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作者: silverbell 時間: 12-11-5 17:37 標題: 小朋友屬慢熱、文靜、觀察型的過來人家長請幫幫忙！
有感主動積極醒目型的小孩是最易突出自己，想請教過來人家長，如小朋友較慢熱、被動和觀察型，小一面試可以如何突破，讓老師也察覺到這類小朋友也有優勝的地方？文靜觀察型的小朋友，是否也入到好的直資或好的私校？可以分享一下嗎？謝謝！
作者: albert831 時間: 12-11-5 22:21 標題: 回覆：小朋友屬慢熱、文靜、觀察型的過來人家長請幫幫忙！
聖方濟各, 考筆試
作者: hoihoima 時間: 12-11-5 22:50
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Seen quite some cases like this, quiet and passive kids are very disadvantage in the interview game. Lucky draw is still the last resort.
作者: Eugenepig 時間: 12-11-5 23:15
不同學校喜歡不同類型小朋友, 純個人感覺高主教, St Paul Boy's, 英華, SFA 喜歡乖巧小朋友, 另外, 我估計宣道也是.
作者: momama 時間: 12-11-6 08:07 標題: 回覆：小朋友屬慢熱、文靜、觀察型的過來人家長請幫幫忙！
YW收乖但要主動。其實被動慢熱唔係問題，只要面試時有禮守規，一步一步跟指引去表現能力就得。
作者: eyschoi 時間: 12-11-6 09:12
This year most private/DSS school would have first interview testing the academic ability of the children so your kid will have a chance. However you have to do something to improve the situation otherwise there may be problem in 2nd interview.
作者: ysnmama 時間: 12-11-6 09:16
momama 發表於 12-11-6 08:07 
YW收乖但要主動。其實被動慢熱唔係問題，只要面試時有禮守規，一步一步跟指引去表現能力就得。
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作者: lingling06 時間: 12-11-6 09:23
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小兒正正是你所提及的性格，在某些學校面試真的會較其他人遜色，特別是在群體互動中，毫不顯眼。但只要這些孩子懂得禮貌、懂得耐心等候，又在面見中願意作答，亦會有欣賞他們的學校。去年，我亦有和你一樣的擔心，但最後兒子也有數間不俗的學校録取（我個人認為雖不是特別的名校，但以我兒子的程度來説，是相當不錯），如KTS，APS、SFA、音小和數間直資。
作者: zzbchu 時間: 12-11-6 09:28 標題: 回覆：lingling06 的帖子
KTS,APS and SFA不是不錯是非常好！lingling06你真係謙虛，你小朋友好叻呀！
作者: hadwinboy 時間: 12-11-6 10:13
Eugenepig 發表於 12-11-5 23:15 
不同學校喜歡不同類型小朋友, 純個人感覺高主教, St Paul Boy's, 英華, SFA 喜歡乖巧小朋友, 另外, 我估計 ...
I am not sure if a passive and quiet kid will work out well for St. Paul Boys. A kid of my friend is very talkative, active, and speaks English well but has a low academic level (especially in Chinese). For example he doesnt know sentense re-structuring. He applied 10 schools last year and only St. Paul Boys admitted him. His mother said because St. Paul Boys was the only school that didnt test much on academic level during interview. Having said that, this may applies for my friend's case only.
作者: Eugenepig 時間: 12-11-6 11:04
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我也是根據身邊朋友的資料, 再加一些今年的自身體驗, 得出的結論, 不一定是對的.
未考小一前, 出席了多間學校的簡介會, 幫小兒報考的小學, 做了一些matching, 建議樓主明年早點報名簡介會, 以便掌握更多資訊, 不過也有些小學校長簡介會上說的, 跟實際收生的要求有點不同, 宜多聽身邊朋友活生生的實例.
