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標題: 培育:女孩子聰明,脑轉得快,但唔仲意思考,點算? [打印本頁]

作者: hy2910 時間: 12-8-19 23:31 標題: 培育:女孩子聰明,脑轉得快,但唔仲意思考,點算?

百年樹木 ,十年樹人,可憐天下父母心。

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妹妹5歲 , 教過象棋、橋牌,統統冇興趣,因佢資優哥哥(9歲)样样比佢强,乘人贏佢,同埋佢又唔仲意思考。

平心而論,妺妺記性,脑轉數,都唔會輸俾哥哥。

相差既,指係過去父母的愛心和金錢投入(對小朋友既培育)。

一個拔苗助長、一個順其自然,是否有錯?

到底要點样培育?

作者: preciousstone 時間: 12-8-20 23:38

Don't blame yourself. Research says that the second gifted child normally excels in a very different way.

作者: hy2910 時間: 12-8-21 22:38

謝謝!

做父母難、做孖寶父母更難、做資優父母難上難。

作者: mandytanghk 時間: 12-8-23 15:33

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Where can I find such kind of research information ?

作者: mandytanghk 時間: 12-8-23 15:34

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做"孖寶資優" 父母難上難更難難難難 ... 加油..

作者: preciousstone 時間: 12-8-25 20:43

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See point 6 here http://www.gifteddevelopment.com/What_is_Gifted/learned.htm

作者: hy2910 時間: 12-8-26 17:41

Thanks preciousstone.

佢地 (GiftedDevelopment Center)講左结果:

They often go in the opposite direction of their older siblings and are less likely to be achievement oriented.

我地既原因:

因佢資優哥哥(9歲)样样比佢强,乘人贏佢

另外,

Even the first-born identical twin has a greater chance of being accepted in a gifted program than the second-born!

如果將 gifted program比臂成拔苗助長、順其自然似乎更適合妺妺。

作者: preciousstone 時間: 12-8-30 00:35

gifted program 又怎會是拔苗助長呢？只要小朋友喜歡, 便沒有問題.

資優小朋友本身已夠叻, 我覺得他們不需要特別提拔, 他們欠的是動機和情緒管理, 所以我覺得只要搞好他們這兩樣東西, 就不煩他們沒有出息或將來沒有機會發揮.

作者: mandytanghk 時間: 12-8-30 11:55

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Although our younger brother still very small , 15 months only. We think we are facing the same problem -- gift brothers .. one is already hard to handle,, facing two....

作者: augkBB 時間: 12-9-2 03:17

same as my case. But I really enjoy "順其自然" to my second child. He is happier than his elder brother. Take it easy!

作者: MsAudrey 時間: 12-9-24 23:20

Just take it easy.
And be aware of how your elder kid treats your younger one, and see if any extra caring is needed for her.

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