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作者: 可愛小肥媽 時間: 12-10-18 16:11 標題: RC校園盗竊案，請給意見
本人兒子於上週在RC校院內被一3年級學生搶去籃球，之後雖然我們找到嗰個搶波小朋友，但佢又話收埋咗個波係草叢之後唔見咗，同學校講，學校又話籃球係私人物品唔處理，你話可以點？
作者: HKTHK 時間: 12-10-18 16:15
What are your objectives? Get the ball back. Get compensation of a new ball. Punish the other kid. Teach your kid a lesson?
作者: 可愛小肥媽 時間: 12-10-18 16:33 標題: 回覆：HKTHK 的帖子
I want that kid find the ball back or buy us a same ball as compensation.
作者: Radiomama 時間: 12-10-18 18:52 標題: 回覆：可愛小肥媽 的帖子
So sad to hear that.
However, the school doesn't encourage the junior forms to bring any valuable items, toys, balls & money to the campus, right?
You should teach your kid a lesson.
作者: mingmingyinyin 時間: 12-10-18 19:15
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Whom did you talk to at RC? The vice-principal who is responsible for the disciplinary matters? Or the class teacher? Perhaps you can get your child to learn from this incident as to keep an eye on one's belonging and to protect oneself. If I were you, I would inform the school officially of such misbehavior cos I don't want it to happen again and again. Maybe it's something else (not a ball) next time...
Anyway, I'm sorry to hear that...
作者: scheong 時間: 12-10-18 19:18 標題: 回覆：RC校園盗竊案，請給意見
Did you check the "Lost and Found"?
作者: ghostbuster2000 時間: 12-10-18 20:09
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作者: hhy2007 時間: 12-10-18 20:29
本帖最後由 hhy2007 於 12-10-19 12:12 編輯
To me, it's more like a campus bully than theft. If I were you, I might request an oral apology from the boys who grabbed the basketball from your son. They could play the basketball, as long as they got your son’s permission. Students should be taught what’s right and wrong. As to the basketball, I won’t ask for any compensation. I’m sure those kids from the upper class didn’t expect the ball to be gone. Well, of course different people handle things differently.
A few years back in a campus, my daughter put a borrowed book on top of a locker. She then bent down to organize her backpack on the floor. She was too focused on her backpack to pay attention to someone passing by. When she stood up, the book was gone. You can imagine how frustrated she was, as all just happened in 1-2 minutes. What we did was to buy a new same book for her friend, the book owner. It’s a good lesson to my daughter, as she learned that she had to assume full responsibility for the borrowed book/thing.
作者: Radiomama 時間: 12-10-18 20:43 標題: 回覆：hhy2007 的帖子
Agree no more!
作者: 可愛小肥媽 時間: 12-10-19 08:00 標題: 回覆：mingmingyinyin 的帖子
The school reply was from the Vice Principal. She said there is no evidence of snatching even the student admitted that. 
作者: 可愛小肥媽 時間: 12-10-19 08:01 標題: 回覆：scheong 的帖子
Yes, I check it everyday 
作者: 可愛小肥媽 時間: 12-10-19 08:04 標題: 回覆：ghostbuster2000 的帖子
對，我亦是這樣回覆校長，縱然學校不負責私人財物，但絕對要負責學生紀律
作者: c200 時間: 12-10-19 09:26
哈哈以上的校園事件,記得以前在英國讀書時常常發生,very common....
作者: mingmingyinyin 時間: 12-10-19 11:58
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Which form is your child in? If your child is in a lower form, then teach him the way to protect himself as it seems to be the culture of dealing with students' behavourial problems in this way. If your child encounters something like this again, perhaps go to the primary school principal for help.
