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作者: louisachau 時間: 11-11-17 00:09 標題: 做細仔/大仔??

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作者: 123onebaby 時間: 11-11-17 00:16 標題: 回復 1# louisachau 的帖子

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作者: ronniedad 時間: 11-11-17 00:27

咁讀完今年出年唔可以讀多年K1?

作者: feiji 時間: 11-11-17 00:32

So is your son studying PN now? If so, then you can let him repeat K1 ah.

作者: louisachau 時間: 11-11-17 00:45

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作者: WCYH 時間: 11-11-17 01:27

我仔剛三歲，中英文認得很多字，能讀書和簡單串字，他常寫字填色，小肌肉好，以上是他常做的，沒迫他，自理能力尚可，但情緒麻麻，不懂便發脾氣，做大仔好過細，免他跟人一樣得個喊字，因我想佢成熟一點

作者: anteater 時間: 11-11-17 07:08

做大仔頭幾年好處多,容易入名幼稚園,多機會,而且常常做到班內的頭幾名,所有野得來好容易,不過到了十歲到當大家智力拉近,小朋友落後的會在這時候後來居上,俾其他同學過頭,就要小心處理,要懂得接受失敗,面對壓力,考頭幾名不再是容易事了,所以做得大仔,要好好KEEP住,是先甜後苦的經歷,12月出生做大仔都可以接受,但10,11月都話要做大仔其實都係好似出貓!跟本頭幾年一定叻過人囉!!!!
我個人較喜歡小朋友後來居上的感覺,成功需苦幹,細仔可能頭幾年上堂幾似一舊雲,但係佢其實默默地吸收,不過到佢來料的時候,你會慶幸沒有花多一年REPEAT.當然在他的成長過程,是需要好好栽培的

作者: feiji 時間: 11-11-17 08:25

My family members are all primary and secondary school teachers and they all think that it is better to be big boys.

作者: cmir 時間: 11-11-17 08:48

you can get into K1 first and consider repeat K2 instead. Sometimes you can't really tell their actual ability until K2 when they have to write. What they learn in PN & K1 is mostly concerned their 自理能力 and moral education.

作者: evacalbee 時間: 11-11-17 09:08 標題: 回復 8# anteater 的帖子

同意得不得了!!
做大仔係呃緊佢，佢以為自己係叻，其實拖左一年。比佢做細，可以跟大哥哥大姐姐學習，好過做大仔同bb一齊玩啦。

作者: crownsky 時間: 11-11-17 09:32

我個B都係12月B,我仲無N班offer,淨係有K1offer都唔知點好!有諗過到時repeat K1做細仔!

作者: evacalbee 時間: 11-11-17 09:35

而家八九成父母都覺得要比年尾出世的小朋友做大仔大女，有d朋友仲話我唔比仔仔都大仔好傻，人人都係咁做，我咁樣害左佢云云。
其實與其要小朋友讀五六年幼稚園，不如父母勤力d，同小朋友多d溫習，好過只係依賴老師教多一年兩年甚至三年。

作者: haydenden1023 時間: 11-11-17 09:45

原帖由 anteater 於 11-11-17 07:08 發表
做大仔頭幾年好處多,容易入名幼稚園,多機會,而且常常做到班內的頭幾名,所有野得來好容易,不過到了十歲到當大家智力拉近,小朋友落後的會在這時候後來居上,俾其他同學過頭,就要小心處理,要懂得接受失敗,面對壓力,考頭 ...

很好的分享, 我B係0810, 而家讀緊K1, 好開心
不過我今年都有報培正, 因為上年無得報
如果...只係如果培正收左
你又會唔會建議讀呢?

或者其他家長你地又會點睇..
謝謝

[ 本帖最後由 haydenden1023 於 11-11-17 09:47 編輯 ]

作者: fc1111 時間: 11-11-17 11:45

我個女0911，11月中個只，自己懂得上厠所/吃飯等自理能力，8-10塊的拼圖可以自己拼好，可以將自己的意思用簡單但完整的句子說出來。。。自4月開始讀了6個月PG，因爲10月開始要in K1, 所以沒再繼續讀。。因爲細，一直找不到家附近的PN，後來找到一家國際學校，報了名，明年2月插班讀PN。。。至今in了11家K1（裏面沒有村校，因爲in PN時對家附近的村校以年齡取人有點不滿），在已放榜的5家，其中3家被左Offer，2家waiting。。。。我並不是在這裡想說我女兒厲害或什麽的，而是以我女兒這樣子，我看不到讓她去做明年大B的需要，讓不讓小朋友做大B還是細B，我覺得應該看他們的能力，順其自然，勉強讓一個有能力的細B去做大B，那是在壓殺他們的能力，浪費他們時間；而勉強讓一個能力還沒有跟得上大B的小朋友去跟大B比較，那也是在摧毀他們的自信心。。。作爲父母的都想為子女做到最好，但是，在做決定前，請看看子女到底需要些什麽。

