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標題: 有無人9月仔做超大仔? 可以分享經驗嗎? [打印本頁]

作者: iloveal 時間: 11-12-8 15:43 標題: 有無人9月仔做超大仔? 可以分享經驗嗎?

9月出生唔大唔太細, 想做大b 讓他準備好些才入小學, 唔想repeat怕對小朋友自信心有影響, 我就諗咁不如一開始就遲一年入學, 從pn開始.
唔知有無家長是這樣做呢?

作者: Yipapa 時間: 11-12-8 16:23

You may consider to be Small kid for a year and then Super Big Kid in the following year

Some of the KGs have a cut-off interview month in Oct (e.g. KV) So you may miss some of the chance if you plan to be super Big B in the first beginning

作者: wishwong 時間: 11-12-8 16:45

其實有好多幼稚園都會放超大仔o係SECOND PRIORITY... 除非小朋友真係追唔上.. 我覺得9月仔冇需要做超大仔... 因為真係好大~~

作者: iloveal 時間: 11-12-8 16:49 標題: 回復 2# Yipapa 的帖子

Thanks Yipapa. Do you think I can also consider to repeat for my Sep born baby boy? I know there are many parents choose to repeat for Nov/Dec babies but I don't really hear any Sep baby repeating to be super big kid.
Besides, I have a target kindergarten and I may be able have higher chance to get PN offer if he is super big kid and i don't have to worry or think about repeating for the coming 4 years in my target kindy if he starts at PN class.

I want to know if any parents have this plan or experience or my idea is just not recommended.

Cheers

作者: hosuper 時間: 11-12-8 16:50

Which kindergartens accept Sept bb for their PN classes as most of them only accept up to Aug bb ?

作者: iloveal 時間: 11-12-8 16:51 標題: 回復 5# hosuper 的帖子

I am talking about Super big (previous year) Sep born babies.

作者: BeBeMa1012 時間: 11-12-8 16:51

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作者: iloveal 時間: 11-12-8 16:52

原帖由 wishwong 於 11-12-8 16:45 發表
其實有好多幼稚園都會放超大仔o係SECOND PRIORITY... 除非小朋友真係追唔上.. 我覺得9月仔冇需要做超大仔... 因為真係好大~~

何以見得好多幼稚園放超大仔係2nd priority? 你咁講我真係好担心!

作者: Yipapa 時間: 11-12-8 17:13

September baby is really a tough case

Mine is a Dec baby and I choose to repeat in K1, IF there is a much better kindergarten for my kid this year

I think for Sep baby, you can try yourself if the kid can catch up on their own.  If not, you still have a chance in the next years.  Though there may be less choices then

However, if you are sure your kid can get a very good KG as being the Super Big baby, and it is the best one on your list,  you can save all these hassels.

To be honest, going through the interview process in 2 consecutive years  is not funny and indeed painful

作者: iloveal 時間: 11-12-8 17:22

原帖由 Yipapa 於 11-12-8 17:13 發表
September baby is really a tough case

Mine is a Dec baby and I choose to repeat in K1, IF there is a much better kindergarten for my kid this year

I think for Sep baby, you can try yourself if the ...

I really like your feedback! Maybe you are exactly telling my thought deep inside my heart that I don't have guts to execute!

My no.1 priority kindergarten will have PN interview result Mar next year. And if they offer my son a place, I can still decide to go for its PN or the existing K1 offer (another kg) on hand.

Then the question for me is whether I should defer 1 year for my Sep born son to start his school journey.

作者: wishwong 時間: 11-12-8 17:34

My suggestion is you have to check whether your target P1 accept super large son first.

I read from forum saying for those who apply PN this year,, they will give priority to those born in Year 2010 first and consider Year 2009 afterwards. If I remember correctly, Cannan is one of the examples.

Even you decided to repeat, it seems better to repeat K1 instead of PN. As PN has not much to learn.

作者: Yipapa 時間: 11-12-8 17:34

原帖由 iloveal 於 11-12-8 17:22 發表

I really like your feedback! Maybe you are exactly telling my thought deep inside my heart that I don't have guts to execute!

