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作者: iuman 時間: 12-3-8 03:06 標題: 仔仔大便一定要系片上，點樣戒，幫下手唔該。

仔仔已經3歲幾，2歲已經可以控制要求小便，系學校老師教識。宜家日頭唔用片，但夜晚瞓覺會用。巨日頭唔大便，習慣咗夜晚一包片就偷偷大便。幫巨除片巨就忍屎，要巨坐馬桶就坐一個鐘都唔漚。巨知道我地要巨戒片，試過四日無大便，死忍，最後忍到肚痛先系馬桶漚咗一次，心痛。宜家有時朝早醒咗又偷偷漚系片度。真系好頭痛。有無家長有同類問題，系點樣train呢？

作者: Capricorn2521 時間: 12-3-8 10:08

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我覺得你個仔吾係聴吾明，係吾做啫。試吓同佢講：你依家3歲啦，大個仔啦，吾係BB啦。BB先柯使柯落片片度，仔仔要柯係TOILET度架。得閒又問吓佢，你幾多歲呀?係吾係BB呀? 柯使柯落邊度呀? 等佢覺得自己大個仔，有優越感，好似好叻咁。我都係咁改咗我個仔好多BB行為。

作者: owl_2046 時間: 12-3-8 10:49

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試過四日無大便，死忍，最後忍到肚痛先系馬桶漚咗一次，心痛

媽咪, 冇得心痛, 當亞仔明白就算忍到肚痛你都唔會讓步的話, 最終佢會乖乖坐廁所, 已經成功過一次啦, 過程係痛苦, 但都好過戒唔到時係你痛苦, 要知你係幫緊佢自理, 你估你個仔唔識咩, 佢識選擇肚痛舒服定係坐廁所舒服...堅持!

作者: Reddish 時間: 12-3-8 16:32

睇來是一個心理障礙,我地的小朋友對很多事都驚,無信心做,吾肯試,要圖文並茂,慢慢咁先明。

作者: 金瑪姬 時間: 12-3-8 18:06

我bb都係差唔多，有一次佢忍唔住，冲凉時呵左係水度，之後，我地比冇水既冲凉盤佢踎，佢ok 肯呵！一星期後，再試坐厕所，就ok，成功戒大便！可以參考下。

作者: iuman 時間: 12-3-8 21:44

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嗯，同阿仔講耶穌巨識答過我，全部都系我要ge答案。但系臨門一腳就系做唔到，都系驚。所以有時要靠逼，有時要靠獎勵。自己大便我系試過攞巨最中意ge嘢引巨，都系唔得。所以先頭痛。

作者: iuman 時間: 12-3-8 21:46

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系！我都覺得要堅持，其實巨系可以做到，但系就是萬事開頭難，可能因為我返工，要工人盯住巨，同自己睇住唔同。我會儘量多啲時間再試下。多謝你的建議。

作者: iuman 時間: 12-3-8 21:52

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絕對系，我由個仔細個就發現巨好驚嘗試新嘢。由食物到玩嘢都系，我每次都系鼓勵巨試，或者直接推巨去玩。發現只要試過其實巨就可以樂在其中，亦都唔比人差。但開始就會掙扎啲。成日自己講唔曬驚嘎，既系好驚。所以我都會得閒帶巨去試新嘢，玩唔同ge遊樂場，做唔同ge事。巨地都系比較信任我地，所以父母應該多引導。

作者: iuman 時間: 12-3-8 21:52

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多謝你的建議，我會試下。

作者: Olympian 時間: 12-3-12 15:30

你估可唔可以試下著住條片坐係個馬桶道痾，再下一部先唔要片，直接痾落馬桶道？

作者: catregist 時間: 12-3-16 15:52

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我兒曾害怕大便, 沒有便秘, 只是忍, 不肯坐potty, 害怕和鬧情緒, 幾日才疴一次.
後來我用"圖文並茂"的方法, 上網/有教自理的書本內找圖片, 一邊給他看, 一邊用簡單字/詞鼓勵他/讓他玩玩具. 一兩日後慢慢肯坐potty約5分鐘以上, 才再要求他大便,便成功了.日日肯定時主動坐potty大便, 但現仍未肯坐馬桶.
努力!希望早日成功.