作者: 1001jenny 時間: 11-11-17 11:55 標題: 回復 14# haydenden1023 的帖子

我同你一樣，我B係0810, 而家讀緊K1, 好開心。我都報左培正同埋GH，聽人講2間的幼稚園都好淺，擔心重讀真係浪費咗時間，但又好恨“一條龍”，唔使3年後更大壓力。

作者: haydenden1023 時間: 11-11-17 12:04

原帖由 1001jenny 於 11-11-17 11:55 發表
我同你一樣，我B係0810, 而家讀緊K1, 好開心。我都報左培正同埋GH，聽人講2間的幼稚園都好淺，擔心重讀真係浪費咗時間，但又好恨“一條龍”，唔使3年後更大壓力。 ...

而家都唔洗諗住
以我所知因為培正上年只接受8月前申請
今年有好年08小朋友都報左
都唔係O甘容易收
不過見到呢個post, 所以問下

其實收o既機會都唔會好大~

作者: 1001jenny 時間: 11-11-17 12:13

其實都當買六合彩，中到咪好了，中唔到都正常。

作者: chanchinsang 時間: 11-11-17 12:29 標題: 回覆 4# fc1111 的文章

agree. I guess it depends on the child and to me my boy is 0911 small B, and he is yet to pick up with other kids borned in the same year so I don't mind to let him repeat for no other reason but his Confidence. I don't want him to lose confidence in his early age !

作者: wishwong 時間: 11-11-17 12:40

有K1就讀咗先... 如果下年發覺跟唔到就REPEAT.. 但我PREFER唔好O係同一間學校REPEAT.. 驚影響小朋友自信心~

作者: anteater 時間: 11-11-17 16:03

培正特別多超大仔,學校對收生有準則,如果真係收左你個仔,証明培正覺得你個仔適合讀,每個人想法都不同,你是否真正喜歡培正?你了解培正嗎?聽聞培正小學的家長花很多時間在學業上,只差0.5分,名次也可以跌4,5名,你可以應付這些來自家長互相競爭比較的壓力嗎?你的孩子是受教型嗎?(如果不是,上小學入培正會很辛苦嗎?)
我建議你應從孩子性格和能力去選擇合適的學校,注意沒有"所謂的名校,只有適合你的學校"

原帖由 haydenden1023 於 11-11-17 09:45 發表

很好的分享, 我B係0810, 而家讀緊K1, 好開心
不過我今年都有報培正, 因為上年無得報
如果...只係如果培正收左
你又會唔會建議讀呢?

或者其他家長你地又會點睇..
謝謝 ...

[ 本帖最後由 anteater 於 11-11-17 16:07 編輯 ]

作者: pandabonita 時間: 11-11-17 22:25

係bk會聽到一d細b成功的例子,同時亦有d興幸repeat 左做大b的mami,佢地的經驗只可作參考但未必可apply到係你身上,因為環境和小朋友發展/能力不會一樣,所以只有你自己才會最清楚自己小朋友,問題係除非所讀的kg很深或小朋友明顯的追不上,k1/k2的評估很難會知道小朋友的能力可否應付小一,我可說自己就要放比較多一些的時間在囡囡的學業上,但5一定有相等的回報,選做細b就要預埋lei樣野.

[ 本帖最後由 pandabonita 於 11-11-17 22:27 編輯 ]

作者: feiji 時間: 11-11-17 22:52

If you read more books on parenting, you will find that all experts suggest boys should be big boys if there is such option. They draw this conclusion based on a lot of studies and real cases. My family members are teachers and they all agree that we should let the kids 足齡入學。因為體能和䐉部的發展爭少少就係爭少少，再講，跟本很多年前，九月後出世的小朋友是要遲一年入學的，但後來才放寬了，讓家長多個選擇。如果小朋友智力和體能兩方面都比他人優秀很多，做細仔當然可以，否則，點解唔俾佢自小開始輕鬆地學習？

作者: 萬樂豬 時間: 11-11-17 23:10

今日同朋友講開, 她說有朋友的囝囝就係 repeat 左k1 , 轉了另一間幼稚園, 個小朋友因為曾讀學過, 感覺 d 野太淺, 變得好鬆散....渾渾噩噩左 1 年, 所以 repeat 的話便要睇小朋友性格...