My no.1 priority kindergarten will have PN interview result Mar next ye ...

Hope you get your No 1 Kindergarten by March. Pls make sure that the PN has the straight-through train to the K1 wor.

作者: wishwong 時間: 11-12-8 17:42

In fact,, I think unless that PN is a one dragon school which can offer Primary or even Secondary offer, it is quite hard to convince to be super super big son at this stage. As it is not guaranteed the kid can get good P1 offer if he repeat PN.

Another choice is to repeat K3 if he cannot get good P1 offer.

作者: iloveal 時間: 11-12-8 17:44

My son is not attending any PN class this year. So, going to kindergarten (no matter K1 or PN) is a new experience to him anyway. I don't really mind if he learns more or less in his first year. Repeating K1 with similar curriculum doesn't seem to be better than learning progressively (PN then K1) by building stronger foundation at early years. This is my personal opinion and would like to hear any other (or counter) comments so that i can study this topic thoroughly before making decision.

Thanks!

作者: iloveal 時間: 11-12-8 17:55

原帖由 wishwong 於 11-12-8 17:42 發表
In fact,, I think unless that PN is a one dragon school which can offer Primary or even Secondary offer, it is quite hard to convince to be super super big son at this stage. As it is not guaranteed ...

yes, you're right that it won't guarantee a good P1 offer to start a year later. but it applies the same if I take the existing K1 offer. Although this allows me a chance to repeat K3, this is not what i want because I saw many cases repeating K3 will greatly impact kid's confidence and we have to carefully deal with their feelings with good explanation to them. also, K3 kids will have their own thought and will whethere they want to repeat or not. They have established friendship with their classmates and may have hope for promoting to P1 as his/her classmates together.

作者: wishwong 時間: 11-12-8 17:55

I think you have already made up your mind - i.e. if that PN accepts your kid, you will go ahead.

Do you just want someone to agree you as it is a rare example?

In fact, every kid should have at least 20 years to study in his life, 1 year deferral really not that important. In other countries like Australia & US, kids only start Kindergarten since 4-5 years old (& it is even not 5 days school). It is just Hong Kong have such distorted arrangement for kids and push everything early to happen.

作者: iloveal 時間: 11-12-8 18:02

原帖由 wishwong 於 11-12-8 17:55 發表
I think you have already made up your mind - i.e. if that PN accepts your kid, you will go ahead.

Do you just want someone to agree you as it is a rare example?

In fact, every kid should have at le ...

I want to explore here any parents had the experience or the same thought like me. it's a really lifelong decision and I really worry I would make the wrong decision for my son.

You're absolutely right! Other countries have a more relaxed siutation than HK has. But the fact is I'm living in HK and am not sure this decision will give my son hard time in his future.

作者: iloveal 時間: 11-12-8 18:06

原帖由 Yipapa 於 11-12-8 17:34 發表

Hope you get your No 1 Kindergarten by March. Pls make sure that the PN has the straight-through train to the K1 wor.

Thanks Yipapa. Yes, it is a through train to K1.

作者: hophopbunny 時間: 11-12-8 18:08

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作者: iloveal 時間: 11-12-8 18:22

原帖由 hophopbunny 於 11-12-8 18:08 發表
好少聽人repeat PN，除非寶山或SPN

我唔係repeat PN 呀. 簡單d講, 係9月bb遲一年入學咋.

作者: littlenstar 時間: 11-12-8 19:27 標題: 回復 14# iloveal 的帖子

iloveal, I have the same question and worry...

My son is 0909, studying PN and I m applying K1 for him. I like LH and TT but both failed to get offer. LH's PN 2012/13 accept kids fr 1sep2009 but I really think he is too big in a PN class next year esp. he is mature and knows a lot already...

V worry!!

作者: summother 時間: 11-12-9 09:41

原帖由 littlenstar 於 11-12-8 19:27 發表
iloveal, I have the same question and worry...

My son is 0909, studying PN and I m applying K1 for him. I like LH and TT but both failed to get offer. LH's PN 2012/13 accept kids fr 1sep2009 but I r ...