作者: LPYdad1 時間: 12-3-17 19:17

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Dear iuman,
I think ABA providing one of the most effective way for toileting, u might find a book or text from internet for very details.
But basically, u need to separate each part of toileting before u teach your kid and
not to mix it up,
A few idea I could share with you:
Diapering is a method to control urine and poop for kids. U teach yr kid toileting does not totally mean to get rid of diaper. There is a bit difference. For instance, many non-delayed kids using diaper at night is acceptable if they need before primary.
U have to decide whether to use a potty in the begginning or directly using the toilet seats, perhaps based on yr kid's preference and acceptance to new things. My son prefer using toilet seats directly even though I have bought tons of potty, and finally I installed two-way toilet seat (since he did not like to seat on something being soft) as he do pooping directly by himself.
In the beginning of toileting, you target should be set on ASKING him to sit to the toilet seats or potty near the time he/she usually poop.
U might count from 1 to 10 (about 10 seconds) or singing a teeny tiny song or play a small toy for the worst case with him but don’t EVER NEVER NEVER ask him/her to poop. Just do it as some sort of playing. If he refuse, get him some reinforcement after he finished the “sitting game”. Pls remember the goal is sitting in the potty or toilet seat for you target time (10 seconds???). If accomplished, you met the goal already adn went to next step. Even he poop but don’t sit for the target time u set, it is not a success in the long run coz u would like him to poop for himself ultimately, not just one or two times suddently, right? U make this practice for 1- 3 wks, depending on yr kids’ progress.
As stage passed, your next target is to extend the sitting time from 10s up to 5 mins (Which I think it is the necessary time for a kid to poop and finished everything). Of course, you need to add more from counting to another activity like song singing, etc. Two main things you are now seeking yr kid to do. First, allow him to poop if he wants ONLY. If not, just keep playing your sitting game. Second, try to cut the reinforcement gradually since the reinforcement to a certain extent would divert his attention to poop. This stage mostly lasts for 1 wk to 2 mths depending on yr kids’ altitude.

If stage passed which means he obeyed the sitting time and/or poop sometimes during the sitting game, By then, you should try to encourage your kid to poop during the game. You might make some pooping sounds, talk to him about pooping is necessary during the game and greet him if successful. U might even make a photo for his success. At the same time, u could start to teach him to poop at where u want if necessary.
At last, u might change the potty to toilet seat if he could regularly poop at the game already and give up diaper in day time.
Hope my sharing being helpful to u.

作者: kaka1128 時間: 12-3-19 16:56

我個囝都係咁, 試過幾次出街忍無可忍既情況下去廁所痾, 仲要識得同我講, "我大個仔, 屎屎要痾起廁所, 我唔係BB, 痾起片係唔啱", 但係, 佢每次起屋企廁所一定痾唔到, 之後就話眼訓要去床訓覺 (想我比片佢), 我都唔知點算好

作者: szeszes 時間: 12-3-19 22:34

我仔以前都有呢個問題, 同你仔仔 case 大致一樣; 直程試過忍足幾天唔去, 打平訓都唔得, 要吉起 patpat 訓, 坐又唔坐得, 忍到痾到損晒 (果時我見幾天痾唔到, 就幫佢吱半支甘油泵放便, 因為佢忍到食唔到野, 坐唔到椅)

到4歲大才無問題, 而家每天黃昏沖涼前, 就會坐廁所開大, 係定時定候果只, 除非肚痛或肚痾另計

我仔既方法係... 買左一塊亞仔心愛既卡通廁板 (米奇), 咁初時就每晚沖涼前, 都會講 ... 米奇話好悶, 想你陪佢坐下, 咁先叫佢坐, 如是者唔抗拒坐廁板, 就開始好似我地細過, 亞媽兜我地時所發出既聲音, 叫佢一齊做; 如是者, 不需洗一星期, 我仔就 ok 左

作者: iuman 時間: 12-3-21 22:11

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未試過，可以試下。多謝你ge建議

作者: iuman 時間: 12-3-21 22:17

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thx for ur sharing!I'll try~

作者: iuman 時間: 12-3-21 22:18

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真系甘wor，我個仔就系講得好好，應該系背，但系就系做唔到。

作者: iuman 時間: 12-3-21 22:19

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好似好有用，我都去買塊廁板試下先，多謝你。

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