我囝囝都係細 b, 都諗緊點好.......

作者: feiji 時間: 11-11-17 23:20

有校長說repeat K2比較好,因k2多啲嘢學，而且可以考好啲成績攞去考小學。最好就K2時轉去一間較深的學校，或教科書完全唔同嘅學校，咁就唔會悶。不過話說回來，K2的學位緊張，所以repeat K1可能較穩陣。

作者: ting-ma 時間: 11-11-18 00:41

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作者: bon_bonny 時間: 11-11-18 00:42

我個女都係12月，我揀左做大B, 而且無比佢讀N, 讀書條路咁慢長，一開始左就要讀十幾廿年。不如遲一年玩多一年先啦！
我唔信遲一年入學會影響佢將來揾錢同揾老公嘅能力囉！

作者: rabbithung 時間: 11-11-18 02:01

其實做大仔OR細仔，視乎你想他將來入讀什麼類型小學。如果是直資，仲要名牌，一定是大仔優勝。如果將來只是大抽獎，便細仔都沒有問題。

我個女都係12月，我都揀左比她做大B，希望她在幼稚園階段開開心心，不要一起步便落後他人。無論入到什麼小學都不緊要，因為我相信她一定有自信去面對所有事情，不單只是學業上跟得上。

我都是過來人，我都是一名大B，雖然中小學階段會覺得自已大過其他同學。入到大學，什麼年紀的同學都有，其實都沒有什麼所謂。

作者: feiji 時間: 11-11-18 09:36

I think even if you don't mind what primary school your kid go to, it is always good to let him be a Big Boy, coz he will grow up confidently. He will be physically and mentally ready for what he needs to learn at school. He don't need to always try to 'catch up' with the others. It will create a huge pressure on him if he feels that he is often behind the others. Does this feeling feel good? Of course not...

作者: sllau 時間: 11-11-18 09:40

自信心重要過一切，終生受用！

作者: feiji 時間: 11-11-18 09:52

Yes, my sister is a primary school teacher and she saw many cases of small b. They are often lack of confidence and even when they are P6, some of them are still behind, coz they have grown up without confidence. Very often in a P6 class, the top students tend to be the older kids and the bottom students tend to be the small kids. (of course there are rare cases of exceptions)
This implies that their level of confidence affect much on their development. Also, even if you think your small b is smarter than the others, you have to consider their physical development too. There are a lot of sports activities in school and their capability affect very much their self image. Only if your small b is both physically and mentally advanced than the others, you may consider letting him be small b, especially boys.

作者: whychan777 時間: 11-11-18 10:21

我以前都分唔開大仔細仔爭幾遠....
今年我個小朋友返n班........
其中一個係大仔, 佢架表現簡直係no. 1, 好快反應, 同埋井井有條, 坐定定, 未上堂時自己係度讀英文, 簡直吾敢想像同一班......
當老師問問題時好快有反應, 當然好得老師歡心啦...
其實真係好著數, 到老師要評估表現時......吾會因為佢年幾會減低架, 所以一定會好好成績........

作者: sllau 時間: 11-11-18 10:32

其實如果學校有觀課堂, 家長一定要去睇小朋友上堂情況, 就可以睇到小朋友有冇自信心, 明明係d野小朋友係識晒,點解佢一d都唔熱心舉手答問題, 只係望住其他小朋友做野...
成日見d家長話將repeat留返日後先用, 我想講日後小朋友長大,有自尊心,有自己既睇法...重讀比佢地大同學小小既打擊會更大啦...
教書朋友都說小學repeat,其實對個小朋友既正面影響不大, 學業成績唔見會大躍進, 反見自信心大大受挫, 更何況津校根本唔比重讀呢!!
點解唔比小朋友細細建立好自信心,讀得輕輕鬆鬆...

作者: sllau 時間: 11-11-18 10:34

學校有咩表演比賽大b機會都會多d...

原帖由 whychan777 於 11-11-18 10:21 發表
我以前都分唔開大仔細仔爭幾遠....
今年我個小朋友返n班........
其中一個係大仔, 佢架表現簡直係no. 1, 好快反應, 同埋井井有條, 坐定定, 未上堂時自己係度讀英文, 簡直吾敢想像同一班......
當老師問問題時好快有 ...