Same case here, my daughter is 0909B. She also failed to get an offer from LH, TT, SC. I will try to apply LH and SC PN. I am waiting for the result from KM. If we can get an offer from KM, my gal no need to repeat PN.

作者: markbean 時間: 11-12-9 10:13

9月出世如果做大仔/囡, 好似真係太大了...

我大囡都係9月出世, 係班裡面係偏細, 但又細唔哂, 我都AGREE WITH其他MAMMY講, 你CHECK清楚小一D學校收唔收讀遲一年的9月B先好做LEE個決定, 我真係未聽過9月出世小朋友讀遲一年.

作者: wong0723 時間: 11-12-9 10:38

my son is 0910 bb. Now he only speak single few words. i also think to let him to be big boy.. do you think OK????

作者: 小幸子 時間: 11-12-9 13:22

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作者: marinang 時間: 11-12-9 13:30

Personally, I don't agree the big boy/girl concept, my girl is 0909, she is super shy and didn't response for any interviews (except the 1st two got accepted -> York and SJC) however, both are not my target schools, I still want her to continue her normal education year with all 2009 babies, either staying in her nursery school or add oil for future interviews. Because when I observe my ex-classmates (20+ years ago school age), we have top students borned between Oct to Dec in Primary studies, Secondary and University, and of course, there are 100x reasons behind that I am not interested to find out. What I want to point out is, there is no meaning to compete in the very beginning in kinder, but I will perfer to step backward to look the results for the whole education journey. (1 year can finish a master degree, why as a mother, I will waster my kid's 1 year time.)

作者: Himmi 時間: 11-12-9 14:01

我唔知有無誤解你既意思﹐你系想下年先比拒讀PN﹐跟住個年先繼續K1﹖
我覺得你唔應該甘讀.... 除非你間PN有K1接住上而系一定會比位你繼續讀。如果唔系你個超大B讀完PN﹐下年D K1個個都唔會收0909 B﹐你幫唔到拒報學校窩。連收超大B的PC下年都會cut到0911﹐無學校收你張form啵~~ 你應該報K1﹐讀到下學期真係覺得BB追唔上﹐先同元校講想重讀﹐大部份有需要學校都會比拒重讀。
我自己個系0809B﹐今年仲有得報PC做超大B﹐不過PC收唔收我都可能會比拒重讀K1﹐都有同老師傾過下學期會決定。

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作者: iloveal 時間: 11-12-9 14:32 標題: 回復 21# littlenstar 的帖子

I sent you PM. please check.

作者: iloveal 時間: 11-12-9 14:44

原帖由 markbean 於 11-12-9 10:13 發表
9月出世如果做大仔/囡, 好似真係太大了...

我大囡都係9月出世, 係班裡面係偏細, 但又細唔哂, 我都AGREE WITH其他MAMMY講, 你CHECK清楚小一D學校收唔收讀遲一年的9月B先好做LEE個決定, 我真係未聽過9月出世小朋友讀 ...

點解會有小一學校唔收之前一年的9月b? 我知大抽獎都係小一開學之前未滿七歲就可以參加. 咁之前一年的9月尾出世又真係未滿七歲 (六歲十一個月). 所以我以為無問題咋. 等我再問清楚先. 謝謝!

我問過幼稚園校長, 佢話所有小學老師都係鐘意大仔, 係容易教好多.

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作者: iloveal 時間: 11-12-9 14:48

原帖由 summother 於 11-12-9 09:41 發表

Same case here, my daughter is 0909B. She also failed to get an offer from LH, TT, SC. I will try to apply LH and SC PN. I am waiting for the result from KM. If we can get an offer from KM, my gal n ...

Girls are more mature and develop faster than boys for 1 to 1.5 years. So 0909 born girl is not really a problem to admit to K1 next year. Hope you can get KM offer for your gal! Add Oil!

作者: iloveal 時間: 11-12-9 14:51

原帖由 wong0723 於 11-12-9 10:38 發表
my son is 0910 bb. Now he only speak single few words. i also think to let him to be big boy.. do you think OK????