作者: KCYmama 時間: 12-11-6 22:14
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I've just opened an account and am writing my first post because I've shared the same experience before. I think if you know the "weakness" of your child, you may think of ways for improvement in the coming year. My hubby and I noticed this issue when my girl was three, and we were afraid that it would be a big disadvantage in P.1 admission interviews. Therefore, we've made a lot of effort in order to make her more outspoken. Though she is not a very talkative child, at least she has become more responsive. What we've done is to try giving her more opportunities to face other people and talk to them, e.g. joining our gatherings with friends so that she has to talk more to adults; asking her to order food in restaurants, joining some recitation competitions, etc.We should understand that teachers don't have much time to dig out the kids' talent during interviews as there're plenty of candidates with very limited time. Training for our own kids in advance is important.
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作者: happypeace 時間: 12-11-7 01:01
Agree 100%
作者: momama 時間: 12-11-7 08:03 標題: 回覆：小朋友屬慢熱、文靜、觀察型的過來人家長請幫幫忙！
阿女就係呢種人，K3都要過咗一個學期先可以放鬆去同班主任相處。老實講，我唔叫呢d做“問題“，亦冇諗住去改佢嘅性格。我當然有鼓勵佢，但只要佢做到禮貌應對就得啦。
作者: Parisienne 時間: 12-11-7 08:52
慢熱、被動和觀察型＝ 深思屬慮型。
如果子女純綷係：內斂、唔衝動，分析過有把握先做，但一做就有信心地做好件事。我覺得呢種係個人性格，無乜問題。
呢種性格只要將某些事變成常規，令佢明白係必需要做，之後就無問題。
例如禮貌、見到人要叫，甚至上台show and tell or 小一面試，當佢習慣個模式後，明白同pratice得多後，自然就配合得非常好！
我個囡就係咁。
以上係佢班主任K2時教我。
由於佢要經過觀察來肯定自己下一步行動，所以家長要成日說教，講多d點解，同分析整個過程，佢明白後就會放心，做得好好。
相反，家長好多時會將：無自信、害羞、怕輸、唔合群等弱點.....誤以為係被勳慢熱，咁就未必可以對証下藥。呢種就要多加鼓勵，經常肯定佢，唔好乜都幫佢決定，幫佢建立自信。
作者: silverbell 時間: 12-11-7 09:30
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KTS,APS,SFA all are the schools many parents like. If my kid can be accepted by one of them, I will have no regret. Thanks for your sharing. Now, I see some hope in the future.
作者: silverbell 時間: 12-11-7 09:35
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Absolutely agree. Every type of personality has its own values. Though my kid is not the "leadership type", I appreciate that he is not impulsive, careful, and listen to instructions. The teacher said that he did well in "Talk and show" time. I should believe that the "correct" school will pick him.
作者: Parisienne 時間: 12-11-7 09:37
如果人生如戲，都有分台前同幕後。
有d適合台前，有d適合幕後。天生無得逼。
台前醒醒目目，發揮機會自然多，由細叻到大，家長focus的可能又是另一層面，如揀較重德育的學校。
幕後果d無咁顯眼，小班會照顧得好，學校多提供發揮機會，令每個都有平均機會。
作者: silverbell 時間: 12-11-7 09:38
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Thx for sharing. Once, I thought I have to "change" his characters. Now, I don't think I have to. What I need to do is to give him encouragement and support. If I am impatient with his personality, he can't build up confidence.
作者: silverbell 時間: 12-11-7 09:56
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Agree that "Teachers don't have much time to dig out the kid's talents in the interview." So, I have to focus on building up his confidence and training his manners and politeness. Thanks for sharing.
作者: silverbell 時間: 12-11-7 09:58
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The information you provided is important. Thanks.
作者: frankie_boy 時間: 12-11-7 18:28
我女活動好動，不過面對陌生人時慢熱、唔敢講野，K1 暑假參加了一次模擬面試，對我打激好大。因為評價是...慢熱、只會說一兩個字...
痛定思痛，我開始想辦法比佢有信心係陌生人面前講野。
先安排她參加中英戲團的DRAMA COURSES，自信心提高了, 足足上左一年。
之後，同佢參加很多義務工作，好似賣旗、義賣個D ..等佢多D機會同人講野, 比人REJECT...