作者: Mabello6 時間: 11-11-18 13:44 標題: 回覆 28# WCYH 的文章

讚同, 我小囡在moral上比較不佳,

作者: ting-ma 時間: 11-11-18 22:58

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作者: 南瓜妹 時間: 11-11-18 23:08

12月做大仔啦，我個囝都係12月，佢係大仔，真係比其他小朋友叻d架

作者: Ryan_baba 時間: 11-11-19 00:18 標題: 回復 36# ting-ma 的帖子

依家係講緊9-12月出世嘅小朋友可以揀做大b定細b。而7-8月嘅小朋友係現在嘅制度下係冇得選擇，所以必須去面對。

作者: evacalbee 時間: 11-11-19 00:34

睇完大家講既野都覺得各有各o岩.
我兩個都係十月B, 仔仔叻, 做細B ok. 女女真係差dd, 但做大的話我又真係覺得太大...

都識得d repeat k1的小朋友話好悶,我都覺得係一個問題.

好矛盾, 我選擇自己努力d谷下佢... 但返工媽媽真係好難抽時間. catch up係辛苦, 但唔想就咁放棄.

我估大部份人選擇repeat, 都係唔想大家都辛苦?

或者咁諗, 考到好學校就值得repeat啦, 係咪?

作者: feiji 時間: 11-11-19 00:35

ting-ma,

Yes, I understand your point. There will be someone being the youngest in a class anyway. It is just that if there is a choice, try not to let him be the youngest (again, except that he is super advanced in physical and mental development). Second, the syllabus was originally designed for children at a certain age, e.g. in Hong Kong, for example, P1 program was originally designed for children above 6 years old. Sometimes a difference of 2 months would make a difference. Why would we push the kid from day 1 and why not we let them learn what they are capable to learn? Especially if yours is a boy, then I believe it is a good decision to let him be a big boy.

I let my son study in PN when he just reached 2 and now he is in K2. I feel that if I really want him to be a big b, it is time to make the decision, so I have decided to let him repeat K2. If I could make my decision all over again, I might let him attend playgroups only and then attend PN class as a big boy. I still remember he cried for many weeks when he began to go to school. Now when I look back, I feel that I could have made a better decision.

作者: feiji 時間: 11-11-19 00:41

evacalbee,

I want my son to be a big boy not because I want him to get into a famous school. Actually, I am not too worried about his performance in interviews, coz this is indeed his strong part. What I want is to let him learn happily, confidently and capably throughout the years. That's why I will let him repeat K2 instead of K3. I am considering switching to another school so that he would feel better and he won't be bored by learning the same text books all over again.

作者: 南瓜妹 時間: 11-11-19 04:01

12月做大仔啦，我個囝都係12月，佢係大仔，真係比其他小朋友叻d架

作者: ting-ma 時間: 11-11-19 22:51

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作者: stinkyrabbit111 時間: 11-11-20 07:44 標題: 回復 43# ting-ma 的帖子

my girl is 0712, this was exactly what i did with my girl, except I let her 插班 in pn...although my girl got sick quite often, but social skill & 自理 had definitely improved...

作者: joannechow1031 時間: 11-11-20 10:34

其實這是年年都有家長好煩惱的問題, 我果囡都係07年12月, 果時我都係佢in 咗先囉, 睇吓收唔收, 5間都有2間收咗, 而我最想佢入聖心和聖保祿都唔收, 但讀咗一年後, 發覺佢真係成長咗好多, 講嘢叻咗好多, 人又高咗好多, 到第二年, 考過果2間, 都係唔收, 都唔係因為大囡, 本身都係好難考, 又諗亞囡高過其他剛入學的k1小朋友好多, 思想和學習能力都無問題, 所以就比佢繼續讀, 所以如果家長只是因為想佢入d好學校, 個人case就覺得唔係一定大囝囡就入到, 特別是囡仔, 比囝成熟, 就算做細囡問題也不大!

作者: feiji 時間: 11-11-20 13:24

我都覺得女仔嘅發展平均係快過男仔一段距離。

作者: 1001jenny 時間: 11-11-21 10:25

去出名的嘅小學面試時，是否有足夠的時間讓一個小朋友去發揮他（她）的能力和潛能呢？還是同考多人競爭的幼稚園一樣，短短幾分鐘去揀人？如果同考幼稚園GUM，就真的細B蝕底的了

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