I have quite a few friends around me also have small boys like 0810, and they also decided to repeat K1 in 2012/2013. I think this is getting more common now.

作者: QQilky 時間: 11-12-9 14:54

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作者: iloveal 時間: 11-12-9 14:58

原帖由 Himmi 於 11-12-9 14:01 發表
我唔知有無誤解你既意思﹐你系想下年先比拒讀PN﹐跟住個年先繼續K1﹖
我覺得你唔應該甘讀.... 除非你間PN有K1接住上而系一定會比位你繼續讀。如果唔系你個超大B讀完PN﹐下年D K1個個都唔會收0909 B﹐你幫唔到拒報學校窩。連 ...

我想讀的PN是可以真升原校K1的. 所以我先會有呢個想法. 如果唔係我都唔會考慮. 會比佢先讀有OFFER的K1, 下年再REPEAT.

想問你是什麼原因要為你0809的仔仔REPEAT K1 呢? 你有打算讀什麼類型小學呢?

作者: summother 時間: 11-12-9 15:03 標題: 回復 34# iloveal 的帖子

My girls can speak full sentence and follow your instruction. But she is very shy, so she didn't have good performance during the interview. We got an offer from Our Lady and SN only which are not our targets. Luckily, she have outstanding performance during KM interview (I never see my shy daughter can answer all questions to the stranger).

I checked SC, KM and LH also accept 0909BB to apply PN this year. So far I know KM and LN are 100% promoted to K1.

作者: larry_kawin 時間: 11-12-9 15:13

要repeat做大仔唔一定如想像中容易, 最好還是先讀K1, 到出年再睇下有無好啲幼稚園收.

宜家好多人做大仔, 幼稚園interview時對大仔要求會高啲, 而且小朋友三歲再int K1已經開始有自己主見, interview時失準機會都唔細, 所以要三思呀.

作者: iloveal 時間: 11-12-9 15:13

原帖由 marinang 於 11-12-9 13:30 發表
...there is no meaning to compete in the very beginning in kinder, but I will perfer to step backward to look the results for the whole education journey. (1 year can finish a master degree, why as a mother, I will waster my kid's 1 year time.)

Don't take me wrong.  I don't mean to let my son being big kid because I want him to compete better in kinder stage.  Instead, I do this is just because I really view the whole 20+ years of study as a whole education journey.  That's why I don't think deferring 1 year is a waste of his time.  It's rather to let him build a better foundation for his basic development in early years before feeding him the over his standard academic learnings.  HK has a very strange education environment.  All schools and kids are learning things at least 1 year higher than their age/level.
Like what I discussed with Wishwong in earlier posts, she also pointed out that overseas education even send kids to kg until 4/5 years old.  There are even some schools overseas arrange boys to start school a year later.

It's right that if you look back to your ex classmates there are cases with outstanding students born in Oct-Dec.  it's because the development of boys will catch up with girls until teenages(late primary or secondary school).  and by secondary school, the development discrepancy between boys/girls or Jan born with Dec born will be diminished or even not exist.

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作者: iloveal 時間: 11-12-9 15:25

原帖由 larry_kawin 於 11-12-9 15:13 發表
要repeat做大仔唔一定如想像中容易, 最好還是先讀K1, 到出年再睇下有無好啲幼稚園收.

宜家好多人做大仔, 幼稚園interview時對大仔要求會高啲, 而且小朋友三歲再int K1已經開始有自己主見, interview時失準機會都唔 ...

謝謝提點! 多謝你的意見! 這正是我開這thread的目的, 想聽多d各方意見. 怕自己考慮不夠周全.

作者: wishwong 時間: 11-12-9 15:33

I think if you decided to stay in the same K for PN to K3. It will be fine.. But if you will apply another K for K1 or K2, then have to think carefully as other parents stated before, more & more Ks not accept super big son like PC. Then your choice will be limited... i.e. 唔上唔落~

作者: iloveal 時間: 11-12-9 15:35

oh my god! why so many posts have been deleted?!