今年K3了, 面試結果我們只考了四間有兩間有OFFER
最心宜個間等緊......
所以, 不止是操技巧, 背答案, 心理準備好最要
一齊加油!!
作者: NatalieBaby 時間: 12-11-7 23:01 標題: frankie_boy 的帖子
good 
作者: Ahbee02 時間: 12-11-7 23:33
我女都系慢熱的孩子。敏感, 缺乏自信，群體中會好安靜, 不善表現自己, 凡事觀察后才去嘗試。
舊年考小一，我地一直target找適合小女的私立/DSS學校，主要系有愛心，包容心，小班教學（可以比到阿女呢種平凡的孩子多些表現機會，從而慢慢建立自信），愉快學習。報左5間，最終2間有offer。
無獨有偶，有offer呢2間都沒有考學術性問題，而比較著重閱讀同畫畫，剛好小女也比較喜歡閱讀同畫畫，所以同學校也較為match吧。
要相信總能找到適合孩子的學校。
作者: hadwinboy 時間: 12-11-8 10:46
frankie_boy 發表於 12-11-7 18:28
我女活動好動，不過面對陌生人時慢熱、唔敢講野，K1 暑假參加了一次模擬面試，對我打激好大。因為評價是... ...
作者: steven819 時間: 12-11-9 18:50
These kids are going to perform well academically later. Don't just think that you want your kids to be admitted to a good school. Schools are also long for really smart and polite (usually a bit quiet) kids. The interviewers are experts who do this exercises few thousands times each year. And they have feedback by observing how the students performed after they have chosen them. They are "the experts".
作者: winbun 時間: 12-11-9 20:32 標題: 引用：我女都系慢熱的孩子。敏感,+缺乏自信，群體
原帖由 Ahbee02 於 12-11-07 發表
我女都系慢熱的孩子。敏感, 缺乏自信，群體中會好安靜, 不善表現自己, 凡事觀察后才去嘗試。
舊年考小一， ...
作者: frankie_boy 時間: 12-11-9 21:14 標題: 引用：Quote:frankie_boy+發表於+12-11-7+18:28+
原帖由 hadwinboy 於 12-11-08 發表
睇完好感動. 父母背後的付出真的好偉大. 有因必有果. 希望你最後可以有最心儀的offer.
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作者: Ahbee02 時間: 12-11-9 22:21
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Pls check PM.
作者: bebelee 時間: 12-11-10 00:04 標題: 回覆：Ahbee02 的帖子
Hi Ahbee02
Would you mind PM me which schools for this type of kid ? Many thank
作者: 阿Yan 時間: 12-11-10 00:33 標題: 引用：慢熱、被動和觀察型＝+深思屬慮型。如果子
原帖由 Parisienne 於 12-11-07 發表
慢熱、被動和觀察型＝ 深思屬慮型。
如果子女純綷係：內斂、唔衝動，分析過有把握先做，但一做就有信心地做 ...
作者: tws2010 時間: 12-11-10 14:21
我個仔屬慢熱、文靜、觀察型的, 開頭好失落, 人地做到點解他不可以, 我無特別理會, 但隨時間, 他進步很大, 慢慢來, 你會見到成果
作者: happymama2009 時間: 12-11-12 07:55 標題: 引用：我女都系慢熱的孩子。敏感,+缺乏自信，群體
原帖由 Ahbee02 於 12-11-07 發表
我女都系慢熱的孩子。敏感, 缺乏自信，群體中會好安靜, 不善表現自己, 凡事觀察后才去嘗試。
舊年考小一， ...
作者: apple82 時間: 12-11-12 08:01
Can you also pm me the two school names?
作者: silverbell 時間: 12-11-13 17:33
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Would you please PM which 2 schools accepted your daughter? Thx a lot!
作者: ting-ma 時間: 12-11-18 01:47
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作者: papajelly 時間: 12-11-18 10:39
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can you also PM me the school name, please? Thank you.
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