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標題: 兒子今年P2,各科默書取100分,小測取A,考試卻失水準,為何? [打印本頁]

作者: caritas 時間: 12-11-22 11:58 標題: 兒子今年P2,各科默書取100分,小測取A,考試卻失水準,為何?

兒子今年P2,平日各科默書取100分,小測取A,勤力做習作,考試溫習熟練,
考試卻失水準, 中80多分,數學得70多分, 其他都有90多分, 總是錯在不小心地方,
已經叫他多留意此方面, 他說考試時會很緊張, 請問仲有甚麼地方要留意?

作者: MonkeyGirl 時間: 12-11-22 12:17

好明顯他是過份緊張而失水準

作者: hugo2004 時間: 12-11-22 12:17

讓他放鬆,媽媽也不要給他太多壓力,話他知,就當測驗甘.
下次加油!

作者: kp_sin2001 時間: 12-11-22 12:18

可能這就叫壓力吧? 我諗留意心理質數會好啲, 題目是死的, 人是生, 而且現在學校出既題目大部份係考腦筋靈活性居多, 父母平時可否有無形壓力給小朋友呢?

作者: littleangelyy 時間: 12-11-22 12:32

心理壓力影響

作者: candytsy 時間: 12-11-22 12:50

caritas 發表於 12-11-22 11:58
兒子今年P2,平日各科默書取100分,小測取A,勤力做習作,考試溫習熟練,
考試卻失水準, 中80多分,數學得70多分, ...

緊張媽媽放鬆點吧!兒子會因你的緊張或過高期望變得更緊張.如我小兒可有這成績我會非常開心,因不是特別差,又不是不懂.給他一點空間開心玩一玩吧!

作者: Hoho8 時間: 12-11-22 13:01

默书范围小，不用做句子等，容易拿100分。考试就于综合考验，平时多做些课外练习，习惯的这种模式就好啦。小二还是需要培养孩子自我学习的能力，成绩不是量度孩子的一切。更重要的是他能够开心读书和建立自信心。

作者: Hoho8 時間: 12-11-22 13:17

我儿子也是小2，今年中文考试也是89分，以前都是90以上，但是他是最喜欢中文。我们是陪着孩子温习，知道他都学会就可以啦，其他的题目是要靠他自己发挥。出来的成绩是怎样就怎样。孩子的压力多数都是来于家长，所以家长怎样想，孩子就会这样想。你想孩子放松，家长也要放松才可以。

作者: maggie789 時間: 12-11-22 14:04

有時好睇小朋友臨埸表現,我仔都試過,測驗取九十幾,到了考試得八十幾,最難明一樣,我地小學大多家長話,測驗難過考試,何解考試唔識....係咪同緊張有關?但我又唔覺我小朋友緊呢!

作者: tungtung_mama 時間: 12-11-22 14:31 標題: 回覆：maggie789 的帖子

我個女成日粗心大意，錯埋d唔小心地方，例如:大細楷，標點符號，連抄都抄錯，都唔知有咩方法呢?

作者: Yanamami 時間: 12-11-22 16:29

本帖最後由 Yanamami 於 12-11-22 16:34 編輯

看小朋友平日的表現和樓主這個post, 或多或少見到樓主對成績是有要求的. 或者孩子亦知道你的要求, 甚至是自我要求高, 所以考時便會緊張, 越想考得好反而考得差?

有無check卷? Check時是「看」多次, 還是「做」多次?

作者: baldhead 時間: 12-11-24 22:51

我個仔測驗考試都係衰粗心大意，之前會鬧，但根本冇用，依家淨係同佢賽後檢討，希望大d會好d啦。

作者: Meikin 時間: 12-11-25 00:32

本帖最後由 Meikin 於 12-11-25 00:33 編輯

樓主不用過份擔心, 心急+粗心大意是一般男仔的通病.

其實都唔驚得咁多, 以我經驗, 佢哋平時好好地地, 無端端可以考個嚇你一驚的分數出來, 即使你問佢點解會咁錯, 佢自己都答唔到, 當時真係好似鬼um眼, 覆睇多次都唔覺有問題架.

我仔一年考4次試, 4次測驗, 每星期都有默書, 如此情況偶有發生, 真係唔擔心得咁多, 我惟有做好我的本份-- 盡我本分協助佢温書, 多提點佢要小心, 做到幾多真係要靠佢自己了. 不過由小一開始提吓鬧吓, 到小六雖仍然有careless mistake, 但已經好好多了.

只是小二而已, 有大把改進空間, 你和孩子也加油吧!

作者: 長生不老 時間: 12-11-25 01:18

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作者: tws2010 時間: 12-11-25 15:02

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In fact, the scope is far difficult than those our good old days...what is learning is junior primary is in fact what senior primary or even junior secondary taught in the past. So believe our kids, they are really doing a great job...in fact, as a working mum, I was and I am also worried about my kid. But seeing him really spend a lot of effort in his study, what I can do is to support him. In fact, I always bear in my mind, if I were my kid, I may even not know what to do as well...Sometimes, it is our fate in whatever exams or hardship people facing. Lucks won't on your side and on our side all the times. As long as my kid try his best, i won't blame him. When my kid was in P.1, I was really mad...now, I start to release. Even my kid wrote in his essay, my parents won't blame me for low marks they know I have tried my best. He further wrote - he would not take it as granted but will even work hard. i was so impressed and touched when I read his essay.

Release and relief!

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