作者: Jane1983 時間: 12-10-19 15:38
如果吳係bully，點處理都無所謂，都係小事一宗。
但如果被高班的選中來欺侮，就非常大件事，樓主要跟緊d，看是前者定後者。
作者: Mighty 時間: 12-10-19 21:21
不過点睇都不是楼主的TITLE。 「校園盗竊案」？？
作者: 可愛小肥媽 時間: 12-10-20 10:01 標題: 回覆：RC校園盗竊案，請給意見
呢兩日同其它家長講起，先知呢啲事係學校成日發生，咩依家啲小朋友咁曳嘅
真係估唔到！係家教定學校教育問題？
作者: acdad 時間: 12-10-20 11:51
本帖最後由 acdad 於 12-10-20 12:13 編輯
我小朋友都有帶波返學校玩,過未試過被人"搶"波咁緊要,不過呢Ｄ事响任何校園都有發生,好似上面提過,試吓認真Ｄ寫封电郵比學校管理睇吓佢哋点覆,白紙黑字,校方嘅表達可能有所不同。
不過小朋友咁細個帶個波返去, 籃球場咁多人同時玩, 都係有危險,到時被撞傷咗,可能會變成校園＂暴力＂事件,重大件事！
另外可以試吓問可唔可以上 secondary gym 或者其他放籃球 嘅cage揾唔揾得返個波,又問吓學校可唔可以放小息時借波玩,不過籃球呢種係團體運動,都係一齊射籃一齊玩,好難自己帶個波返去唔比其他人參与的,如果真係想學, 學校 (外面團体同ESL) 同 YMCA 都有得學。
作者: Maoku 時間: 12-10-20 12:59 標題: 回覆：RC校園盗竊案，請給意見
其實只係小事一宗，將來出到社會都一樣有好多唔稱心嘅事，小朋友要學識處理。家長唔通可以跟足佢一世咩？你畀佢讀非傳統學校，就係要佢獨立。恕我直接，樓主你個名題講到間學校成個賊竇咁，實在有欠公允！
作者: scheong 時間: 12-10-20 15:03 標題: 回覆：Maoku 的帖子
同意Maoku所講，恕我直言，不談校園欺凌，偷嘢，只談件事本身，籃球是一個team sport, 好難帶一個波返校自己一個玩，預咗一定有人搶，而且在一個小息的操場，唸下其他小朋友，都有可能俾你嗰囝嗰波撞親而食波餅，你有無為他人切想呢？另外，如果咁緊張嗰波我會叫我囝自己落樓下玩，自己跟到實。好老實講呢啲私人嘢俾小朋友帶返校，校方俾你帶喺人情，唔俾帶係道理，唔見咗仲要親自搵個＂疑兇＂去質問佢，好得人驚。件事我覺得唔可以單方面去㧗評，對其他人不公平。網上平台是公開的，好可能又是另一類的欺凌事件！不喜可插！希望校方唔好睇到我咁寫
作者: birdbird 時間: 12-10-20 15:44
My boy experienced sth similar when he was in year 1 and 2. His friend borrowed his cap to go out to the playground to play. after that, the boy didn't return the cap and he kept saying he didn't know its whereabout. I was really furious about the abt boy's behaviour and also my own son's decision of lending his friend the cap. I didn't complain to the teachers as it is a matter of friendship and belongings management which the kids should learn by themselves. To give my son a lesson to learn, I didn't buy him the cap until there was an outing. It worked!
作者: 可愛小肥媽 時間: 12-10-20 15:53 標題: 回覆：scheong 的帖子
無錯籃球係team sport，大家可以share嚟玩，但並唔係搶嚟玩，仲要搶完之後諗住收埋據為己有，我真係覺得同賊無分別
其實我唔係緊張個波，而係我天真地以為家長同學校會正視紀律問題
老實講，我到依家都未見過個小朋友亦都無接觸過個家長，所以我都好擔心係樓上啲樓主所講係欺凌事件
作者: birdbird 時間: 12-10-20 18:31
樓主,
即使在校園的環境, 真係有d細路係會洽另外一d純品的細路. 所以我地ge責任, 係要教曉我地的小朋友帶眼對人. 明知某個細路拎o左自己d野去係唔會物歸原主, 就要第一時間搶番果樣野番黎. 對住呢d麻煩細路, 冇可能仲咁天真以為佢地係上等人有借有還. 自己唔曉保衛自己的物品, 邊個都幫唔到自己. 老師幫到一時, 幫唔到一世的.
作者: hhy2007 時間: 12-10-20 18:40
You are contradicting yourself by saying “…之後雖然我們找到嗰個搶波小朋友…”in your first post, and then saying “…我到依家都未見過個小朋友亦都無接觸過個家長…”in your last post.
Is it a typo?
作者: Mighty 時間: 12-10-20 19:51
好明顕、看THREAD TITLE、就知這位楼主実在将事件誇張左。
作者: 可愛小肥媽 時間: 12-10-20 20:36 標題: 回覆：hhy2007 的帖子
係老師話俾我知揾到個小朋友，但我唔識佢，所以唔知個細路係咩人！
作者: 可愛小肥媽 時間: 12-10-20 20:38 標題: 回覆：Mighty 的帖子
對我嚟講，好大件事呀！
作者: hhy2007 時間: 12-10-20 21:05
I don’t want to argue with you. But it really doesn’t sound logical to me. If it was the school teacher who found the concerned boy, and as you mentioned earlier, that the boy admitted to the teacher that he did snatch the ball from your son, then how come the Vice Principal is still asking for the evidence of snatching? A lot of things are missing here. I guess I should stop discussing on this.
作者: 可愛小肥媽 時間: 12-10-20 21:47 標題: 回覆：hhy2007 的帖子
Thats the point I myself dont inderstand too. The teacher told me that the offending student admitted his fault but then the Vice Proncipal said that the evidence is not enough. 