作者: gisoleung 時間: 11-12-9 15:39

最明智係..最好找到一間幼稚園讀住先..如果出年真係做唔到大B(無人收)都起碼有得讀呀~~唔好想太多啦..小朋友發展可快可慢..可能佢追得上其他1-8月D小朋友呢!追唔上先比佢重讀!

作者: iloveal 時間: 11-12-9 16:07 標題: 回復 29# wishwong 的帖子

Wishwong, yes! I understand the limitation. So that's why I want to hear more comments here.

I don't know why there are about 10 posts have been deleted here and those are all very valuable discussions! pity pity..>.<

I'm so happy to see those constructive feedback and discussion provided to me. BK server must get something wrong.

作者: manman0808 時間: 11-12-9 16:10

U also need to think about how will your son feel about it when he goes to primary school.

In kindergarten, he may not know he is super BIG compare to others. However, when he is in primary school, most of his classmates were born in 2010, and then your son was born in Sep 09, he may ask himself what is the problems with me? Why I am older than other people even more than a year.....

Unless you can guaranteed that your son can go to a school like SPK, PC.... this kind of one dragon school.

作者: iloveal 時間: 11-12-9 16:19

原帖由 manman0808 於 11-12-9 16:10 發表
...However, when he is in primary school, most of his classmates were born in 2010, and then your son was born in Sep 09, he may ask himself what is the problems with me? Why I am older than other people even more than a year.....
, ...

Good point! thanks for reminder!

But why there is no problem for kid to be super big boy in PC or SPK ? There will also be kids are small and a year younger.

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作者: larry_kawin 時間: 11-12-9 16:46

我個B係12月B, 宜家讀K1, 本來都諗住比佢repeat. 但係, 又好似好無謂, 佢好似未至於完全跟唔上. 我都擔心佢上小學後會覺得自己點解大人o地咁多.

另外, pc, spc本來就相對地收比較多大仔, 所以小朋友未必咁覺自己大左

作者: 開心小花 時間: 11-12-9 17:03

如果係細B真係報咗K1, 有學校收就讀咗先. 明年再以大B身份再報競爭激烈的學校. 因為, 都見唔少媽媽分享, 學校係in 大B時, 要求又會高D. 未必一定收硬. 另外, 見有post話協恩今年考K1係只係考慮09年的小朋友, 大B當係插班. 難保明年其他學校唔行同一政策. 如果, 明年學校收生政策變, 到時小朋友真係唔上唔落.

作者: summother 時間: 11-12-9 17:15

我個女宜家都讀緊PN, 宜家都有2間K1 offer (但係不是太心儀), 我會報一些好D有PN的KG (e.g. SC, KM, LH, etc), 如果有幸收O左, 咁我個女出年一定可以直升K1, 出年唔洗又報K1

如果我選擇讀一間無咁心儀的K1, 出年就算可以再報心儀的KG都未必一定有offer....真係好難決策

作者: LUCUSMaMa 時間: 11-12-9 17:20

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作者: iloveal 時間: 11-12-9 17:25

原帖由 summother 於 11-12-9 17:15 發表
我個女宜家都讀緊PN, 宜家都有2間K1 offer (但係不是太心儀), 我會報一些好D有PN的KG (e.g. SC, KM, LH, etc), 如果有幸收O左, 咁我個女出年一定可以直升K1, 出年唔洗又報K1

如果我選擇讀一間無咁心儀的K1, 出年就 ...

完全同意!! 有一樣的煩惱

作者: iloveal 時間: 11-12-9 17:27

原帖由 LUCUSMaMa 於 11-12-9 17:20 發表
我個係0809B, 佢今年已經讀緊K1(無讀過PN), 但係今年都有申請宣道K1, 因我很喜歡宣道既小學, 希望佢如果真係入左就大機會D上宣小, 點知下年取消學卷, 而且佢讀緊既學校我覺得非常滿意, 一動不如一靜, 同時真係入左宣 ...

你話會跟細b行為的一點, 十分有point! 謝謝意見!

作者: larry_kawin 時間: 11-12-9 18:02

係呀, repeat k1, 阿仔可能覺得無聊, 畢竟好多嘢已經學過一次. 如果n1, 就更加大問題了

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