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作者: smallfoothk 時間: 12-2-20 09:32 標題: 有改懶惰的方法提供嗎?
知不停要温習是很悶,提不起勁的,但時間得咁少,温下又要休息,又話去洗手間,又話要食嘢,咁點都温不夠,有改懶惰的方法提供嗎?
作者: ANChan59 時間: 12-2-20 14:09
年三十晚去買懶.....
作者: 咖哩媽 時間: 12-2-20 14:23
我個仔又係咁, 做一樣功課要休息十分鐘.
作者: ziyi 時間: 12-2-20 14:27
有的話..我都想要....
作者: ANChan59 時間: 12-2-20 15:16
咖哩媽 發表於 12-2-20 14:23 
我個仔又係咁, 做一樣功課要休息十分鐘.
作者: JOSEPHINE_LAU 時間: 12-2-20 17:41
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作者: Laputa 時間: 12-2-20 17:44
Your objective : 改懶惰的方法 would never work. You need to think about motivation. e.g. agree 20 minutes playing time after 20 minutes study time. Always remind him you really would like to play with him and he just need to focus for 20 minutes. gradually increase the study time when you think he's ready.
作者: YLMom 時間: 12-2-20 18:02
Maybe it is just a dream : try to make the kids interested in studying, so that there is no need to force them (and even no need to use any incentive). Well, it is not easy. But perhaps if they find that they can score higher after studying, they may have more interests to study? Oh, maybe I am just dreaming ............
作者: ANChan59 時間: 12-2-20 18:15
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But perhaps if they find that they can score higher after studying, they may have more interests to study? Oh, maybe I am just dreaming ............
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Your dream may come true..... but take some time........
My son worked a bit harder at G9/F3, the performance was improved accordingly; then he said "No pain, no gain...". Once he ticked, no need to worry too much now.
作者: ANChan59 時間: 12-2-20 18:59
A_Mum
You are right, I am wrong. 買賣不分，抵俾妳瘀。
ANChan59
作者: gifthoney 時間: 12-2-20 19:27
A-Mum, how old is your son? Do you think boys are in general less hardworking than girls?
作者: A-Mum 時間: 12-2-20 19:46
Hi, gifthoney! My boy is in P3 now. I think generally speaking, boys mature later than girls. And he has an extra excuse. His Dad only started working hard at F4！We can only hope that he will turn out as ok...
I remember you have a very smart girl? You also have a boy?
作者: gifthoney 時間: 12-2-20 20:23
Wow, you have good memory. I don't have any boy. My girl is as naughty as a boy. So one is enough for me! Ha ha!
(My girl is smart perhaps, but definitely not as smart as your girl!) 
作者: wonderlulu 時間: 12-2-20 23:15
孩子集中力弱, 小休好似MILESTONE咁, 佢先有心機同你急, 。
作者: vincher 時間: 12-2-21 00:16
有！趕0吾趕得切？多生1個！
若果又是懶0既，比較下，原本他已不懶 或
若果生了一個不懶0既，有競爭便有進步
作者: gifthoney 時間: 12-2-21 09:44
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嘩! 好偉大的方法! 但最怕倒轉頭連不懶惰那個都學懶埋! 
作者: A-Mum 時間: 12-2-21 12:38
我用緊呢條橋喎！阿妹記性好，我將D is, are, have, has rules 教佢一次，再同哥哥玩 quiz. 刺激哥哥俾心机學好D!
作者: A-Mum 時間: 12-2-21 12:58
覆 smallfoothk, 你咁用心，實揾到方法幫佢嘅，慢慢試吓唔同方法啦！
作者: IntotheSea 時間: 12-2-21 18:04
咁睇法個問題係悶唔係懶喎…
作者: 黃巴士 時間: 12-2-21 19:14
smallfoothk 發表於 12-2-20 09:32
知不停要温習是很悶,提不起勁的,但時間得咁少,温下又要休息,又話去洗手間,又話要食嘢,咁點都温不夠,有改懶 ...
小朋友可能積壓左一些唔明白, 唔熟嘅嘢, 以致在學習上沒興趣. 又或者溫書方式有些悶......
作者: smallfoothk 時間: 12-2-21 20:23
本帖最後由 smallfoothk 於 12-2-21 20:24 編輯
佢要求
5分鐘做功課要玩15分鍾
作者: samsamchan 時間: 12-2-21 20:49 標題: 回覆：有改懶惰的方法提供嗎?
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作者: leedorean 時間: 12-2-21 21:42
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作者: motherotk 時間: 12-2-22 00:18
My son: reason to stop revision is boring over repeated pattern of learning, he need more new excitments in his learning
Solution: give him more books to read, less exercise to do...
My daughter: reason to stop revision becuase she cannot catch up with the course requirement, and because of her short attention
Solution: find some ways to keep her attention, break tasks into small tasks, repeat and repeat the same pattern...
Both work well so far for two..
作者: ANChan59 時間: 12-2-22 00:56
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Wonderful mom, interesting methods.....
作者: 黃巴士 時間: 12-2-22 13:30
本帖最後由 黃巴士 於 12-2-22 14:19 編輯
smallfoothk 發表於 12-2-21 20:23
佢要求5分鐘做功課要玩15分鍾
只是數字問題, 你的囝囝在與你玩口術嗎??? 仲有15分鐘是玩咩呢??? 玩具, 打機, 看TV.....
10分鐘對比30分鍾. 20分鐘對比1小時. 如果按一般正常小學生生活, 真要拿出來計算, 玩的時間一定多於STUDY的. 除非假期, DINNER, 看TV, READING等時間都在溫書. 食飯有時都會看一齊看TV, 咁依段時間計唔計埋在他的15分鐘玩的內???
仲有, 如果要協商, 咁係米完成了功課又要"獎"又可以玩呢?? 我諗如果係咁, 你真會周身唔得閒.
相信先整理好其態度問題, 有了正面態度, 再去共同面對書本上的障礙. -- 當中可能都要花上頗長時間 (但來日方長, 可慢慢容忍)
俾小朋友知道, 1) 他一定有玩的時間, 要爭取去"玩"就要先攪掂自己D嘢. 2) 唔明的書本, 媽咪盡力去幫助面對&解決. 大家一同去努力, 唔好輸俾本書.
"玩"本來就是依果年紀小朋友應有的. 在於是如何分配時間, 分配去玩什麼??
作者: 最愛 時間: 12-2-22 14:48
不如你叫個仔去考劍橋英文
話係考cert好重要既
睇下可唔可以令佢努力
不過都係軟功重要
作者: opriority 時間: 12-2-22 23:41
最愛 發表於 12-2-22 14:48
不如你叫個仔去考劍橋英文
話係考cert好重要既
睇下可唔可以令佢努力
話係考cert對你升班好重要
佢先叫做係咁二讀下
作者: woodst 時間: 12-2-23 14:45
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作者: 黃巴士 時間: 12-2-23 14:52
本帖最後由 黃巴士 於 12-2-23 15:32 編輯
無捷徑了!! 語文不是一朝一夕. 細過都話冧吓, 都咁大過仔, 唯有"迫"佢溫佢識果d先. 如: 只是死讀的常識. cut佢"玩"嘅時間. 督住佢讀. 叫佢讀出聲...
作者: Mymaggie 時間: 12-2-23 19:55
我自己都改唔到，何況自己的孩子，所以我無要求囡囡改，但要學得聰明些，未夠聰明咪花多些時間溫習囉，有好成績才有資格懶。
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