作者: Radiomama 時間: 12-10-20 21:58 標題: 回覆：可愛小肥媽 的帖子
樓主，如果一如你所説，老師已知道是那位頑皮仔幹的好事，我相信那頑皮仔已被老師教導過的了，你可以放心。
不要再執著了。
老實說，playground上什麼事也會發生~扮騎馬、扮放狗、搶帽、踢鞋....好精彩，當值老師看見有人橫衝直撞得太離譜也會出聲，不過其餘時間都讓他們玩。
好好與兒子反思今次事件吧！保護自己和自己的物件是首要學會的！
我仔Y1時與一男同學齊教訓另一曵仔，最後被老師捉到受罰。當時老師沒有告訴我，只教訓這兩個動手（其實受了傷）的小男生。今天已是Y4的他們，仍記得那件事，並認為自己為幫女同學而出頭是英勇行為！
作者: bbdmami 時間: 12-10-21 00:00 標題: 回覆：RC校園盗竊案，請給意見
樓主一直都無講自己個小朋友幾大，理論上應該細過個搶波個小朋友。咁細個就要自己帶籃球返學校？
作者: scheong 時間: 12-10-21 06:13 標題: 回覆：RC校園盗竊案，請給意見
如照字面推斷，其實老師及副校都知道呢件事，亦都有同Y3學生傾，咁我相信事情已經處理咗，校方無必要再向你交待佢哋點教導嗰位小朋友。呢d都係正常國際學校做法。相反樓主死心不息，要將本身是惡作劇的事情小事化大，在網上寫＂校園盜竊案＂又話校方話籃球係私人物品唔處理，你話可以點？作引子再廣傳，在這點我覺得好嚴重，盜竊是刑事罪行，要有証人有藏物，要有証據支持話疑犯據為己有，先可以成立，作為家長要緊慎自己的言行，沈重的字眼不能亂說，網上欺凌正在fb中熱烈討論，不知道樓主的題目算嗎？
作者: Annie123 時間: 12-10-21 12:37
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作者: TINGMUM 時間: 12-10-22 12:38
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我覺得樓主小朋友細,可能不能講返太多老師如何處理此事. 有唔明之處(老師話小朋友認左, 但副校又話證據不足),其實為何不直接再問副校或班主任, 溝通好重要, 估估下盞自己激氣.
如果係我, 我會叫仔仔唔好再帶私人物品回校, 免生事端, 另一方面, 我又會要求班主任通知該搶波男孩的家長有關孩子的行為. 件事就咁close左算!
作者: oooray 時間: 12-10-22 12:56
VP點理?有冇人証(成人)?就算幾個Year1同學出黎指証個Year3，咁都係一面之詞；叫學校可以點?個Year3一樣可以話你幾個Year1屈佢....
如果你知邊個咪去個Year3個課室搵個老師；老師都唔理就直接搵個家長；
最後唔得去馬鞍山警署報案(阿SIR未必同你開File)再番學校同VP嘈過....
但最簡單就唔好帶不必要既私人野番學；叫個小朋友小心d個人物品。講完。
作者: xx33 時間: 12-10-24 02:26
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作者: beibie 時間: 12-10-24 23:51
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去過大陸同星加坡的學校，好大好大。其實根本無可能確保學生在操場上一定有老師在附近。
外國學校都係一樣。點解香港的家長成日都期望有老師在學生身邊主持公道？
唔怪得香港咁多港孩，沒有應對問題的能力，沒有自立能力，乜都要大人幫。
作者: manfatcentre 時間: 12-10-25 02:04 標題: 引用：回復+xx33+的帖子
去過大陸同星加坡的學校
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去過大陸同星加坡的學校，好大好大。其實根本無可能確保學生在操場上一定有老師在附近。 ...
作者: xx33 時間: 12-10-25 02:28
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作者: netkappa 時間: 12-10-26 01:19 標題: 引用：+本帖最後由+xx33+於+12-10-25+02:31+編輯+
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作者: Jane1983 時間: 12-10-26 21:04
咁講到在學校比同學剪頭髮，關注吓都吳算係怪獸家長。
作者: w2b 時間: 12-10-28 10:14
“盗竊案”?!咁做muc 唔報警? [size=1.17em]
作者: Maoku 時間: 12-10-28 14:13 標題: 引用：咁講到在學校比同學剪頭髮，關注吓都吳算係
原帖由 Jane1983 於 12-10-26 發表
咁講到在學校比同學剪頭髮，關注吓都吳算係怪獸家長。
作者: sschiu 時間: 12-10-29 12:09
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Agree!! 
作者: cppc20 時間: 12-10-31 10:25
可能樓主平時用開英文.恕我直言,您的中文標題與內容不附,回覆內容前後予盾.例如之前您說: "我們"找到嗰個搶波小朋友",但之後又話無見過.我相信RC已處理了這件事.唔通小朋友之間的小衝突,每次都要報警. 小朋友之間打兩下,又話校園打鬥事件
作者: bigbighei 時間: 12-11-1 08:38 標題: 引用：本人兒子於上週在RC校院內被一3年級學生搶
原帖由 可愛小肥媽 於 12-10-18 發表
本人兒子於上週在RC校院內被一3年級學生搶去籃球，之後雖然我們找到嗰個搶波小朋友，但佢又話收埋咗個波係 ...
作者: peternchan 時間: 12-11-21 10:49
Perhaps the basketball had been taken away by parents.
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