunteer worker since I was 7.
I may not be a quick-minded or a genius student who will impress my teachers as such but I’m definitely intelligent and hardworking. I am doing well in my current studies and my economics teacher has commented that I am the best economics student she has ever taught. I am confident that, with my intelligence and perseverance, I can be counted on to turn in quality academic work in my university studies and given chance make my contribution to the academic world in future.
I am definitively not a super star on the stage but last year I finally assumed the role of the leading actress in the annual drama performance of our drama group for the first time.
All these achievements are probably not something a “hare” would find it worthwhile to brag about, but they have meant a lot to me – a girl who used to think herself as a “tortoise” all the time.
待續。
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作者: laorenjia 時間: 13-2-16 12:22
本帖最後由 laorenjia 於 13-2-16 14:01 編輯
同意慢啲唔緊要。鈍嘅細路仔學公文，貪佢夠重複,都有好處。但小學嘢,最好就父母自己教.重要嘅，做多啲；唔重要嘅，飛咗去。
作者: ssdiana 時間: 13-2-16 14:30
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Please take serious considerations:
1) Please take seriously to understand your own child's developmental needs, not necessarily = other people's experience.
2) Children may have developmental differences, or may have developmental difficulties, if there are differences in the pace of development, then it's a matter of time, then you can wait... However...
3) If kids have developmental difficulties, sometimes in reading and writing, sometimes in maths, sometimes in motor skill coordination, then you may need to find out what's happening to him/her, and find out ways to accommodate him/her, instead of hoping or wishing --- to have the same developmental path as other kids.
4) Suggestions:
a) Face realities, and find out the real needs, may need assessment or comments from professionals if the pattern persisted.
b) Wait and see if this is only a matter of time issue
c) Be alert that only with right understanding, then you will find the right ways to help yourself and your kid, of course.
d) Believe in yourself, you have your own parenting styles, your family uniqueness, and take others' as one of the examples, and ask more examples, of course....
All the best!!
作者: wongmeiyi 時間: 13-2-18 12:04
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